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SaSsyNsWeEt last won the day on February 10 2010

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About SaSsyNsWeEt

  • Rank
    Active Contributor
  • Birthday 08/14/1979

Personal Info

  • Relationship Status
    Couple
  • Location
    Newport News, VA
  • Interests
    paintball, Photography
  • Occupation
    Photographer
  • Swinging Experience
    a few years

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  • SLS Name
    SaSsyNsWeEt1
  1. Its hard to bring up new fantasies to your spouse when you feel like the outcome will be judgment. I would sit down and first ask him about any fantasies he is having. Let him know first that it is a safe zone and nothing he says will be judged by you. When he is feeling more comfortable to be open with you he may be more accepting of what you have to say as well. Best of luck!
  2. I agree, it is great when I have been having a stressful day too!!!!!
  3. Came across this one today. They seem to be new to the lifestyle and I think they may need a little help on their introduction, it reads: "i wanna fuck more ppl and she does too lol...she been with lots ive been with only 3 ppl..."
  4. You're welcome to "steal it" if you'd like! I change it up often so no worries here! Kisses
  5. NO one is so great at sex that it would cause me to want to throw away my marriage... and I would bet you both feel the very same way! My husband and I choose to look at it as giving each other a gift. You wouldn't want to give your husband a lousy present, you want him to have the very best and sometimes that means setting our pride aside and realizing that other people are probably better at things than we are. Which is a good thing, then you might learn a few new tricks!!!! Best wishes!
  6. We have teaser lines on our profile that I change up regularly but right now it says "Roses are red, pickles are green. I love your legs and whats in between."
  7. That is outstanding! I hope you don't mind but we are putting something similar on our profile! This is copied directly from a profile, I have not changed it in any way.... "When it comes to physical health, I exercise about 3 times per week (or never), and expect my sex partners to be at about the same fitness level. I (like) the bar scene. I prefer (lots of partying when I'm involved in sexual encounters. I like my partners to (tell me what to do/follow my lead) in the bedroom. I love sex, but I'm more interested in short-term relationships/long-term relationships."
  8. couple4couple: There are a couple of websites we can recommend to you if you would like, SwingLifeStyle (SLS) and AdultFriendFinder (AFF) are the ones we use. SLS offers a lot of stuff to free members if you want to just check it out for a little while. They have lots of locals and it is easy to use. There aren't a lot of fakes cause they get reported and blocked. Also we always email for a little while, then either webcam/video chat or talk on the phone before we agree to meet anyone. Always meet in a public place and don't give out any of your person info to anyone you don't know. Best of luck to you both!
  9. First let me start by saying welcome to the Board and WELCOME to the Lifestyle! My husband and I started swinging a few years ago, I am now 26 and he is 30. I don't see that our age has ever been an issue but I have seen some older individuals question the "stability" and "maturity" of younger couples. The fact that you are out seeking more information and advise says to me that you are indeed mature and for that I give you kudos! Good luck on your future endeavors and remember to not worry so much about what other people think. As long as you and your partner are in this together and you keep the lines of communication wide open, you will be just fine!
  10. Well I would start by taking away the computer and cam for sure! He needs to know that you are the adults and he is the child....crossing the line is a huge "no no"! I would tell him that this is a moment in his life where he can choose to act mature or not, but there should be consequences for sharing this with his friends! Ps. I would also remind him that sharing such a video with his UNDER-AGED friends is a crime!
  11. That's too bad for her, but that is not the case for all of us.
  12. free member CAN have pics on Swing Lifestyle Ps. Cyber sex is not our thing either
  13. "Researches have found that although many women feel a slight need to urinate right before ejaculation, the fluid is definitely not urine..." UGH! Normally I don't care so much about what other people think, but I just hate it when guys have opinions and think they know all there is to know about the female body. It has nothing to do with bladder control. I know because I can do and I always make sure to pee beforehand. It is all about learning a new sensation and pushing through the fear. If a woman feels comfortable with her surroundings it is quite easy for her to do it. And it is even easier for women who have had natural child birth, because the same muscle needed to push out a baby is use to "push" out an ejaculation. Now I can't speak for anyone else, but the substance coming out of me is not yellow its clear. When my husband tasted it I asked him what it tasted like and he said, very matter-of-fact, that it tasted like sweet butter. Chicup, it is guys like you that make girls like me self-conscious about it in the first place.
