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Me too. Those were the guys that we first started in the lifestyle with by hotwifing. It was comfortable all around because she had fucked them before. So no big deal for me, and these were guys she had good experiences with. And the exes were eager to put their hands on her tits and get between her legs again.

Perhaps. Depends if she likes tits and pussy, and having a woman's hands and mouth all over her. Not only does Daniela like the physical aspects of sex with women, but she also balances out her domination of men with being submissive to other women. A psychological kink she has that's interesting to me.

We definitely have done it. Daniela my wife with two other guys (separately), and I with a women in our group who was pregnant, and of course in addition to me fucking Daniela and my ex-wife during her pregnancies. Yeah, at certain points during their pregnancies they were really horny. As they progressed, it was always doggy. The other thing was the way their tits got big and nipples dark.

I was good that you knew each other well in that regard before you got married. It must have made the post marriage lifestyle discussion much more comfortable than most.

It is all about how comfortable one is with the risk versus the reward. Some people engage in high risk activities like jumping off or out of high places with various contraptions that most of us never would do, but that's their thrill. We in the lifestyle accept various risks, health, emotional, professional, legal, for nothing more than pleasure or to satisfy some strange desire. Don't be reckless, but don't criticize others either. What does he say?

Smart. Very smart. Regardless of the type of relationship, this is key, be respectful and generous with your partners. Put them first and you will be paid back many times over. These combinations are a big part of the joy of the lifestyle. Having sex with others, alone and together with my spouse in various combinations, has made the wonderful relationship we had nto something even better. So long as you all continue with respect and generosity, it will turn out well. If it does burn out and she finds someone else, then you can all celebrate.

I feel that way about my wife's past, except she never accepted money or gifts, usually paid for both of them and bought the wives gifts. She has a good paying professional/technical job, and while the guys did too, they had a wife and children to support. I don't mind either, but it's not with cheaters, we're in a closed group of married couples. We started with her hotwifing and we both enjoyed setting it all up, including the three of us meeting socially to explain that Daniela was married to me, I approved of her having sex with you, and in no way was it a humiliation thing. Now we just play within our group, often alone, and I miss the hotwifing days of setting up her dates, sexual encounters, and sometimes MFMs with me.

Understandable. Men and women are like that. It's complicated. From prehistoric times males wanting to attract women, even if it doesn't result in sex; females attracted to men who give them resources, even if there's no romance, for their potential offspring.

My problem is the opposite, it takes me a while to cum. I get hard easily, pump out a good load, but it takes a while for me to orgasm and shoot. Actually, if I concentrate on cumming, I can do it somewhat quickly, but I just enjoy it too much and want to make it last. I've been accused of backing off, and it's true.

Don't end the story there. How did the soft swap go? Did it include oral and orgasms? How was the sex between you and your husband afterwards? How long was the journey to full swap?

We play at homes, mostly twosomes and threesomes. The person or persons not playing take both sets of kids out or to the other home. The occasional large get-together is more complicated and involves babysitters.

Definitely go second. Holding back as he watches, then getting the hot woman back who is his wife, is mind bending. Besides the bi thing, the guys can warm up in her before finishing in you, depending on their ability to control their release.

Up until the time Daniela and I got together, her main sexual relationship thing was dating married men and buying gifts for their wives. What would you call that besides a missed economic opportunity? Daniela did accept gifts from her Lesbian lovers.

I'm not much into anal, but I've been the second or third man in a woman's ass both my wife's and other wives' several times. It's slicker, but being so tight I still cum pretty quickly. If I'm taking seconds, I prefer pussy. I actually enjoy the looseness and lack of friction, the difficulty in cumming. It's really intense. Plus, I don't consider going into a woman's ass, or another man going into my wife's ass, anything special.

There's a song about this – "If I Tell You I Love You I'm Lying" by Melody Gardot. A worthwhile listen.