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  1. Y'all realize this thread is from 2012, right?
  2. I would probably just ask her where she wants it. Aside from that, we usually communicate those types of things before things get going, like when we're discussing likes and dislikes.
  3. We've been playing with others for a little over two years now. We've played with 6 or 7 couples, two of those several times (and continuing) so I guess we're experienced...although not very. When we play it's full swap with the girls playing together as well. We don't play very often and the mrs. doesn't really like clubs, but when we do make it out, we always have a great time!
  4. We've seen it many times in many profiles, so we thought there was some "standard" meaning to it, that's all....rather than asking everyone what they mean by that.
  5. This is how we usually see it posted, in the dislikes. I can't see who would actually WANT this, which is the reason for the question to begin with. We had a suspicion that this is what it meant, but wanted other opinions in case we were reading too much into it. Thanks!
  6. Just wondering what "no kids/children" means when listed in swinger profiles? We couldn't find it in any of the glossary listings.
  7. We have had some of the same problems as you. In a year, we have 3 experiences. As for "professional", that depends on what you're talking about. From what you describe, you seem to mean more of a highly educated type. There are plenty of professionals around who did not complete extensive schooling and training such as doctors and lawyers, so maybe you need to adjust your expectations accordingly. It's definitely work to find compatible couples, and obviously, with more criteria, the more difficult it will be to find them. This is where we are at, with reduced expectations and more of a relaxed search.. Now, as for the other issues...from what we've seen on this site and others, it's pretty common that there are fakes, pic collectors, etc. We have attended several meet and greets with little success as well. Seems most who are there go all the time and know each other, whereas we only go from time to time. Plus, we can be shy at times. Still working on breaking out of that shell at these events. It can be frustrating, but since it is not an all the time thing for us, we don't get too concerned about it. Between our schedule, others' schedules, kids, etc. it can be difficult to just set up a meet, nevermind actually play! Through all that, we have had a few fun get togethers though, and those experiences are what keep us interested. Good luck!
  8. Maybe the name of the thread is a little misleading, but the original intent was to ask what the "drug" part of D/D free meant. Of course everyone should be concerned about diseases, as are we, but as far as they go, you either have a disease or you do not. Liars, yes they are out there, but what are you going to do? Hopefully, when you meet someone, you can evaluate their sincerity level, but that's another thread entirely. The other half, concerning the drugs, is where we have people scoffing at us, and that's why we started the thread. It just seems that some folks have differing opinions on what a drug is, which I've tried to clear up earlier in the thread. We're talking illegal substances here, that's all. I know, we're back to personal preferences here, but we were just looking for others' opinions on it. After seeing all of these replies, here's OUR take on it: to each their own, but if someone doesn't want to play with a someone else because they are a recreational drug user of any kind (and no, NOT viagra, that's supposed to be a prescription med) then it should just be respected and no big deal. Why must some feel the need to justify their actions, or put others down who don't want to be around that atmosphere? We don't dictate whether or not anyone should do anything specific...We are not judgmental in any way, we just choose not to be a part of that scene, or be anywhere around it for that matter. Thanks again for ALL of your replies! It really is good to see such differing points of view!
  9. Ok, a little clarification from our standpoint. We have no problems with any LEGAL substance, such as alcohol, cigarettes, PRESCRIPTION meds, etc. Yes, they are drugs, but so is aspirin and allergy medication...the same, maybe not, but let's not get ridiculous here. For us it's the ILLEGAL stuff. As far as diseases go, that seems pretty self-explanatory (although I thought the other part was too, so who knows!)...but for that, as most others probably are too, we're talking those little std nasties. Thanks for your replies so far!!!
  10. Hi all! While we all know what D/D free means when posted in profiles, do people who partake in "a little weed from time to time" count as D/D free? The reason for asking is that on a few occasions, we have received communication from couples who claim that they're "not into drugs" but they use marijuana. In our opinion, any illegal drug is what is meant as part of the D/D free criteria. However, when we return our thoughts to these people, we are often chided or spoken down upon. While we are not going to change our minds based on any replies here, we would like to get a feel of what others think about this. Thanks!
  11. The Mrs. here has expressed concerns over the other F in profiles we've looked at many times. She is more comfortable with women who have bodies like hers, or at least those who have a little something extra, so that's one aspect we look for in playmates. So far, we have never encountered any problems after playing though, as most have fit that description. We've only been in the lifestyle for about a year, and with that only a few play experiences. She seems to be getting more comfortable, and less concerned about this each time we play, so maybe it's something that just has to work itself out.
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