thosetwo76
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- Birthday 07/05/1976
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thosetwo76 started following First time at a swingers convention, Imperfect and still sexy?, Wife wants "spontaneous" but I'm considering "arranging" something... and and 3 others
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How many couples have you run out of the lifestyle?
thosetwo76 replied to DigginIt's topic in Swingers Talk
Wha.....? OMG. Hope you wore your track shoes that night, and not heels. -
LOL!! Is it common for newbie women? Because we think it's dirty and we feel guilty? LOLOLOL! Love the wide generalization there.... Althought that could be applied to many situations, just like all generalizations/stereoptypes can be (otherwise no one would think them up), I think it is unfair to make assumptions, especially ones with a negative connotation. At least that's how it came off to me. But then, I felt a little included in that one I, myself do not feel setting things up ahead of time are dirty or wrong, nor do I have guilt, I simply love being spontaneous. Is that possible with our vanilla life or swing life? Rarely. But I can still have a preference for leaving some things to happen as they will. Didn't mean to change the thread here, but I had to pipe up on this... ~Mrs76
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Why swingers are such great people
thosetwo76 replied to Powerglide's topic in Curious About Swinging?
I really like this thread! Although I agree, we have met some swingers who are judgmental (which is hilarious to us!) and think everyone should swing the same way they do, we have also met a few really great people who think outside the box. As for groups of people we like (the horse owners, bike riders, etc.) I guess I don't really make any assumptions based on what people like to do or look like. I really want to jump up and down and clap my hands when I meet someone who shocks my socks off by being a truly free thinker, non judgemental type person who truly desires to get to know people and learn new points of view. Having said that, I just described myself pretty closely...lol. We seriously look like the average couple with three kids, two dogs and a house. We do all the "normal" family/kid/school stuff, but obviously we are swingers and we really just don't think of things in the same way others do. We are always, as we like to say, just a little off center. I truly enjoy meeting people who are not necessarily just like us, but who lean towards the odd, and feel free to live the life that makes them happy ( no matter what that is, unless it's illegal), and encourage others to do the same. -
As a person who really, honestyl hates planning and loves spontinaety.....I would be soooo angry at my husband for doing this! My feelings would be that he was pushing what he wanted on me, that he didn't care about my wants/needs/ comfort level.....oh boy could I go on! I do not think this is a good idea. And have you thought about the feelings of the other couple? I would be angry on that side of the situation as well. Really, are you in that much of a hurry to push everyone into an akward situation. I think "hazardous" was a very good word to describe how that situation would end up if it were me that was involved, in any way.
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We do not consider ourselves perfect and we do not want perfection in our partners. For me, confidence and personality go a long way. I can totally understand not feeling good about yourself, and taking your clothes off in front of people who are not your s/o is intimidating, but once she sees that no one is perfect and no one expects her to be, maybe she will feel more confindent? I felt very shy at first, but with more experience comes more confidence for me. We are not, by any means bed post notchers, and have only had a few experiences, but let me tell ya, someone other than your s/o or husband telling you how hot you are or how sexy you look is a BIG confidence booster, lol. It helped that my husband was supportive and loving, but I am the same way, I always tell him that he has to say that b/c we are married, lol. On another note, I prefer women who are not stick skinny. To me, women feel soo good when they are curvier and a little bit "softer". There are plenty of others out there who feel the same. I have seen several profiles that state a preference for curvy, full figured women (not that your wife is this, I'm just saying). Good luck to you both!
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thosetwo76 replied to couple4couple's topic in First Swinging Experiences
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My first thought when reading OP was that the lady you were speaking with wanted you to me a little more agressive...with her:) IMHO, being a gentleman pays off most times. I was just thinking about this the other day....everytime we are in a situation, swinging or vanilla, give it about 5 minutes, and Mr 76 has a woman completely enthralled in a great conversation. A few more, (when not in a vanilla setting) and he's rounding first base, heading to second. I LOVE watching this (obviously:D ). How does he do it??? He just makes them feel beautiful, is a gentleman, looks them in the eye and gives them a lot of respect and attention. Maybe doesn't work on all women, but no one is going to have anything bad to say about you either