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Mmmm...inNC

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About Mmmm...inNC

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    Male half of couple
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    Greensboro
  1. We love doing it outside and have taken advantage of numerous occaisions to do so. We don't try to get in situations where will be seen, but can't help but take some risks when we go to the beach as it is our favorite place to enjoy each other. One place is a State Park that is on an island on the ocean that has a spectacular beach along it's 2 1/2 mile length. The only access is by boat and a State Ferry so foot traffic starting 3/4 miles from the dock is often very modest. We have found ourselves on a number of occaisions in the water up to our shoulders doing the nasty with the ever watchful eye on the beach. The water is a neat place as has some stimulating qualities, I'm getting excited just thinking about it. We have also camped on the island and enjoyed ourselves on the beach at night, on the picnic table, behind the dunes... Mmmm... mmm .. good!
  2. The movie Lady Chatterly's lover deals with the subject of a disabled spouse who is encourages the other to take on a lover, it is poignant and erotic story. Mmmm...
  3. RA & J Thanks for the encouragement. After my last discussion with the wife, I am having a hard time imagining she will ever want to swing. I have learned a lot from reading posts at the Swinger?s Board and it helps me feel normal being able to read posts from other people with the same interest. Thanks to everyone who has shared their stories and advice. Mmmm...
  4. Pumperswife, thanks for the input! Before we were married, I had an occasion in which her girlfriend climbed into bed with us and my wife seemed to enjoy it, I definitely did! She never made a big deal about it and latter told me she had not planned this with the girlfriend. I did figure there would be more of this in our future. Several years latter the same girlfriend was married to a mutual friend of theirs and was visiting our home from out of state. During their visit I encouraged her to join them in bed, which she did. She returned not long after saying that her girlfriend had been sleeping at the time but woke up and through water on both herself and the husband. This seemed to be pretty much the end of the story, we all remained friends but never spoke of the incident. I have made some consistant attempts over the yeasr, in which I told her that I would like like to share her. These comments did not receive much reply, though there was a time when she appeared to be working on it with some guy she was attracted to. Patience is a virtue and after 23 years of marriage and I'm still trying to figure out what she is thinking. I have not had any sexual relationships outside of ours and can not think of anything that I have done that would make her not want to talk. After reading the posts, I have started to feel awkward in the fact that I claim a good and honest relationship. Mmmm...
  5. Innermost desires? I had posted on the BB about Fantasy / Reality in the quest for learning more about the difference between what I had been thinking and what my wife was interested in. I am now wondering if anyone can now relate experiences about: 1. when they themselves (wife) says no, but later acknowleges they were really wishing they could say yes to other sex partners 2. what it was that prevented them from saying yes and what it took for them to tell the truth about their innermost desires. Mmmm...
  6. Jimcat, I saw your earlier post and believe a club is the best idea. This would get us a lot closer to the experience and have lower risk. We have numerous clubs in the area. I am ready and hoping she will be so I can suggest the idea. My latest discussion with her suggested she is not even entertaining the idea. Mmmm...
  7. John, I like creative solutions! Yours is a good idea and in fact I have had an idea about visiting her hotel room when she is out of town on business as a secret lover. Mmmm...
  8. Thanks! Our marriage is a good one, for that I am a lucky guy. Mmmm...
  9. Soooo shot down... I had my open discussion with my wife last night about including someone else in bed and was told that the fantasy was fine but the reality would not.
  10. PCouple my last post did not make a lot sense, what I was trying to say was Stratecoupl post about some of the difficulties of swinging was a downer for me. Your experience with the friends and the attraction seems natural and a best case scenario and encouraging. Mmmm....
  11. PCouple - that sounds so uncomplicated! I was reading a post by Stratecoupl in the General Swingers "Taking a break" board that made me think I should rethink my interest. I do think a natural friendship amongst friends is great!
  12. Liza, There are some things that have been left out of my initial post for the sake of being concise, however as the dialogue and especially yours questioning 20 years of being open and honest are brought up, so have my thoughts on some of the experiences we did share and why the swinging aspect did not move forward before ( I had mentioned that there was some experience with more than the two of us, small as it may be). You are right twenty years of a good relationship should allow for this to be an easy discussion. My problem has been that I do want to be sucessful and have not developed much tactfulness for asking the big question, you guys are helping me on that. Thanks again everyone, I believe the board has been successful in answering my questions. I like what I see here at the Swingers Board, and hope that I can contribute sometime. Mmmm...
  13. Alura, The "don't ask a yes or no question" is a gem, thanks!
  14. Liza, Would you tell me about your initiation to the idea of swinging?
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