I first heard about the clubs when going to school in NYC and was dying to go. I've always had a sensual appetite that I think would intimidate most guys I know.
I love meeting fun and interesting people and having great sex, but I am not interested in a relationship. Frankly, I don't have the time (read: patience) for it right now! I know what I want, but can be fairly shy about it. I like more confident and experienced people to bring it out of me.
I've always thought a swingers club would be a great way to meet people and have a good time. It seems like everyone is very friendly and the atmosphere is as comfortable and non-intimidating as possible. Hope I'm right, here's to first timers!