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Forum: Saying No Gracefully - A Swinger Skill

Skillful swingers know how to say no with poise and grace with respect to everyone involved.

  1. Rejecting ugly people

    by WhatisTruth, 04-17-2011 12:12 PM
    attraction, rejection, saying no
    • Replies: 24
    • Views: 6,135
    04-24-2011, 12:32 AM Go to last post
  2. How would you all have handled this bad experience?

    by hardrockers70, 01-03-2011 12:35 AM
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    escape methods, saying no
    • Replies: 29
    • Views: 5,557
    01-19-2011, 12:54 PM Go to last post
  3. Why are you so rude to people on your profile?

    by jdavisauto, 09-25-2008 11:46 AM
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    rejection, rude behavior, swinger profiles
    • Replies: 47
    • Views: 5,184
    11-23-2008, 04:28 PM Go to last post
    • Replies: 22
    • Views: 5,120
    07-02-2006, 11:44 AM Go to last post
  4. How to say we are only interested in the wife...

    by the 2 of us, 11-01-2005 07:24 AM
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    one sided
    • Replies: 25
    • Views: 4,684
    11-04-2005, 12:22 AM Go to last post
  5. Not even receiving a "Thanks, but no thanks" Email

    by NDN, 11-04-2009 01:36 PM
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    rejection, saying no
    • Replies: 34
    • Views: 4,381
    02-01-2010, 07:39 PM Go to last post
    • Replies: 16
    • Views: 4,365
    11-12-2006, 11:05 PM Go to last post
  6. DON'T you smell it??? YUCK.........

    by swinger5, 06-06-2008 08:15 AM
    bad smell, pussy smell
    • Replies: 20
    • Views: 4,261
    06-11-2008, 09:01 PM Go to last post
  7. [A] Your weirdest reason for saying "no"

    by Spoomonkey, 01-08-2006 08:35 PM
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    saying no
    • Replies: 27
    • Views: 4,253
    07-16-2012, 01:48 AM Go to last post
  8. How to Uninvite a couple

    by exquisit1s, 04-07-2008 03:35 PM
    saying no
    • Replies: 15
    • Views: 4,090
    04-26-2008, 07:59 AM Go to last post
  9. Situation gone bad???

    by anon for now, 01-18-2005 02:24 AM
    bad experiences, saying no
    • Replies: 15
    • Views: 3,969
    01-22-2005, 10:45 AM Go to last post
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    • Views: 3,930
    03-27-2004, 08:41 PM Go to last post
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    • Views: 3,775
    02-06-2007, 08:59 PM Go to last post
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    • Views: 3,764
    01-08-2011, 11:03 AM Go to last post
  10. Avoiding hurt feelings

    by inbeachcouple, 01-02-2005 11:23 AM
    communication, hurt feelings, saying no
    • Replies: 16
    • Views: 3,727
    01-05-2005, 11:25 AM Go to last post
    • Replies: 26
    • Views: 3,609
    06-27-2010, 05:24 AM Go to last post
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    • Views: 3,564
    12-02-2007, 11:51 PM Go to last post
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    • Views: 3,484
    04-18-2011, 05:31 PM Go to last post
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    • Views: 3,370
    10-31-2008, 11:33 AM Go to last post
  11. What do you say?

    by scoobyandme, 12-08-2004 04:50 AM
    responding to ads, saying no, swinger profiles
    • Replies: 15
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    12-10-2004, 09:42 AM Go to last post
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    • Views: 3,259
    09-24-2006, 07:25 PM Go to last post
    • Replies: 15
    • Views: 3,194
    12-13-2004, 09:48 PM Go to last post
  12. We said yes, now she says no

    by Dont.Stop, 05-28-2011 05:01 PM
    lost interest
    • Replies: 8
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    06-14-2011, 04:35 PM Go to last post
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    • Views: 3,140
    04-19-2004, 04:25 PM Go to last post
  13. Time for silence or honesty?

    by SsHubby, 04-26-2011 12:05 PM
    honesty, saying no
    • Replies: 17
    • Views: 3,136
    04-27-2011, 07:16 PM Go to last post
  14. Unwanted Bonding

    by Coffeeblack, 02-09-2011 08:37 PM
    bonding
    • Replies: 11
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    02-12-2011, 01:43 PM Go to last post
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    • Views: 3,127
    07-19-2010, 01:34 PM Go to last post
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    • Views: 3,106
    05-09-2011, 01:38 PM Go to last post
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    • Views: 3,085
    02-07-2010, 09:16 AM Go to last post
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    • Views: 3,015
    02-19-2012, 12:41 PM Go to last post
  15. How to say good-bye?

    by b_and_sc, 02-23-2004 10:10 PM
    hurt feelings, negatives of swinging, saying no
    • Replies: 12
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    02-25-2004, 07:05 PM Go to last post
  16. Red face Attraction or no attraction?

    by lordnladylawren, 02-21-2006 06:34 AM
    attraction, not interested, rejection, saying no
    • Replies: 8
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    02-23-2006, 06:56 PM Go to last post
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    12-20-2004, 05:42 AM Go to last post
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    12-01-2011, 09:37 AM Go to last post
  17. Are we really full of it........?

    by Thundermerwe, 01-26-2009 10:35 AM
    saying no
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    01-26-2009, 10:30 PM Go to last post
  18. Unhappy Possible Drama with couple

    by Desdemona1980, 06-27-2012 05:05 PM
    bad experiences, cheating, drama, singles and clubs
    • Replies: 10
    • Views: 2,784
    07-01-2012, 12:36 PM Go to last post
  19. Turning down someone?

    by Desertbird, 01-29-2011 11:20 PM
    saying no
    • Replies: 10
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    01-31-2011, 09:33 AM Go to last post
  20. How do you "gently reject" someone?

    by funat40, 07-14-2010 09:44 AM
    rejection, saying no
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    07-16-2010, 10:41 PM Go to last post
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    03-04-2006, 01:31 PM Go to last post
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    • Views: 2,661
    09-21-2013, 12:52 AM Go to last post
  21. Question Only interested as friends

    by blinkey, 04-02-2006 01:36 PM
    common questions, friendship and swinging, not interested
    • Replies: 10
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    04-03-2006, 10:43 AM Go to last post
  22. Question Meet up and then it doesn't click...

    by jnkrhot, 04-19-2012 12:03 AM
    first meet, meeting others, no connection, rejection, response time, saying no
    • Replies: 11
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    06-20-2012, 07:39 PM Go to last post
  23. When They're Not Ready

    by WeMayTryIt, 10-01-2007 11:19 PM
    communication, not ready
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    10-02-2007, 09:19 PM Go to last post
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    11-13-2013, 05:33 PM Go to last post
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    05-31-2007, 11:50 AM Go to last post
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    • Views: 2,508
    03-28-2009, 11:43 AM Go to last post
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    • Views: 2,410
    08-02-2013, 10:50 PM Go to last post
  24. First club experience

    by Linkin40, 05-03-2011 08:59 PM
    saying no
    • Replies: 4
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    05-24-2011, 06:45 PM Go to last post
  25. Dealing with Rejection

    by JustAskJulie, 06-23-2008 01:29 PM
    negatives of swinging, rejection
    • Replies: 13
    • Views: 2,333
    06-26-2008, 10:12 PM Go to last post
  26. Post Do we owe them an explanation?

    by EnjoyingLife, 11-01-2011 11:01 PM
    saying no
    • Replies: 12
    • Views: 2,286
    11-25-2011, 11:02 AM Go to last post

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