  14. A little research for you all: "Female ejaculation (commonly known as squirting and gushing[1]) refers to the expulsion of noticeable amounts of clear fluid by human females from the paraurethral ducts through and around the urethra during or before orgasm. The exact source and nature of the fluid continues to be a topic of debate among medical professionals. Female Ejaculation While all women have a G-spot, it has been estimated between 10% and 40% of women are capable of ejaculation. The G-spot need not be stimulated for ejaculation to occur, but most women say that their first ejaculation experience came from massaging their G-spot. The response varies from a light sprinkle to a huge gush. I have experienced women who gushed huge amounts of fluid 10 feet out. Researches have found that although many women feel a slight need to urinate right before ejaculation, the fluid is definitely not urine. Nor does it come from the Bartholin gland which produces a milky, odorless secretion that helps lubricate the vagina when sexually aroused. Today we now know that the difference between women who squirt and those that don't is in the number and size of their pariurethral glands. They are analogous to the hundreds of tiny glands that constitute the male's prostate gland and are responsible for 15% to 50% of the fluid a man ejaculates. The myths that female ejaculation is the result of poor bladder control, or excess secretion which sweats from the vaginal walls and pools in the back of the vagina to squirt out during the strong muscle contractions of orgasm, have been proven wrong. For decades many women felt it dreadfully abnormal and tried to hide or avoid it. Physicians in their ignorance tried to cure it. By questioning many women, researchers have established that about one woman in five ejaculates (through her urethra rather than her vagina), some of the time but not always. The stimulation of the G-spot produces both her ejaculation and her deep uterine contractions. "Women's response to direct stimulation of the G-spot is identical to the response of males when their prostate is stimulated," Perry and Whipple observed. The first few seconds of stimulation produces a strong feeling that they have to urinate. This feeling lasts for two to ten seconds, maybe longer, before changing to a distinctly sexual enjoyment. Whipple felt that most women when faced with this sensation hold back their sexual response to keep from wetting on their partners. Perry theorized that this may explain why up to 25% of American females never have orgasms - they've learned early that to avoid the embarrassment of urinating during sex, they have to hold back. Women with well-toned PC muscles are more likely to ejaculate and generally have better orgasms. Many women ejaculate easier after they’ve “primed the pump” with a few orgasms, others come on their first one. The common theme seems to be extreme arousal and direct G-spot and clitoral stimulation for an extended time. It is common for writers of porn films and erotic books to make it appear that male ejaculations "shoot" or "spurt". But Kinsey's observations of hundreds of male ejaculators showed that in about 75% of men the semen merely exudes from the meatus or is propelled with so little force that the liquid is not carried more than a very small distance beyond the tip of the penis. In short, most males ooze rather than shoot. Their semen doesn't spurt, it dribbles out. Similarly, if a woman expels fluid other than urine from her urethra, she shouldn't have to make it squirt for it to qualify as ejaculation. The fact that many women don't notice it since its not a powerful squirt contributes to the under-reporting of female ejaculation. Other women, including one of my (Dave's) partners, very strongly squirt large amounts of fluid while having powerful G-spot orgasms. Helen Robinson reported that one of her research subjects was highly orgasmic and continued to ejaculate copiously with each orgasm and would ejaculate a quart of fluid in one session. A teaspoon of fluid is the more common amount, but a cupful is not uncommon. At Dalhousie University professor Ed Belzer found varying concentrations of acid phosphatase in the women's ejaculate. This chemical had previously been thought to be produced only by males, and in some courtrooms was accepted as evidence to support a rape charge. Belzer's discovery proved that it wasn't urine and also pointed out the existence of a genuine female prostate-like gland. Not only are the fluids they produce chemically similar, the female prostate acts like the male prostate: when rhythmically prodded, it swells up and then discharges fluid through the urethra. To reach a male's prostate gland, you have to reach in through his anus. In the female, you reach in - at virtually the same angle - through her vagina. There has been debate whether the ejaculation originate from the bladder or from the urethral glands and ducts. Both may be the case in that a small amount of fluid may be released from the urethral glands and ducts in some instances and mixed in the urethra with a clear fluid that originates in the bladder. Tests have been done where the bladder is drained of urine before the sexual stimualation and resulting ejaculation. Even though their bladders had been drained, they still expelled from 50 ml to 900 ml of fluid through the tube and into the catheter bag. The only reasonable conclusion would be that the fluid came from a combination of residual moisture in the walls of the bladder and from post draining kidney output. Regardless, a number of tests have chemical analysis have been done on the fluid. Exactly what it is, isn't known but there is a consistency of results that show a greatly reduced concentration of the two primary components of urine, urea and creatinine, in the expelled fluid. As Unv of So Calf tests showed the results were clearly "out of the range" to be defined as urine. But women's sexuality still remains a mystery (as women do in other ways ... as the exact source and exactly what the fluid is remains natures secret." Hope this helps!
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