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Has anyone had this happen before? Before we get into it, it was an interesting experience for me.

 

Have you partied with someone and they left marks on you? i.e. hickies or bite marks or maybe scratch marks?

 

How did it affect you? Your spouse?

 

In the throes of passion things happen and you can't always plan them out in advance.

 

For us it was a positive and new experience. The sensation of touching a sensitive spot makes that moment of passion last for several days as I am coming to realize.

 

The wife smiles at me when I remind her of it or she sees the marks. The only thing is I have to wear a shirt around the kids until the marks are gone.

 

Thanks and you know who you are.

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Some marks are good. But we did have a lady leave lots (I am talking 13 clawmarks) from the top of hubby's back to bottom. Well that kinda annoyed me. I personally expect some marks and that is great and fun to talk about after the fact! It does keep it going for days on end. I have also had a lady friend leave a hickey (very small) on my neck before after we made out for the first time together and the first time for me. She said it was so I would remember!! So I would have to say small marks are great as long as it is within reason.

 

I have long nails and I'm careful about leaving scratches because I don't want to be inconsiderate about it. I have in the past left little ones here or there and silly but Ii feel bad about doing that although they haven't seemed to mind any. As long as it was done during passion and not just to say "hey, I was here" I find it a turn-on to see. I know my hubby did a good job!!

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I am bad about leaving marks at time... when I really get into things or when I've been drinking. AND, I love to be bitten so it's not uncommon for me to end up being the marked one as well.

 

If I'm not too drunk to care (or for that matter to notice that I'm doing it), I do try to NOT leave marks... it is possible to bite, claw, etc without leaving them.... but occasionally you don't know what you really did until the next day.

 

Bite ME!

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A few small marks can be a nice reminder how the night went.

 

Any type that needs ointment later, well that is a bit excessive.We will allow them and will place them where the kids or anyone else will not ask questions later.

 

We always have same room and keep an eye or join in when we swap,so the marks can be a reminder as to what is a great feeling. Can be a learning experience... 😈

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Ummm, yes I have left marks before, didn't mean to, just happened.

 

Sometimes they are not good to leave...like when your husband is right out of boot-camp and it's the day before inspection. Honestly, I really didn't mean to leave marks, it was just that we had been separated so long and well...I got carried away facelick

 

Teresa

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Originally posted by thestars

A few small marks can be a nice reminder how the night went.

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Mmmm...I know what you mean. I enjoy having my nipples pinched, bitten, etc. J knows this and obliges. :fun:

 

The next day they're sometimes sore, but part of the fun is having a souvenir from the night before.

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Although there have been occasions where in the heat of the moment it can just happen, overall both Mrs. WS and I are against body marks given by other people. Especially anywhere that can't be covered-up easily. This is definitely an area that a partner has to ask about first.

 

We've given them to each other... but we're married to each other and for us that's different then some guy marking-up Mrs. WS's body.

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During passion she loves to have her breasts sucked. When we engage in a hot, (some are just hotter then others) she likes the new male to mark her breasts with deep bright hickies on both sides of her nipples and just underneath them. This benefits all of us, she goes wild when it happens and for the several days it takes for them to go away every time she sees them it makes her hot again so I benefit from that. All in all everyone benefits.

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I'm not quite as affected by bruises or scratches as I am by perfume, cologne or the scent of another body on Mr. intuition. It just drives me crazy. Trouble is, it only lasts a short time. :( But "personal evidence" like lipstick stains for example, are cool too. Sort of like in that post, 'You know you're a swinger when you see lipstick stains on your husband's collar and all you can do is smile.'

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Small visible marks are ok. I've had my back clawed into hamburger before, and as long as I can cover them up when I want too, that's ok too.

The girlfriend doesn't really mind too much. She's got some claws of her own...

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We had an experience with a man we like to call "Mr. Bitey" and it wasn't nearly as much fun as one might imagine.

 

The problem was that, although I often enjoy passionate and almost feral sexual romps, there needs to be a particular "mood" in place first. Mr. Bitey seemed to think that I would enjoy him coming up behind me and literally digging his teeth into my neck, with no pre-emptive lick, suck, or even a nibble. Just went straight for the Chomp.

 

I dealt with that by gently pulling away (carefully, for fear of losing skin) and turning around, whispering "be gentle" into his ear. It seems he understood. but I was wrong.

 

As the evening progressed and we were all in the hotel room (3 couples), Mr. Bitey seemed to greatly enjoy me, in particular. He was all over me, which was nice, until he went down on me and literally bit my clit extremely hard. I yelped, and again, tried the "be gentle" words. His response? He bit it again (albeit slightly more gently this time)!

 

When he was on my breasts, he literally bit and added a scrape to my nipples (mainly the right one). By this point, I was barely aware of it because we were actively involved with other body parts and I was in the midst of a terrific series of orgasms, but...

 

After everyone left and I put on my terry cloth robe, I was horrified to discover that my right nipple had turned blue and was so raw that it couldn't stand any material touching it.

