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Mr&MrsV

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Mr&MrsV last won the day on March 9 2013

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  1. This is something I've been pondering because we want to go to a club when Mr. V comes home and I'm lost as well... I hear people say that women dress sexy...but HOW sexy? I have a lot of pinup-style clothes and I often do a more modern day pin-up girl look when I go out and I find the clothes sexy but I still wonder if they're too tame for a club. I have no problem looking for sexier stuff but my question is how to do people get out of the house like that!? Do they wear a trench coat lol. Especially because we'd most likely want to have a nice dinner before hand. I'm thinking we will plan a night out in Seattle, get a hotel room, have a nice dinner wearing vanilla clothes then maybe come back to hotel to change and then head out to club. I've been thinking of wearing something like an overbust corset with a skirt (do women wear pants to these clubs or just dresses/skirts?) that I really love. Normally i wouldn't wear it out, I would wear it UNDER a dress or something or just to be hot around the house for Mr V but I was thinking it would work in a swingers club right?
  2. Good point and all my tats (and his) have their own personal significance... I'm very bonded with that ink so to speak (it's not painless!) so if someone was to just immediately dismiss me on that aspect that's fine their loss!... I'd rather be around like minded people who appreciated them and were genuinely interested in the stories behind them, or at least people who didn't judge on that aspect, but i see it no different than in the "vanilla" world.
  3. Thank you everyone! Appreciate the info, we thought there was only one club in Seattle area - that's why we're newbies
  4. Thanks that helps as well. Not sure where to find an "off premise" club. Our closest big city would be Seattle and I know there's an on premise club there, but don't know about anything else so when we're ready what's the best way to find out about these sorts gatherings that are less intimidating?
  5. We both have tats and we love tats on other people!!! Glad this topic has been discussed as I just (gasp) stepped outside my little bubble and tried to imagine how others view our tats if they were considering us in a sexual way. I've always been proud of my ink work and I think it's very tasteful but the Mr. has bluntly informed me in the past that while he finds my ink hot, a lot of men don't. It was kind of hard for me to take because I've always been considered attractive by men (pre-tats)...I love the way I look now with them but I never considered a man or woman might be now not find me attractive because of them. That being said.... I like my ink, I like his ink, I like ink on others... so I hope I see more of it!
  6. Ok so I realize I am on a swingers board (ultimately that's where my interest lies) however we are unsure how to begin getting our feet wet to gauge how it makes us feel. I see so many options like online profiles, clubs, parties, swingers cruises,events, and conventions. What is the best environment to start out having more alt experiences without jumping in blindly? Right now I think (If I'm accurately reading his comfort level and unsure of mine) we are thinking we could handle watching people, we could handle flirting/dancing/talking, we *might* be able to handle others watching us. I'm trying not to get too technical about it or get caught up in lingo but I feel like that's not really swinging yet I'd like to be an environment where that is what everyone else is there for. I went to a sex club long ago (in a previous relationship) and felt it was so not my scene... it was very seedy and so many men following us around with their cock in their hand waiting for the slightest hint they were going to get action watching us. I was totally turned off. I need to be in an environment where people aren't all seedy and understand respect and boundaries. Does that make sense? Is the best option an on premise club?
  7. Ok so I have a unique situation in that I was previously married 5 years to the love of my life and he sadly passed away 2 years ago. A few years into that relationship I brought it up but ultimately nothing came of it. I think both of us were bad communicators and frankly I was still really insecure...anyway we were always very open sexually (even went to a sex club once). Fast forward 2 years now I am in a committed monogamous relationship and we plan to marry June 2014. He is deployed and we have quite of bit of time to chat during his downtime from missions. It started out with him writing me very erotic emails detailing fantasies. I guess I started to roll with it and I have REALLY been enjoying all of the sexual chats we have. One day I had been reading an "anonymous confessions" post in a FB group and I saw SO many posts about spouses having affairs, cheating, lying...the sheer disregard and lack of love I saw in these confessions just shocked and scared me. Overcoming my husbands death has been the hardest thing I have ever done and our marriage wasn't perfect by any means but I imagined many more years. The thought of marrying someone AGAIN and taking all those risks - risks of years together - risks of infidelity and monotony just really started to scare me and thus began to re-visit my initial curiosity into a more alt lifestyle. I am the one that brought this up. Mr. V is willing to explore and research and see where it takes us but he has major reservations so we have agreed to take things really slow. Specifically he needs to come home and we need to spend time doting on each other! I think I only brought this up because I wanted to be honest with him that if we were going to marry that this is something that I would like to at least explore. I don't know where it will lead. We don't know what we are even comfortable with because we haven't been in these situations. We're trying to find a way to get our feet wet without making a choice we might later regret.
  8. Oh geez I'm brand new to this and just exploring the boards and this quite possible the LAST thing I needed to read! I have been the one bringing up this lifestyle to my s/o... If I brought him to this LS for just a little extra fun and this is what the result was... ugh it just makes nauseous reading this
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