Do you go to strip clubs with other couples?

Anyone else enjoy going to strip clubs with other couples?

This is something we've talked about doing with some of our play partners. I think the reason that we haven't done it is that we see some of them so infrequently that "other activities" seem to take priority. So far, we've only been to strip bars with our vanilla friends (as I was mentioning on another thread, often our vanilla friends seem wilder than our play friends).

We have been a few times, but not with another couple.

 

We have enjoyed and had a nice time with a dancer

Love, love, love it. We go alone, just the 2 of us, with our vanilla friends, and have brought playmates with us. We have a ball, laughing, cutting up. We haven't brough a couple yet, but are planning on doing that soon!!!

We went to a club with my buddy. This is how our only soft swing MFM situation happened.

We have gone with friends. Had a BLAST. The other couples there were having more fun watching us than the dancers and the manager only had to get on us twice lol

I have been afraid to go back after a very unfortunate experience...

 

I was in college and I had never been to a strip club. Of course, I was in Bible College, so going to a strip club was a bad thing, but I was driving some distance one day and passed one on the side of the road...

 

Being a strip club "virgin" I didn't notice the "red flags" surrounding the place:

 

1. It was the middle of the day when the school bus drivers are working their strip shifts
2. The only cars in the lot were trucks - and none newer than circa 1956
3. The sign outside said "no cover charge"

I didn't stop on the first pass... I talked myself out of it, but it stuck with me... I ran my errands and tried to be a "good boy" but on the way back, I was overcome with curiosity...

 

I mean - I'm a guy, right? I am certainly free to satisfy my curiosity, wasn't I? Just stop for a second, look around, and then leave...

 

No big deal...

 

I walked through the front door and immediately was hit with a blush that made my face burn. I kept my eyes on the floor as I made a bee-line to the restroom. I did my business and - ashamed of myself - decided I was just going to leave...

 

But as I was walking as quickly as I could, I decided, "hey - it isn't going to kill you to take a look." Besides - if I didn't, it would eat at me...

 

So I looked...

 

And what I saw, I still wake up in a cold sweat over...

 

There on stage, writhing about, looking every bit like a walrus trying to wrestle free of a fisherman's net, was the most loathsome bit of chick-flesh I have ever laid eyes on.

 

Toothless old men waved their social security checks at her as if they were trying to help her ward off flies...

 

"Do you need a drink, buddy?" the bartender asked as I zipped past...

 

"Yes," I said, not stopping. "Yes, I do..."

 

A single woman that we are in serious flirt mode with has asked us to go with her and I suppose I will break down. But if I never go to another strip club after that experience, it will be fine with me

Awww...Spoo, they're not all that bad.

I went to one a few months ago in a rural area. Some of the girls were from the city, but some of the others...they were definitely from the country. I don't think anyone was missing teeth, but there was one girl who looked like she had never even heard of a dentist.

 

But we had a great time anyway! It really is a good place to get all sexed up and ready to go. Although, we didn't have sex after... It was a lot of fun, and I'd go back with a couple.

We enjoy strip clubs and have gone either just the two of us or with our vanilla friends. We have never gone with a swinger couple and I guess it's probably because we meet most couples in a swing club and there is plenty of stripping there so why leave.

Spoomonkey said:

There on stage, writhing about, looking every bit like a walrus trying to wrestle free of a fisherman's net, was the most loathsome bit of chick-flesh I have ever laid eyes on.

Quite the visual, Spoo.....thanks

 

Tam and I go to an upscale strip club about once or twice a year. Going in with her is better than flashing a $100 bill. The dancers just gravitate to her. Although she's not bisexual, Tam does enjoy the beauty of the girls and the attention they give her.

