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Cherienickole

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About Cherienickole

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  • Birthday 12/16/1981

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  1. Km...I am fine with couples if The boys want to watch, and light petting, swing for each guy with other woman but that's about it.
  2. I'm sorry you are having to deal with these feelings. Why did she stay the night? This continues to sound like more than sex to me.
  3. This would be a great approach, if I had heard it through her. It was the coworker that told me! She has known the coworker for 15 years. I did sense flirtation though, a lingering touch on the hand while we are out to dinner and a couple little awkward eye contact moments. Of course, since we are now considered friends, we exchanged phone numbers and texted a little. She seems flirty there too with smiley faces and such. I could probe the coworker for more info, but I really didn't want to get them involved orbolsy middle school middle man. You know? Also, just curious what is CYA?
  4. A little honesty can go a long way! I like that approach, but we have absolutely no interest in the boyfriend. I suppose he could watch, too though.
  5. I have a friend. She is drop dead sexy/hot/beautiful/fun/soft/smells good, etc. and she really gets my wheels spinning in every way. She is the first girl I have ever wanted so badly, I think you could actually call it a crush, maybe. My first real life girl crush even though i have messed with girls before. I know her through a coworker. We met twice in person and I feel like there was some flirtation, but she lives out if state, many states away... I know she has had 3somes in the past with other girls but not sure if she still does BC she has a boyfriend now... How could I bring this up without looking like a total perv to her? maybe I can't because I am a total pervert when it comes to her. I think about her when I fantasize, and what I would like to do with her...but, I like her as a person too don't want to scare her off and ruin a friendship. Any advice with people who have found themselves in this situation? My husband is on board to watch, of course.
  6. Reading this entire thread has me soaked! :p Never heard of DVP till now, and IM in my thirties. Maybe because I've been married since 2002. Ha. Anyway have done v/anal with my husband and a toy, but have yet to try with another male. Not sure he would be open to this as we aren't a full.swap couple but it does sound amazing as hell. agree that at least one of the penises would have to be smaller than my hubs. I admit imagine accommodating two of him, as vibrator/him do is hard enough.
  7. I love period sex! Honestly I've never found it to be that messy, maybe just a little smear here and there but not like actual blood. My husband is the only guy I have met who was grossed out by it. the rest if my lovers have been fine. One actually LOVED it and went crazy for it. So for me, I'm fine with it if they are. Orally, I'm not into it but there was that one guy who would, and I didn't stop him. I wouldn't really want to play with others at that time though...kinda personal.
  8. My husband never stays hard after he orgasms, even when I try to keep him stimulated. :thumbdown: He takes a few hours minimum before he can go again and in ten years of marriage we have only had multiple sessions in the same day a few times. He is healthy...but I think his problem is he puts too much pressure on himself and it effects him mentally. I would love for him to be able to come multiple times.
  9. Yes, I can see why you got that idea after rereading my post...we do.all that, too. I think I worded it poorly. What I meant is, I just didn't want to open Pandora's box. I do trust him and I want to make all his fantasies come true… As I know he feels the same for me. It's just that, it's only been the two of us for so long… I can't imagine anything else even though it does sound amazing and I'm eager. gone to clubs and parties as a single woman, & I shared those experiences with him, and he likes the idea. We have been talking about this for 9 months or so. it's just a matter of finding time and putting together a plan to get our feet wet ?
  10. Thanks for these answers, guys! I feel better hearing it a few times. That's probably one of the only reasons I've been anxious and hesitated so long. I know if I had a boyfriend I didn't care for so deeply it wouldnt' bother me, but my husband is my everything so I felt like I needed to gaurd our relationship closely as possible. I agree, the little sweet things like the hair loving would be different. funny when you really think about it, huh? Now what are some rules/good ideas as far as communication outside of parties/clubs? I feel like I would be upset if I found out hubby was texting after playing with someone??
  11. Yikes. That sounds like more than just a boy toy that can be sent away. Sounds like a boyfriend. I thought you were kind of just looking for physical 'get the job done since you can't"..? Seems like a sticky situation in the making, no?? What happens if they text and laugh and joke and real feeling happen? Dinner and movie type stuff and you are stuck at home being the third wheel??
  12. Currently as a married couple we have never shared. My question/fear is, how do the dynamics change after you have played with others? I enjoy our sex life now, but of course we could use a little spice, too, hence me being here. Do you guys find that 'regular sex' at home with your SO is different now? More boring? Not as fulfilling? Also, I need someone to tell me real answers - how likely is it that we will run into jealously issues? We aren't a particularly jealous couple at all, we have discussed boundaries/limits and lines not to be crossed... But I'm wondering if people find the aftermath to be more than they imagined... Thank you for helping out.
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