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thump29

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About thump29

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    Swingers Board Addict
  • Birthday 11/11/1973

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  • Relationship Status
    couple
  • Location
    okeechobee, fl
  • Interests
    fishing, cars
  • Occupation
    professional

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  1. Things have been real good so far. We have ran into some slight problems but overall we are happy with how it has gone.
  2. We like all races. Personality is the most important thing for us too. Race has never bothered us as long as we all get along.
  3. We usually approach a single male together. Although we have had single males approach us on a site and we have met with them. So I guess I would have to say either way is ok with us.
  4. I am 26 and my husband is 30. We usually go no younger than 25 and no older than 46, although we prefer older couples because we seem to have more in common with them rather than younger couples or people our own age.
  5. We usually play together as well, on occasion we will play seperate but it is not often that we do that.
  6. I think that my sexuality is private and the only people that knows it is our swinging partners. We have really close friends that we have known for 10 years that have no clue about our lifestyle or my sexuality. We really feel that they have no reason to know what goes on in that aspect of our life.
  7. We also do a lot of the choices in your poll. We do everything except for oral on me. I am going to have to look into the Instead cups though, sounds like a great idea.
  8. I dont think we are addicted to the lifestyle, but it is a big part of ourselves. We have been in this lifestyle for 8 years now and for 4 of those years we were not active due to having a child and etc. Yes we came back to this lifestyle because it is something that we enjoy. We have made alot of good people in this lifestyle and we have made several friendships along the way. I think you need to define addicts here. I dont think we are sex addicts, we are just open minded people but I dont think we are addicts because we swing. We have went for over 4 years without swinging with anyone before so we are definetely not addicted to this lifestyle. Yes we do like this lifestyle and have no plans to leave this lifestyle but I dont think it makes us a addict. So no I dont think that we as swingers are sex addicts at all. No I dont think so we have been swingers for a long time and it is somthing that we have no desire of leaving. Yes we have gone more than one day without thinking about swinging just like alot of others swingers I know. We dont think about it all the time it is something that is added to our lifestyle not something that controls our life.
  9. Well I will try to answer some of your questions. First of all we started out playing a game of strip poker and comments were made about each other during the course of the game. Well we all ended up without our clothes and the female half of the other couple said to all of us since we dont have any more clothes on then we are going to have to start performing acts. Well we discussed this between all four of us, it didnt bother us because we were swingers but they werent and they decided that we would not stick with our partners only. We did a full swap that night. This was the first time for the other couple, but they were interested in swinging before this ever happened. We actually did start out with our own partners but that didnt last long before we had decided to change partners. It was a mutual agreement between all four of us. We were all in the same room and it stayed that way the whole time and we still do the same room when we get together to play. We did have sex with our own partners after we were done but it was there we didnt wait until we went home to have sex. Techniques are always a little different from everyone but this was a good thing. We all did end up watching one another. We did encourage one another the whole time. It was a event that wasnt planned but we all are really glad it happened. I prefer to be friends with someone for awhile before we actually swing with them. No there was no drinking involved in what happened. At the time there was no bi experiences going on but i will add that now there is between me and the female half of the couple. We give the guys something to look forward to when we get together now. I will add that this experience happened 8 years ago and we all are still best of friends and we still get together at least 3 times a year for play. It wasnt awkward at all to see them after what happened, it is something that happened and we continue this lifestyle together now. We did use condoms even tho we had known this couple for 4 years prior to this actually happening. It is better to be safe than sorry in my opinion. I hope this answers some of your questions.
  10. We were also with really close friends as well. We had not told our friends we were swingers so they didnt know. We were all over there at there house one night and we started a game of strip poker and it all went from there. What a night to remember, this also lead to the other couple becoming swingers as well and we still play with each other.
  11. We usually try to schedule around my period when we play but if it happens when we are going to play we let them no upfront and then we decide if we still want to have intercourse, like others have said you can still play. I would go to the party and see how it goes. Good luck.
  12. It took us about a year after we decided we wanted to start swinging. One of the reasons it took so long is because we wanted to find the right couple and I guess we did because we have been swinging now for almost 8 years and still counting.
  13. I have to agree with Julie I prefer boxers on the man and I wear thongs almost all the time.
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