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STi623

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About STi623

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    Just Getting Started
  • Birthday 10/26/1985

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    Los Angeles
  1. ehh...we've been together 5 years...my mom kind of got over the fact that she was spending the nite...the bigger issue was that we were making a lot of noise...(my fault) in regards to housing... its expensive here in Los Angeles...but ehh i didnt take out any loans for my Bachelors so it wont hurt me too much now that i took out a loan for Grad School...too much talking Basically if your renting a big place you might is well just buy a house...renting in LA isn't cheap...buying a house is a different story...but times are hard for most heres a small update we found a few apartments...gonna go fill out applications on Monday.
  2. ^^^ then I wish i was Euro...haha...i dont know i think its just a cultural thing being from a Latino Family and + my family is old school!!!
  3. thats a good question...which i dont i think i could answer yet...I think my GF and I are still experimenting sexually right now...i guess trying to figure things out...she knows shes bisexual for a fact and shes come to accept that...but were really gonna relax for a while until we get ourselves situated with our own place. i came back home tonite after talking to my mom and my GF and i are currently hunting for an apartment.
  4. Update: well i read everyones comments and ehh...some i liked and some well i just didnt agree w/ but i appreciate the time and effort on everyones behalf...sexcupid thnx so anyway...after talking to my mom...I did apologize about what happend w/my gf and i...but i did deny that her friend had spent the night...my mom didnt really seem to question me on that so...Im assuming she believed me...however she did say she didnt like my gf's friend at all...I tried changing the topic and tried focusing on what the real problem was other than the friend. I just basically told my mom that if im to leave my house i dont want to leave on bad terms and have this incident hanging over our heads for the rest of my life. I went on to tell her about the issues i have reagarding the way im treated by her and my dad. i told her about the loan i took out and told her about my intentions on moving out w/my gf. She said she was okay w/it... dam sorry guys im really tired right now...i'll finish w/the update tommorow
  5. update: thank you to all the responses...a lot of help well its Monday night...I'm still staying w/my friend... I did talk to my dad but he didnt seem to be of much help...he thought the situation was funny and told me to send him a post card if i decide not to come back home...he did tell me that my mom has been stressed out not knowing where ive been and told me to call her. So i called my mom but she was busy w/my grandma and she asked me in a really nice voice if i was going to go home and eat (it made me sick hearing her talk to me that way as if nothing had happend) I dont know if she was talking to me like that to try and convince me to come home or what.... Im convinced that i need to talk to my mom and apologize about the sex and what not and im gonna tell her that ive decided to leave (my parents think i dont have any $$$ but i took out a loan for school...so i have more than enough) my main worry right now is about my mom asking me about my GF's friend...should i just completely deny the alligation...i was thinking of telling her it was a porno we had on...sounds believable to me my gf's friend feels really awful right now too...I feel bad for what happened...she told me that she doesnt want to come around anymore...she feels responsible for what happend but i told her it wasnt her fault...it was basically all of ours but mostly myne for not keeping my dick in check :/....but i cant help but feel bad...shes a really caring person and shes been there for me and my gf when we've needed something...i wouldnt want to lose her as our friend but she feels she cant come around anymore...should i tell her to pretend like nothing happened (since thats gonna be my story...she was never there) I did talk to a close cousin of myne and he apparently found out what happend from my mom...my aunts and uncles were bothered by what my mom did...i know theyre on my side... i guess after thinking it through and talking to my GF were gonna move out...
  6. okay I'll give some brief history before i explain myself... -been w/gf for 4+ years committed relationship -i'm 23 and living at home w/parents (currently in Grad school) -my gf and i have been having fmf w/a friend of hers on and off for the past 4 months now...everything has been good between all of us okay heres the story, we (GF, myself and her friend)recently went out to a club over the weekend and the 3 of us came home late...my gf and her friend were spending the nite...no problem we fell asleep...in the morning we started messing around and had sex... however getting caught up in the moment I didnt realize how much noise we were making atleast w/the bed...and my mom BANGED on the door...she basically cussed me out and my GF(the door was never opened) my mom said she knew about everything that was going on and basically told us to get out. My mom never physically saw my gf's friend, but is pretty sure she heard her. My mom told my older sister what was going on...to make matters worse I packed some of my clothes and left my house...i'm currently staying w/a friend but its only short term...i havent spoke to my mom nor any of my family in the last 2 days since i left...i did leave on good terms w/my dad tho. I come from a somewhat traditional Mexican family...my gf had a good relationship w/my mom...but i think its been shattered...my gf is a wreck from what happend...she feels ashamed and emberassed. my mom tried talking to me that morning after she calmed down somewhat...but i refused not knowing what to say...im still a bit lost and dont know what to do in regards to even talking to my mom and having somewhere to stay. my main concern right now is with my mom no longer accepting my gf...my gf and i were planning on moving in together after X-Mas...but now i dont know if we should do it now. I dont want to leave on bad terms with my mom, but i just dont know what to do...i dont think i can live there anymore and much less even bring my gf to my house...i understand that my mom is upset that we "disrespected her house"...(in most Latino families it doesnt matter how old you are, if your still living with your parents you live by their rules!) any help would be appreciated
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