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My son and daughter lost their virginities at 16 and 14, respectively. My son with his 16 year old girlfriend and my daughter with her 16 year old boyfriend. I was completely fine with both situations. And both had good experiences. Both used proper protection and my daughter lost hers in her own room and bed. No safer place for her. After she went on the pill at 15, she was free to have sleepover dates whenever she wanted to, or when it wouldn't interfere with school. I lost mine at 21, which was a bit too old for me. I was ready before then.

My wife and I had a long running thing going with her girlfriend. They were bi and would play by themselves often, too. She and I then moved on to a MFM arrangement with a guy we knew from her last job. All of it was fun but the MFMs were the best.

I like both watching and participating. That was the beauty of making my wife the center of attention of our MFMs. Both of us could work on her but if one of us wanted to sit by and watch, it was a great show. I must say I found myself watching up close more than I thought I would when she and I were just planning it. We were always in the same room except for a couple of times they hooked up by themselves at his place. As for normal, you can just throw that notion out. Anything that's fine with all involved is OK.