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  1. We always use condoms and that is our personal choice. We won't play without them. We of course respect your decision, and if you feel comfortable with it, then of course it is your choice. STD's many times have no outward symptoms, and we have read that something like 1 in 4 or 5 people in the United States does carry the herpes virus. Hepatitis has no outward symptoms either much of the time and we all know that an HIV+ person doesn't display symptoms until they are far along in the process. To us, our choice is to not risk it, but we respect those that do. We are certain that we have played with couples that don't use them but with us unless they are going to use a condom, there is no penetrative play.
  2. As a humorous side note to this thread. We were at one of our regular clubs a few weeks ago. We were not planning on playing that night, just there to drink dance and have a good time with friends. There is a gal there who from behind looks exactly like mrs sexy. Hair color, height, body shape etc. In fact that night they were wearing similar dresses. Admittedly, I had probably one too many and was feeling no pain but in complete control. Innocently I came up behind her and rubbed her butt. I was mortified when she turned around and I said OMG, I thought you were mrs sexy. I'm so sorry! She said to me "that's a compliments since she looks hot tonight" Perhaps someone else would not have been so cordial, but I guess it was innocent enough and not intentional. We all had a good laugh about it afterwards though.
  3. We were found out not too long ago by family (posted on that but not too certain how to include the link here) Neither one of us are in a position where it would affect our jobs since I (the mr) am self employed and the mrs is in a position where many of her coworkers and contacts are in the lifestyle. If we stop, we stop because it is something we want to do and nothing more. We do feel for those in positions where perceived immorality could lead to job loss etc. We live near a military base and there are numerous ads on various sites from military people. We feel the worst for teachers though since being photographed in a bikini can be construed as being immoral. Live and let live we say, and have little use for those narrow minded people that pass judgement.
  4. Sort of, but it has been a "sticking point" for us for a long time. Not to say that its really a bad thing, just be careful since things can get out of hand particularly if you don't have the experience necessary to stop play if things are not going as planned. Always remember that the single male is there for the pleasure of the lady and to make her the center of attention. If it becomes too onesided problems are going to inevitably happen and that is something you need to be aware of.
  5. Teeth for sure for both of us. Shaved and or closely trimmed for both as well. Mrs will only play with men who are cut.
  6. Yep, its a mental thing, I have to agree with that. The medications sometimes are more of a placebo effect than anything. Drinking and swinging are like drinking and driving...sooner or later disaster will happen. Will perfomance issues are the least of yor worries, it does happen. I have found one little trick that seems to help more than anything. When going on a potential play date, I do what the mrs does. Go commando with loose fitting pants, For whatever reason it allows the blood to circulate more and there is less of a problem. I have nearly alway equated a performance problem to either too much alcohol or wearing something a bit too snug. Just in case I also will pop a little helper discreetly so I have all bases covered.
  7. Excellent points! Somwhere I recall hearing about a 20% rule. Meaning you during a threesome, you should pay 20% more attention to your partner than the third. We have been involved in many MFM situations. Some good and some not so good, but there were lessons to be learned from all of them. One thing we have found out is that paying more attention to your partner does keep the "green monster" in check.
  8. Most of the responses to date are related to making us better lovers. While that is definately true, what about as people in general. We think it makes a previously shy individual more outgoing. It takes a person who doesn't take much time and effort with their appearance and makes them work at it a little more. It takes a couple who don't communicate well and opens their lines of communication with each other. It keeps a couple who may take each other for granted and makes them cherish every day they are together. The list of things could go on and on, but we feel these are the highlights
  9. We were out with another couple the other night who are VERY active in the adult industry both as producers and actors. They are a very down to earth couple and are just cool to even socialize with. We plan to get together again often as we all really click. The subject of having sex while the women is on her period came up. We mentioned that we have to schedule playtimes around the mrs cycle. They told us that it is never a problem for them since they use a "porn trick". This intrigued both of us so they told us what the actresses do in films. They girls take a sea sponge (like the kind you can buy at any hardware store) that you would use for faux painting or washing a car. You soak it in water for about an hour and cut it in half. The excess water is rung out and the girls use it as a sort of dam. Apparently nothing can get past that and the sea sponge has some sort of natural deodorant properties. Has anyone ever had any experience with this or heard about it? I have no reason to doubt what they said since they are pretty well known in the industry, but the the mrs and I were curious about it. We did find quite a bit on the net about it doing a google search and apparently this is an ancient practice and considered very "natural"
  10. We always use them for penetration, no exceptions. Just in case we carry various sizes and shapes too just in case. An interesting situation arose a few months ago.....One of our regular couples mentioned that she had a reaction to the condoms another partner used, but not with ours. We shared the information on what type we used that particular evening. They went out and bought them as well to carry with them for playdates.
  11. Boy this is a tough one.....Many couples feel that watching the other have sex with a member of the opposite sex is a real turn on (guilty as charged) The problem that we see is since your relationship is so new, you might have to ask him if he has been in the lifestyle previously either as a couple or single male. If that is the case, then perhaps he is asking you to do something for him only. What is important is that BOTH members of the couple have to enjoy themselves equally. We fear that this might not be the case with you. Is the guy in question his best friend? You mentioned that in your email. Most important is to talk it over with him. Sorry to have to say this but there are red flags flying all over the place on this one.
  12. Wasn't going to but it would have been something to see.
  13. PARTY WAS YESTERDAY.....UPDATE Okay so here is the lowdown......All of the lifestyle friends are at the house including those with little kiddies. BBQ is going, kids running around, and friends being vanilla. Some watching the game, others just chatting and drinking sodas or a little beer. In walks "stick up the ass sister in law" with her husband and kids. Not much other than a few pleasantries and some snacking on foods. Somewhere during the course of the day one of the female members of our friends comes over to the mrs and I telling us that sister in law asked for her number since they are neighbors and would like to get together for an evening. LOL She apparently told her to get her number from the mrs. Good move on her part. Later in the day I was talking with sis in law and mentioned that I heard she asked for her number so they could go out. She replied....yes, they are so nice and we are neighbors so we figured we could get together sometime. I told her that is great and I was glad you liked them since they are nice people and alot of fun to be around. The party ended and everyone went home. Thinking to myself as I am saying goodbye, wouldn't it have been a trip to tell her something like......Oh yeah, they are great fun to go out with and even more fun to have sex with!
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