IrvTxCouple

Everyone is a bit different, and we are no exception. I'm a kissing man, I love to kiss. It helps me guage the lady I'm kissing to see how much fun I'm going to have. My lady however, doesn't care to kiss that much. She will kiss her partner but she isn't sloppy about it like I am. However, she has a crutch too... she's a screamer and can't if she's liplocked with someone

It has been said before, but this lifestyle is meant to be fun. But just like in all things, it does need some moderation. A few times the Mrs and I played back to back days, and sometimes it is tough to do. We eventually figured out for us, that after we play, we need a few days to ourselves and that may be exactly what you folks need as well.

I love anal, I didn't for a long time because the person I was with before was an idiot and didn't know what he was doing. Mr. Irv is a master at getting me ready for it (in only a matter of moments most times) and then letting me have it. The orgasms I have while doing anal sometimes make my normal orgasms look like muscle twitches. I completely freak out. One thing though about it is timing, I'm just about always in the mood for it if I've been warmed up otherwise (I can't do it cold at all). And Mr. Irv can usually tell when I want it and when I don't. And so far he hasn't been wrong However, I do not do anal while playing with others. I'm just a bit scared because I've been spoiled by my man and the way he does it. Not once since I've met him has there been any pain at all. It has been pleasure from the instant he starts till I pass out, and I'm afraid that in a playing scene the person I'm with (assuming it isn't him) won't read me right or prepare my tender ass properly first. Long story short ... pound me baby, and I'll cum like Niagra Falls during a flood.

Welcome And that alone makes swinging fun for everyone, I've never heard of a couple who lost interest in each other once they started. Not that it probably hasn't happened, but I bet it is so rare that it might as well never have.

I've always been the adventurous sort, and when I met my wife who was shy and very open took her to a nudist resort and she loved it. However, after time I just openly broached the subject and she said she was interested and would try it. Being an exhibitionist and voyuer it was a turn on for her because other folks would be there for the purpose of watching and being watched. And here we are

Exactly how we started, I'm very experienced and have been around the block a lot more than she has, not to mention she has extremely limited experience. However she is very adventurous and interested, though leary. Once we started to go to clubs she started to open up, got much more comfortable. Things are not full bore atm, but getting there. I think overall patience is the key, yes ... the goal is sex, and lots of it. However, have to take your time getting there so you have good experiences, and diminish the chances of bad ones.

My better half is one as well, when she really works up the neighbors have been known to check on us to make sure everything ok And her being that way is one thing that turns me on, even after all these years sometimes she can shock the hell out of me when she breaks the sound barrier unexpectedly. This is one reason we haven't had a separate room experience yet, though we have discussed it but no conclusion yet. Since we are exhibitionists and voyeurs, seeing others playing while watching us raises the turn on level a few dozen notches. She is extremely sensitive and damages easily (that's the only real way to put it), even I have to check myself sometimes because she can't handle it very rough if she isn't ready. ; and it takes her a while to build up to the point that "anything goes". I am interested in separate room play, but till she is ready it will probably never happen. And if/when it does, it will come as a surprise, because even though we have rules things change based on our comfort level. And I guess that is the real point of this long winded post Only progress with what you are comfortable with, but playing and experimenting is just half the fun of this lifestyle.

This thread is awesome thank you! I have to disagree with this also, we started in the lifestyle by going to clubs (off-premise clubs) so we could meet others and talk to them in an atmosphere that was a pressure cooker of raw sex. Everyone we met, those we approached and those that approached us, we told up front we were new to the scene and they understood and were patient with us. Helped us out and talked to us and "made friends". If we had gone with internet or other types of ads to meet folks first I do not think we would be as happy as we are now with the choice we made when we decided to "broaden our horizons".

Mr Here ... I've always known I was a freak, just thought I was much worse than this thing tells me I came in at 654 (You are a major league kinkster!) Mrs Here ... I felt silly as I have such limited experience, but he's making up for that! I got 480 (You are definitely a kinky player.) Didn't think I'd score that high, but I guess I'm getting there