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itsus020405

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  • Birthday 10/20/1977

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    Couple
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    Lexington KY
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    We like to go for long walks and camp.
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  1. Had a talk with my hubby tonight. He told me it's not that he is uncomfortable with the lifestyle, he is just afraid he might try and go farther that what I want. I can respect that. So we have decided to take things slow and go over things again to make sure he really understands my boundaries and I understand his. He said he was fine with not being there last night. It just excited him so much he was thinking of more things he would like for me to do and he knew it was something I wouldn't do and it scared him some. One thing everyone needs to understand is before he met me he lived what i call a very sheltered life. He had never had the chance to be with anyone other than the person he was with at the time. Once we got together I opened his eyes to a whole new world. It took him a few years to really open them all the way to see what was out there. But as everyone suggested, if he really doesn't want to do it anymore then thats fine I can respect it and would stop for him.
  2. Hello Tina and Bob Is there a reason your husband was not present? Yes my husband is away for training that is why he was not present last night. Do you have rules set up? Yes we have rules set up and very clear for us both and the person I was with. How well do you know the person you only had oral with? we know him pretty well. actually a friend we have known for a while. Who arranged for the get together? it was both my husband and I making the arrangements. Do you think your husband has doubts about only doing oral? No not at all he knew that is all it would be because I had surgery a couple months ago and was not able to have intercourse as of yet Did you both get naked or was it a pull out his cock and you pull down your panties? we were both naked Where did this happen, his place, a hotel? My place since we have known this guy for a while and he has been over with my husband here as well. So you've only had intercourse with one other man and then oral yesterday, and you love it? No we have done full swap in same room before and stuff like that. We have had a single female with us and other stuff. Its just the situation this time that is bothering me. Does he get to play? Yes he has gotten to play alone and with me. Does he want to play or just watch or just be told of your experiences? This time it was just wanting to be told about what happened. He said he would rather watch or listen than to join. He says its a great turn on for him to hear or see me be pleasured. Typically story telling is followed by passionate sex between the two of you. Is that happening? Yes when he is home we do. How often are you two having sex? Before he left a couple months ago for training we were having sex almost everyday. Him and I have a great sex life we just wanted to spice it up some. Plus it was a fantasy of ours for me to be with another man while he either joined, watched, listened or was told about it in detail. Does he perform oral on you and vice versa? No he does not do oral on me but I do it him. There are some reasons he doesnt and it has to do with his ex wife. BTW if I wasn't there I'd have trouble believing it was just oral; I can understand but my husband also knows I would not lie to him. Yes I wanted more to but as I said I am not able to have intercourse due to my surgery I had right after he left until July 1. However, I do think if you communicate you may be able to find a happy medium. I am hoping you are right, we do have great communication its just hard right now because our time to talk on the phone is very limited. We talk via text and yahoo chat more. "I love my husband and wouldn't do anything to hurt our marriage. I told him in the beginning he needed to be comfortable with the lifestyle or we could not go further into it." But if after you talk he is still uncomfortable, than you need to stop. Yes I know and I am willing to stop if he really doesnt want to go any further. Thank you for the advice. I just wanted someone else's point of view on this. Him and I are going to have a heart to heart talk when he does get home. We have talked about this for a while and both wanted it. I really need to find out what he isnt comfortable with and why.
  3. My husband and I have not done a lot in the lifestyle due to not really knowing anyone in the area. About 3 years ago my husband watched me have sex with a man and loved it. He has talked about wanting to do it again for the past 2 years. Well last night I was with a man (with my husband knowing and wanting it to happen as bad as I did) but today he tells me he is not sure if he is comfortable with the lifestyle anymore. He said it turns him on and loves the idea but is not sure about it anymore. I love my husband and wouldn't do anything to hurt our marriage. I told him in the beginning he needed to be comfortable with the lifestyle or we could not go further into it. I guess my problem is I love it and its something I enjoy very much. How do we meet in the middle on this situation? Could it be because he was not around? Also I did not have intercourse with the guy last night it was all just oral between him and I.
  4. I love watching porn. It is usually my idea to watch it. I think it is a great turn-on.
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