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Depends on what is meant by "in a row". If that means over the course of a day then it could be as much as 6 or 7 times. If it means in one bout of sex then now adays I cum 2 times. Unless it also is over the course of the day. But if it's turn in at the end of the day and screw the wife and then talk dirty for a while then go again it's twice. That our routine now. I admit that when I was younger I could go more and I could cum again without pulling out. Don't do that any more. The wife claims that she was not multi before being with me. I'm not sure if she is stroking my pride or for real but she typically comes a couple times the first go round and then may cum again the second. It helps if we use a vibrator while I'm screwing her which we often do. Then shes like clockwork.

We've just begun to consider swinging. I believe that at this point we are pretty much sold on the idea. Thanks in part to reading everything here. I can say for myself that it has changed me in a lot of basic ways already, before even actually having any experiences and having only redefined our expectations for our marriage. The way that I deal with everyday people for instance. 3 minutes ago I had a passing conversation with a woman who works in the same office complex while having a smoke outside. I found myself relaxed and flirtatious where a few weeks ago I would have been constantly careful of not giving wrong impressions. My mind set has totally changed. Communicating with my partner about how this is for us and how she is the most important person in my life without exception, no matter what, and both deciding that we want to be open to new things has been like lifting a huge weight off my shoulders. I feel a lot more relaxed all the time and boy did I need that. I'm thinking that this is really for us and I'm excited about the entire scene. We are still working out the details and we are being careful to get off on the right foot but just to have gotten to a point where my wife is open to the idea and actually a bit excited about it is just awesome.

I agree. In fact it is a big turn-on for me/us. One of our naughty activities is that on a warm moonless summer night once the kids are in bed and it's late and the neighborhood is quiet we go outside and spread a blanket in the middle of the lawn and have a quick screw. It's just dangerous enough to make it very very exciting. We live in the burbs and if one were to look at the yard in daylight the idea of screwing there would be nuts. But when it's dark and rare for anybody to be walking around the sidewalk or streets it's a very erotic thing to do. And heck it's right in our backyard. My land, My wife. Heck it's a free country and "I are a mountain man damn it!" I would hate to become too comfortable with nudity. We like certain things to feel naughty.

I kind of like the sensation of a nice warm cum filled pussy. As far as going down on one not really. I've gone down on occasion on the wife after fucking her but usually it grosses me out after I've shot my wad. Sounds like a great idea till I pop my nut then not so great.

A for instance. I was home one day last week while the wife had to work and the kids were at the sitters. Try as I might I jerked off twice. I told the wife about it. Most times now when I jerk off I do it while the wife watches. It's become a bit of a turn on to jerk off to completion while she licks my balls and rubs a vibrator all over my cock balls and ass. I love it. I've told her that some day I'd like to jerk off in front of her and one of her girl friends. Of course it would have to be a girl that we'd had a 3 some with. But the though of both of them fully clothed watching me jerk off and cum is very erotic for me.

My wife loves it. I do her in the ass with a vibrator while I screw her pussy all the time. She also loved to have a vibrating butt plug in her ass while we screw. Never done the MFM thing and I don't really want to. She has said she wouldn't be comfortable with that either. But as far as insertion goes, she loves it.