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Ellcie

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  1. Good times.....yet again.... DITTO lol.....I'm starting to think you and I might get along well Heat and passion is not equivallant to love....I am not 'making love' to the guy.......just seeing fireworks and rainbows while f**king him (and I will cover my bases this time by saying that....yes, I see them with my spouse as well, lol) I am new to this board....I am stating to think that tempers might easily get flared here, eh? Many very well spoken people, I have noticed. However, it's so easy to have something taken in a manner in which it was not intended.
  2. (We swing both ways, but at this time, I prefer separate) I agree with Goodtimes in all the points made in the post above...very well put...DITTO and I will add.......it is not that I would do things without my spouse there, that I would not do in front of him.....that's not it. I do not 'let loose' in the 'things' that I do. The actions I do would be the same with his presence or not. The differerence is the HEAT felt by me and my partner, that comes from one on one.....that comes from intense focus on one another without distraction. Perhaps you have never tried it, and can therefore, not relate. It's the difference between just f**king (period).......and being so totally overwhelmed by the passion and heat.....that it intoxicates you. Literally, makes you slur words (I've had that happen) and feel whoozy. It takes an amazing match for that to happen.....rare....but unlike anything else. So it's more like....separate room is to get to that level (and some may not be able to/or want to get there)....but it is NOT a way of getting away from my spouse. No 'issues' exist with us. I just rather make the most of a fantastic situation
  3. We have done both....separate only with a couple we know well and trust. I (f) prefer separate room for a number of reasons. I do not especially enjoy watching my husband with the other woman. It does not, in any way at all bother me, other then I find the sounds distracting. I might be totally engulfed in my play....feeling 'drunk'....without having drank.....and then the sounds snap me right out of it.....bummer . I also find that I can let loose and be totally myself easier when it is one on one. Not that I hold back because of my husband, but one on one is much more personal, and a makes for a smaller audience, thus makes for a wilder me. The touching and play that, as a result, doesn't occur with my own spouse, I don't miss because I have him all the time at home. Also, in regards to the couple we are with at this time...the man performs better separate room, due to the lack of distraction. So that is a huge plus for me as well. We trust each other completely and do not feel the need to have to keep our eyes on the other. Not that all same room couples feel that need, but I think many do. The first few times we would be with a new couple, I would prefer same room just to 'see what he's getting'....and to gain trust in the other couple.
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