 

It took a few days for the scabbing to appear and come off, and now my right nipple is almost its normal color, but it was truly awful! My own husband couldn't touch it for many days, and I wasn't able to wear a bra either.

 

My question is...why would people attempt to bite someone without specific permission? I would never dare to assume that someone likes to be nipped without first clarifying it with them, or at least starting by applying gentle tooth pressure and gauging response. And if someone says "Be Gentle" shouldn't that be respected?

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I have never had any marks left on me without someone asking first. That being said, we did have meet a lady friend the other day and she didn't claw, she just hit when she would cum. I had never seen it before and it was actually quite funny. After the evening was over and the three of us were laying around relaxing I had to ask if I had bruises on my shoulders from her constant attack. :D

 

But to me a little mark in a private spot that can be covered wouldn't be bad, but I don't want MrsVan coming back from a party with a huge mark on the side of her neck or bite marks all over her breasts.. I like to play afterwards and if they can't be touched because of someone that was overly aggressive, it might actually make me a little upset at the person.

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Passion marks are a very big turn-on for us, but better off below the collar.

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Shelly was left some last weekend on her neck. Not that we really minded he left them, but he left some high on her neck. She works in an office where that is just not looked upon in the greatest of fashion. He also left a bruise on her arm from grabbing hold a little too hard. Passion marks are fine when not left for plain sight of others.

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Personally, a few scratch marks here and there might be ok (hey we all have a different reaction to an orgasm or even if your normal reaction is to dig in a leave nail marks on someone...ok, as long as they don't take weeks to heal up b/c you dug in so deep...lol).

 

But I am very mindful of not leaving hickeys or other suck marks on my playmates and I would appreciate not having any left on me or my SO. Now, if Jeff wants to leave bite marks up and down my neck or on my boobs...he can go for it. There are very few people I like to get rough like that with me, and if I find one that I would, I will make sure it's ok with my SO and make the playmate well aware that they can have at it. lmao ;)

 

But that's just me.

 

Maria :kissface:

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I had a hickey left on me once from a playmate -- he was so skillful I didn't even notice it until the next day (he gets kudos for that!). I wasn't happy about it -- it was hard to hide. Mr. Fun didn't seem to mind.

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I accidentally left a BIG mark on a lady once. we were in a playroom that was fairly dark. I started sucking on the side of her neck. The more and harder I sucked on her neck the more worked up she got. She was pulling my head into her neck so I'm very sure she was having a great time. Neither of us knew at the time just how badly I was marking her up till we came out of the dimly lit playroom and her husband nearly busted a gut laughing. Her neck looked like she had been beaten with a lead pipe. She got a mirror and looked and was horrified. I felt awful about it but she assured me she had a great time getting those marks even though the next week was going to be very un-fun for her.

 

She works in an office with Mr. Super Religious Prude as a boss. She and her husband still talk to us so I guess she survived. :lol:

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Mrs. WS doesn't mind body marks on me as long as they can be hidden in everyday life. And she teases me about them when I get them, as well as it's a source of pride for her that her husband did something so extraordinary to another woman that she marked me in wild abandon. :D

 

I feel the same about Mrs. WS. Seeing a mark left by a playmate that she had a great time with turns me on. It reminds me over and over of the fun she had, which in turn makes me proud that she's that good a lover. And the memory of that gets me going again and we have great sex for days afterward. :D

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Also a big turn-on to see a woman that you don't know in a store or something with one.

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I received a couple from a person I was playing with, I didn't know until my wife said something to me the next day. I thought it was cool, She didn't mind, she just teased me over them and gave me a bigger one. :lol:

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On 3/30/2006 at 1:33 AM, WesternSwing said:

Although there have been occasions where in the heat of the moment it can just happen, overall both Mrs. WS and I are against body marks given by other people. Especially anywhere that can't be covered-up easily. This is definitely an area that a partner has to ask about first.

 

Pretty much our thoughts on the matter. If they aren't visible, neither one of us is going to mind too much if it just accidentally happened, and things sometimes do. She doesn't want any Monday morning the talk of the office hickeys on her neck even if I'm the one that put them there 😁

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Both hubby and Red have left marks on my body from sex.  Both were from the resulting pregnancies, but fortunately, they hardly noticeable.

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That is a part of how my oldest sibling met my future wife.

My sister had been worried about me as I had been in a particularly dark fame of mind.

 

 My lady and I went to my parents house for the first time together. My sister was there. She came up to me and with a concerned look reached up and pulled back my collar and asked "What happened to you?"

Then pulling the collar back further, a slightly confused look, a glance over to my partner, and a laugh and a HUGE smile.

 

Instant approval on the sibs front.

 

 

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The only one who really leaves hickies on me is my GF but I have had some scratch marks from other women before.  My GF likes rough sex so she has had quite a bit of bruises left from rough sex and also from having sex in awkward places like cars.

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I have no problems receiving hickeys or scratches in the heat of passion but the women that I am with don't like hickeys on their neck. I like to leave hickeys on their thighs and pelvic area. But for me personally, they can leave any Mark's on me!

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