It had taken an enormous amount of convincing to get my wife to try swinging. (To be completely honest, we only ever did it with one other couple.) However, when it finally did happen, the next morning was kind of interesting. She was wildly horny and we had some of the best sex of our lives. Then guilt set in. She had had a very religious upbringing and the guilt over what we'd done really impacted her. However, with patience and love, we were able to get her to 'come around' and the second time we played, she was VERY much into it. We played with this couple for several months when a job transfer sent them overseas and my wife had no desire to continue the experience. As for my reaction, I LOVED it but have to confess that I also experienced some guilt feelings since it was something we 'weren't supposed to do'. But I would love to have that experience again!!