Well, it is like this, after being married for ten years one day my wife came up to me and asked my opinion about "fantasies" after discusing the difference between tha fantasies that can and should be fulfilled; and the ones that should just remain in your imagination, we came down to the ones each of us wants to see come trough. Then she shocked my socks off by telling me that she had the fantasy of watching me having sex with another woman. As you might imagine, I jumped at the chance right away, at first, then I kind of went lead footted because I told her that it sounded to me like just half of the fantasy. That the second part of the fantasy it would be for her to try and have another partner, and that I was not too keen with the idea. After some exchanges of opinions and some ups and downs in the subject, we both agreed that we'd only try the first part of the fantasy and see what came out of it. If we agreed then we would have the second part fulfilled. Funny thing is, before any of this happened, I had to be on my toes so I would not slip and found myself called "a cheat" I thought I had covered the traditional role of the well behaved husband. Once the subject of "the swingging lifestyle" came up, then I found my beliefs and values shaken to the core. I had to face up to the true opinion that I have on some issues. I hate to be pointed at as a liar. But at the same time, I do want to learn about the life style, and deal with the issues of possessiveness on my part. I know that it involves a different type of mentality, that culturally speaking, latinos had been raised up to think only with the "self enjoyment" mentality. That's why I joined this site as well as a whole lotta other sites and clubes over the internet to see if I could find 'that intimate' friend to share my wife's fantasy, but at the same time feeling guilty for allowing this when it only looks selfish.
I would like to hear your advise and opinions on the subject.
Thanks for the help and the chance
Juan
