pdogg

Wow, good topic!. Haven't posted in a while but it just so happens that my wife and I are pretty adventurous. As we've gotten a little older..43,45 we lost a little of that part of our relationship. I brought up that topic last month so we decided to go to our local casino. We took a coach bus there which is about a 1/12 drive with a couple of pick-ip points. It was pretty funny that most of the passengers were 60 yrs old and older. We smiled the whole way there about how young we were compared to everyone else. Anyway, on the ride up we chatted and held hands and acted like the youthful couple we had been up to this point. I actually put my hands down her pants and fingered her to an orgasm. She was so blown away! While at the casino we actually looked for places to fuck but, being a casino there are cameras everywhere. Not that we couldn't have sex knowing cameras were on us but it was a little scary. Funny how we think differently in our 40's than our 20's or even 30's. My wife even offered to go into one of the men's bathroom stalls and fuck me on the toilet. I actually turned her down. What an idiot!!! On our ride back home that evening, we were definitely hot and horny and started fooling around a bit..kissing, touching, grabbing. We started to notice how quite the bus was getting and that these lovely senior citizens were all falling asleep. I took the initiative and started fingering Teresa and made her cum again. The bus was slowly starting to thin out and when she felt comfortable enough she starting giving me a blowjob. There was a guy behind is who wasn't as old as the other passengers who seemed to be nodding off and on. It was at one of his "on" nods that I felt him staring at us as Teresa was sucking me. I didn't say a word. Pretty soon, only 4 or 5 people were left on the bus. The bus was pretty dark and quiet so my wife pulled down her pants and sat on top of me. Holy crap!!..we actually were fucking on this bus with people on it and it was probably the most daring thing we've ever done. You know those buses have the big windows on them and we could see the cars and trucks going by and we were in total sexual oblivion. Anyway, we're thinking of going again this saturday and see if we can pull it off again.

Great topic. My wife and I have been together since the 6th grade and started having sex when I was 16 and she 18. Up until about 21 or 22 I was definitely a "quick cummer". The longer we were together and the more sex we had that started to change. Clearly, maturity on my part played a huge role as I learned to really "please" my wife. Our foreplay was extended and she really explained to me what felt good and what didn't. I did the same and eventually I started lasting longer and longer. I really learned to control my rhythm and staying power. But up until now that has backfired because I cannot seem to orgasm from a blowjob. I concentrate so much on our lovemaking being over that I forget what the end result should be and that is to cum. She has agreed many times to give me the 20 minute blowjob but I get so frustrated that we immediately have sex. I became so proud of the fact that I could last long that I lost sight of what it was all about. Watching all that damn porn doesn't help matters. I need to remind myself that I don't get paid to last long and concentrate on having fun. Sorry for the lengthy letter but this really hit home.

I (Hubby) brought up the actual topic but we've been fantasizing about it during sex for a few years. In the beginning it was enough to bring us both to orgasm but after a while it started to drive me crazy with the thought of the actual thing. In all honesty my wife is so sensual and sexual and loves the idea of "nasty" talk during sex. When I first brought up the subject of swinging she really wanted to keep the talk of it and those thoughts in the bedroom. We have since had a guy perform oral on her and we are in talks of going further.