 

About 10 years ago, while visiting one, Tammy had a run in with one of the dancer's while in the ladies room. Seems this dancer thought Tammy was visiting from another club and trying to steal their customers. She wanted to kick Tam's ass in the bathroom. Tammy thanked her for the compliment, but she was here with her husband

 

Another time at another club, Tammy elbows me and says......"I know that older lady, she's Bobby's mom" (Bobby being her brother's boyhood best friend). Come to find out, she was the House Mother for the dancers. We said hello, and of course she remembered Tammy. She took us up to the VIP room where we all talked for about a half hour. She then got up and said "enjoy yourselves for the rest of the evening up here.....it's on me."

I love going to a certain strip club with my husband. In our state (New Jersey) most clubs serve alchohol, and the stripping is very tame (no nudity). Our favorite club is unusual in NJ - it is a 'juice bar' - the girls strip nude and you can bring your own beer or wine. Although the male/female ratio is about 50:1, and very few couples attend - we tend to stand out in the crowd - which actually lends to my (exhibitionist) excitement.

 

As an 'interested' female, I get plenty of attention from the female dancers (most of them like/favor girls to some extent). I sometimes split a private lap dance with my husband. The dancers are great/sexy and I get am usually afforded certain 'comforts' in the lap dance room that are not afforded to males. Although men must keep their hands pinned to their sides, I enjoy many liberties - giving and receiving.

 

Being outnumbered at a nudie bar strip club by horny anonymous males can be somewhat intimidating - but I always feel safe in the company of the dancers (who are savy and afforded great security), the bouncers (who are strong and professional), and my husband (who is extra-strong...and my personal body guard).

 

Sure, go as a couple with other couples, sounds like great fun to me!

Denver has a "couples-friendly" strip club known as PT's Showclub. Every Friday and Saturday night, swinger couples will gather on the north side of the club. This club also has a dance floor which allows for some very dirty dancing. We like to go there several times a year.

Strip club? Why bother when we can go to an off-premise club and get the best of both worlds (strip club/dance club). We get to see ladies running around in G-strings and get to touch some as well while dancing like wild monkeys.

Strip club? Why bother when we can go to an off-premise club and get the best of both worlds (strip club/dance club). We get to see ladies running around in G-strings and get to touch some as well while dancing like wild monkeys.

That's a fair point. Once you're in the lifestyle for a while, strip clubs lose a lot of their appeal, but there are still several reasons why we'd rather go to PT's Showclub instead of our local off-premise clubs.

 

1. It's cheaper. The entry fees for the local off-premise clubs are higher than the cover charge at PT's.

 

2. Better availability of alcohol. The local off-premise clubs offer cash bars, but they don't offer the variety of drinks available at PT's.

 

3. The DJ's and music are better. At PT's, not only are the DJ's more experienced than the private ones hired by the off-premise clubs, but they also get to use PT's superior sound system.

 

4. The people-watching at PT's is fantasic. On the weekends, male dancers are featured on one stage, and they always draw a huge crowds of bachelorette parties and other groups of ladies on a "girl's night out." On some nights, the female patrons at PT's will outnumber the male patrons, and the ladies can get pretty wild!

Greg & Sheryl said:

1. It's cheaper. The entry fees for the local off-premise clubs are higher than the cover charge at PT's.

 

Really?

 

I will admit to ignorance, but one of the turn offs for me is that I think you end up paying a lot for a little. I mean, you pay a cover and then pay for drinks and then tip like crazy... It seems to me it would be way more expensive.

 

Our club costs us 15 bucks to get in (we always get there early and there's a discount). I am not sure what the cover charge is at a strip club, but I can't imagine that you could get in and out for less than fifty once you figure in drinks and tips...

 

Not questioning you guys, since I sincerely don't know. I just thought this was interesting.

Haven't gone with another couple but the hubby and I have been to a few and like it. Most of the girls get quite a kick out of seeing a couple there, and as a female I don't feel uncomfortable at all. On one occasion at a first time to a local club the bartender told us "hey, we have pretty good food here if you would like to see a menu". I was thinking PFFT yeah right like I'm gonna eat in a strip club! But...well of course I wanted to see a menu We ordered appetizers and they were so good we actually stayed for awhile and ordered a meal. It was some of the best food I've had in the area (it is hard to cook Calamari correctly).

