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sexkitten1203

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  • Birthday 05/14/1986

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  1. What is wrong here?? I hope I am reading this wrong, but almost everybody that responds here sounds just unbelievable selfish! Let me get this straight jdavisauto. You are *seriously* stating that just because she is not fucking other guys, the he is cheating on her? In her presence? In their bed? With her consent??? You simply cannot be serious when you say this. She is bi. Obviously she enjoys FMF's, so how is she being cheated on? It just doesn't make any sense. Most people that have responded just say how close-minded the guy is, how selfish he is, whatever. I call bullshit though. It is basically the same way with my relationship. My girl is bi, so we both agreed that FMF's would be a great idea. I was very upfront, and told her that I don't think I can see her with another guy, right now, or possibly ever, only time will tell. Does that make me selfish? No it makes me honest! Let's flip the situation. A girl says she would like to fuck another guy/s, but she is not ok w/ her man doing that. I can bet if a gut wrote in with this same situation reversed, a good amount of the people would be telling him that he is insensitive. Basically, if *BOTH* parties are not ok with it, it SHOULD NOT BE DONE!!!! Who gives a fuck what its' like in your relationship, not everybody's is the same. If both parties enjoy FMF's, then who cares, everybody is having fun! And like a few have said before, if an agreement can't be reached where everybody is happy, then just quit altogether and enjoy each other alone. There is nothing wrong with that!!
  2. My girl has said from the beginning that she never enjoyed giving guys head. Can count on 1 hand the guys she has. But from the first night with me, she says she loves doing it for the first time, and doesn't feel its a "chore". We talked about with other guys and couples, and she says she has NO desire to take another guy into her mouth. I told her I didn't mind one way or another, she just doesn't want to.
  3. I usually can last over an hour (we seriously timed it once), but whenever she says "cum in me baby!" I can bust within 5 minutes, lol. If we are really in a hurry, I went from start to finish in about 2. I am very adaptable, lol.
  4. At the beginning, were threesomes with other women the only thing brought up? Ok, PLEASE don't flame me or think I am an insensitive, selfish ass, BUT... Just because she is OK with him playing with other women does NOT obligate him to be OK with her playing with other men, no matter what the situation is. If her fantasy is to play with other men, that's great. Even better she is open about it. But again, just because she is OK with him and other women, why should he be expected to be OK with the reverse? I agree maybe they should have talked in depth before anything ever happened. Maybe they did, I don't know. Maybe she is just recently having these desires, I don't know. In my opinion, if this is a problem for her, they just need to quit this lifestyle all together. If she can not come to terms with him not being OK with something, and he is not OK with her doing said activity, who is to say who is right? Sex is sex, yes. But they ARE different situations. I can't sit here and basically call the guy selfish, like it seems so many other people have, and not the the same about the original poster, because NEITHER are OK with each others wishes. One of them needs to give. And it can either be the girl, who won't get another guy, or the guy, who very well may believe that serious damage may be done if they do invite another guy. Personally, between fantasy and relationship, I'd say pick the relationship. And if you believe that you LETTING him play with other women basically means that you expect him to be OK with you and other men... that's not what it's all about.
  5. Well I wouldn't say that we are looking for "friends first", but we are not opposed to having lasting friendships with those we play with. Heck, 1 of the girls that my baby is talking to, they have been friends for over 5 years! Her and her man got curious about all this pretty much the same time we did (coincidence I swear it!!), and we are all sure that it will turn into all 4 of us gettin' busy. Right now we are just looking at a 3some with the other girl (she has permission). What we really want is a few select people we can trust implicitly with each other, and I believe with that degree of trust, a friendship is a natural development. My girl and I agreed from the beginning we would not be "bed-hoppers". We are not in this to experiment with new people, but new situations. I understand those not wanting anything more than a physical connection, but it has been my experience that sex when there is JUST a physical connection is not nearly as satisfying as if you at least are friends with the person. Doesn't have to be love or anything of the sort, just... friends. I could never enjoy myself if she was screwing some other guy with me, and I couldn't TRUST the guy. It may seem that I have strayed off topic, and focus on trust issues more than the original post, however my whole point is that with the trust that at least WE want, friendships, hopefully lasting ones, are inevitable.
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