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Oleg&Lena

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Oleg&Lena last won the day on May 22 2010

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About Oleg&Lena

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  • Birthday 08/27/1972

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  • Relationship Status
    Male half of married couple
  • Location
    Russia, Samara reg.
  • Occupation
    Engineer
  • Swinging Experience
    8 yrs

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  1. Usually we do so but that time it was beyond my strength
  2. We live in little town and because of it we very often arrange to meet without exchanging of photos. As you can imagine sometimes fun incidents happen… One time we arranged the meeting with couple to see each other in certain place at street. We had arrived to that place by car before agreed time and were waiting in the car. Suddenly we saw couple who were walking along agreed place from one side to another and again from one side to another. The man periodically looked at his watch and every time when they were passing our car they glanced at us. It was clear that they were OUR couple! But there was just one BUT!!! They were terrible - drunken gait, dirty clothes, crushed teeth etc… When I was going to start up an engine another car had stopped next to us, handsome man and pretty woman went out and they were our REAL new acquaintances. ))))))))))
  3. Happy Birthday! I hope you have a great day!

  4. I am acquainted with a man who is gay as you are and what is interesting he has thoughts and desires like you have. Because of it I was not surprised when I'd read your post here. I am bi-curious and my wife too. We had different experiences in sex during last 9 years. We had been with straight couples, with couples where a man was bi-curious too, with single men. And I can say following, degree of bi contacts in sex depended on of size of bi part in every concrete partner. When couple with straight man all attention would pay to a woman, when with bi man - both partners. If couple have sex with gay man they would get another experience. Not for all of course but many sex things are not for all too. As of my acquaintance gay man he had some experiences with couples and as he told everything was OK.
  5. Bravo!!! You have said what I was going to say. I agree with you in all! Sometimes we meet someone like Big Rock, it's life...
  6. '...to reclaim what is mine...' - I believe that is main line of everything - as Nick have said - a basic human (historic) instinct.
  7. I could just say something like... I prefer MFM because I like watching my wife enjoy sex with other men because I love her... But I believe there is no one reason in the men's background to prefere MFM. Every man is many-sided personality and when he is doing something the reasons of that are not so simple as he sometimes says of them, they are many-sided too. A bit of this, a bit of that and something else... At first I want to be with my wife as close as possible during swinging. I just want to be close to watch her emotions, to hear her moans...Because of that I prefer MFM more than MFMF. Secondly I am be curious and last time we have been looking for males who is be curious too. My wife likes to watch this. So I prefer MFM more than FMF. We like double prenetration and MFM give us the possibility to realise that. And so on. As a rule I never share my fantasies like MFM or swinging with vanilla friends of mine but once I told my friend. Although that fact was an exception. He was very interesting in swinging and every time we met began the talk to this subject.
  8. This morning I and my wife were talking about the point: why people refuse to have sex with one half of couple, who have open relationships, if they are informed, that other couple's half is in the know. And Lena, my wife, has expressed her opinion that they don't want have somebody "third" in the bed. That is when they know about open relationships in couple, they can suppose, that other half of couple will be informed about all details of meeting and other things. It is quite possible, that the supposition of my wife is the main reason of their refusal???
  9. Yes, Julie, you are right. It is exactly what I had in mind. I seem I have used not apt turn of phrase. Hmm....What was the reason? Why did they not want to play any more?
  10. I have a question for couples who have or had open marriage. Do you let your sexual partners know about your open relationships in marriage? And why do you do so? How did your sexual partners take it?
  11. I think Julie is right. As I have said in other thread to my mind swinging have different borders in mind of different persons. In one couple to play separately is not allowed, other suppose it essential part of swinging. So may be open marriage and swinging separately have different meaning in mind of one person and same in mind of others. At any case these conception are very similar.
  12. I suppose poly relationships can be suit for us in future. And there are the reasons why I think so. We noted that the best swinging parties we have had when the attraction between participants had been very strong. And the more was attraction the better was swinging. I think it because of woman become more sexual when she feel passion for her partner. Also the moments of swinging experiences when my wife leave one on one with her partner were more excite ones for me than we were altogether. I think it happen because of psychic of men. The pictures we imagine are more excite than ones we see. Although I must say I like to observe my wife when we have swinging too. That is this way and another…. I understand that poly relationships mean to fall in love with somebody but believe that it is not the same as love inside couple. Besides we suppose the swinging have large borders in mind different persons and different couples realize swinging differently and sometimes swinging is very close to poly.
  13. Although from time to time we encounter with such newbies who asks to help them to enter swinging I don't think newbies need somebody's help indeed. I mean the help from one or two certain persons. The more better to learn the opinions of many reading this board or other resources like this board, to try swinging and get own mind from one's experience. So it doesn't matter with whom to begin swinging. To our mind good swinging doesn't depend on experience of participants but depend on how much they suit each other.
  14. Hmm…very interesting question. I think I am somewhere between second and third variant of answer. My wife, I just have asked her, with laugh have chosen a third. That is we exactly would not destroy our relationship because of that little incident.
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