 

I do have a question for WildMI..at the end of an evening we found out about the VIP room upstairs, it was late so we didn't go. I was wondering what you could get in the VIP room that you couldn't get downstairs, and details please

I will admit to ignorance, but one of the turn offs for me is that I think you end up paying a lot for a little. I mean, you pay a cover and then pay for drinks and then tip like crazy... It seems to me it would be way more expensive.

 

Our club costs us 15 bucks to get in (we always get there early and there's a discount). I am not sure what the cover charge is at a strip club, but I can't imagine that you could get in and out for less than fifty once you figure in drinks and tips...

Of the two off-premise clubs in Denver, one charges a $20 annual fee plus $25 per social, while the other charges a $50 annual fee plus $30 per social. At PT's Showclub, there is no cover charge before 8pm, after which the cover is $7 per person.

 

Neither of us are big drinkers, so it's rare for us to spend more than $15-20 on drinks, including tips. Furthermore, although it's a bit embarrassing to admit this, we almost never tip the dancers! Generally, we stick to socializing with other couples, dancing on the dance floor and people-watching from from one of the tables at the north end of the club. Thus, a night at PT's typically costs us less than $30.

Strip clubs in Reno are definately more expensive than swing clubs.

 

The average entry fee for strip clubs in Reno is $10.00 and the drinks are about double any other bar in town. Swing clubs have a $40.00 entry fee per couple and the drinks are free.

 

A lap dance at a strip club is $20.00 to $40.00 and you can't even touch. At the swing club they are free and you may get to touch.

 

Having a stripper rubbing her tits on your face costs $1.00 and at the swing club you can have tits in your face whether you want them or not, let alone pay for it.

 

Now if you want a lap dance in the back room at the strip club its starts at $75.00. At the swing club you can go to the back room and actually have sex.

 

This is why we only go to strip clubs with vanilla friends. Strip clubs are about as wild as they get.

Greg & Sheryl said:

Neither of us are big drinkers

 

There's the sticky wicket!

 

 

I tend to hit 20 dollars in drinks myself... Mrs Spoomonkey, lush that she is, is a WHOOOLE other story

 

Thanks for the clarification. Sounds like the clubs in your area are more reasonable than in others.

 

PS - Just kidding - we actually drink light ourselves, but the costs around here are outrageous. If you can get a beer for less than four dollars, you've found something special.

We love to go to strip clubs together, just to hang out. Seems to loosen everyone up. When we go, we end up talking or playing pool. We rarely get a dance but enjoy watching the great asses go by all night long

When I was in college, the strip club just outside of town had $20 cover charge and FREE BEER!!! The catch was that it was outside and you couldn't take your beer inside (local law - no alcohol served at strip clubs), and the beer was pretty nasty.

 

We went once on Student Night, so it was half price. We both had a great time, spent $40 in cab fare (it was out of town), $20 cover, about $20 in tips, and $20 on Dennys on the way home. It was a pretty expensive night (for college students especially), but it was well worth it!

We love em! What's your fav in SD? Ours is the Body Shop since they don't walk around after every show and ask for a dollar for watching their show... We like to take or meet friends there, as well as meet new friends

I do have a question for WildMI..at the end of an evening we found out about the VIP room upstairs, it was late so we didn't go. I was wondering what you could get in the VIP room that you couldn't get downstairs, and details please

You can get most anything......short of intercourse. Although we didn't partake much our one and only time in the VIP room, I've heard about guys getting both handjobs and oral. And I've also heard about ladies giving and recieving oral from a dancer. It's a pretty loose atmosphere, where most anything goes in the privacy of a booth. But you better bring some $$

 

Brett