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sweet_tna last won the day on September 14 2018

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About sweet_tna

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    Being good is overrated
  • Birthday 05/14/1973

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    The boss of Mr. Sweet
  • Location
    Abingdon, MD
  • Swinging Experience
    Five years
  • Anniversary
    4/20/96

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    Sweet_tna
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  1. I agree with you, and kudos to you for erring on the cautionary side. Hopefully, karma will reward you for that! =)
  2. Oh, how frustrating! I would be upfront and say that you don't feel the wife is interested at all, which kinda' puts the kibosh on any potential interest for you. And from the sounds of it you'll probably "miss" each other the next time you visit your home club, anyway. =)
  3. sweet_tna

    The Old Gray Mare...

    I too am glad I read this post after your update. That said, I can sympathize with the mood thing. I don't know if t's early menopause, or the moving stress that's getting to me, but I just haven't found myself to be in the mood too often anymore. I know I need to work on the weight issue, but I also just need an adult night out . . . Ah, well. I'll chalk this up to just another dip in the roller coaster of life. Glad you're back on the upswing. =)
  4. I'm glad things worked out for you and this other couple. Like you, Mr. Sweet and I would much rather have friends than playmates. When they can be both, it's the best of both worlds. =)
  5. I don't like having to turn down friendly people either, but chemistry is a funny thing. It's either there, or it's not. And in my case, being able to talk to someone plays a significant part in the level of chemistry present. It's not easy to tell folks you're not interested, but I do think it's kinder than leading them on (I'm not saying you do that). =)
  6. Glad all went well for her, and you looked fabulous! =)
  7. Thanks, ya'll. And yes, L did live a full life, however brief. Her husband's band did a wonderful job last Saturday, and while he's still trying to find his way, we were all so proud of him. =)
  8. Self doubt, our constant companion--it's a human thing, I think. And when we put ourselves out there with the potential for rejection I think it's even more likely for those of us more prone to it (like me) There's also the antici . . . pation of it all. Sometimes the best we can do is look at ourselves in the mirror and say, "I'm good enough, I'm smart enough, and gosh darn it, other people want to fuck me." Keep that chin up! =)
  9. First off, welcome Mr. Marvin. And yes, as the others have said, your "hit rate" is about average. We tend to only get any real activity when we make changes to our profile, and even then, sometimes we only get folks saying that they enjoyed reading it. Other things to keep in mind: Make sure you have at least vanilla body shots of both of you on the profile (faces can be blurred or cropped out). It helps when looking at profiles to see what both halves look like. If you initiate first contact, then you need to open your face pics. The better written your profile is, the more attention it will garner. Check out other sites, as different sites work better in different areas. Free profiles on some sites may limit the number of emails you may send or receive. We checked our mail much more often when we were new, but now, we may only check it once every other week (if that). We mostly use our profile as a way to sign up for events. To that end, we've had a MUCH higher success rate with clubs and parties, since it eliminates the back-and-forth nonsense of emails and messaging to decide whether you're even interested in meeting. (And sometimes, people are simply more attractive in person.) Last but not least, try to be patient. The right couples are worth the time it takes to find them. Happy Hunting! =)
  10. Oh, I will be the last one to go, so that won't even be an issue . . . Since Mr. Sweet is a guy, he'd likely get more knowing smiles an thumbs-ups. =)
  11. Thanks ya'll! And on one hand,I agree, Chicup. That point actually brought up a moment of levity, when the owners of the club we frequented whispered to us, "We should go up and say how we really knew her, and tell a few stories." Then again, would it not have been a wee bit selfish to reveal things to her already devastated family that would further upset them? (shrugs)
  12. On Mother's Day, our circle of friends was rocked by the death of a dear friend. It was an especially tragic accident, as L was a beautiful person, inside and out. She was great teacher, devoted wife and mother, and volunteered at an animal shelter. She and her husband C were known as one of the most devoted couples you could ever meet. He is, understandably, bereft without her. Hell, were all stunned and heartbroken to learn of her death, and have done our best to make sense of it all as we try to help C through this difficult time. I even chose to spend my birthday with C, as I couldn't justify going out to enjoy a birthday dinner while my friend was hurting so badly. Yet from this tragedy, there is something beautiful in how we've all pulled together to lift not only C up, but each other, as well. L's memorial service was lovely, and so many people gathered to celebrate her life. It was a unique and informal service, held in the garden where she and C were married. None of us stepped up to speak about her, as though there were an unspoken agreement that it would be best not to give her family and coworkers cause to ask how we came to know her. Had I spoken, I'd simply have said that she is what I want to be when I grow up. But we laughed along with the funny anecdotes, and cried with the touching stories. Another light to be found in this darkness is the creation of a literacy foundation in L's name, and an awareness for the causes that were near and dear to her heart. I can only hope that others will strive to continue the work she started, which is the best way to honor her.
  13. Yikes! Almost made you want to kick them out, huh? It's tough to be friendly with someone when they're THAT pushy. Glad ya'll escaped and it didn't ruin the end of your evening, at least.
  14. I probably would've responded the same to their email, as we like to at least have a peek at the folks with whom we're chatting . . . Glad it worked out, though! =)
  15. "You have chosen . . . well." Seriously, you look fantastic. Oh, and to answer your question, no, my room doesn't look like that the day of a party because I'm OCD. I plan out what I'm going to wear (including trying prospective items on) in advance. =)
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