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We just started talking to this couple online. When we are talking about ourselves, she says she is 8 weeks pregnant. That took us a little off guard. She says she will play until she is fat & no one wants her. That really didn't do it for the hubby or me either. When I was pregnant we totally quit swinging. I know some men are turned on by a pregnant woman, but what about women? I'm not saying they aren't sexy or anything. I felt extremely sexy when I was pregnant, except when I was 9 months pregnant in June when it was over 100 degrees with Oklahoma nasty stick heat, lol!

 

Basically what we are wanting to know is people's opinion on swinging with a pregnant woman. While, I am pretty sure we never would, (unless we didn't know) everyone has their own opinion & we would love to hear them ! Thanks! :kissface::facelick:

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When I was in the process of creating a dysfunctional little family to call my own, I can recall being VERY attracted to my then-wife when she was expecting. It is weird to think about, because there is really nothing attractive about pregnant women outside of those times of my life. Does that make sense?

 

I don't know that if someone was eight weeks pregnant that it would keep us from playing - I'd think that we likely would not want to, but I've seen enough of our "rules" bend to make room for the moment at hand. It they were waddling around the club eight months along, well, no... That's a little less "philosophical."

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Yes I get what you are saying, my hubby was very attracted to me when I was pregnant, but other than that he says pregnant women really don't turn him on.

 

I know 8 weeks isn't very far along, she probably isn't even showing. I didn't shoe till I was like 5 months along. But now that we know, we both are a little turned off. I think probably b/c our decision was to not swing when I was pregnant. But whatever tickles your pickle!

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Well - there is certainly enough grey area for everyone to find their kink - I suppose...

 

Like you guys, though, I think if I knew it would really kind of curdle the milk, so to speak...

 

Mrs Spoomonkey feels like the inherent risks of swinging needn't be brought into the period of pregnancy - and I agree. I think you guys were wise to not swing, but I am sure others could make a case for why they chose to continue.

 

But - I know that rules that make good sense can be "adjusted on the fly". For example, we have a rule that we only swing with married couples - but we have already adjusted that one. We're not terribly glad we did, but we did. I can see this being one of those grey areas where we meet a couple we really are attracted to and the mountain becomes a mole hill.

 

But - giving room for our "impulses" and "imperfections" - we agree that people should probably postpone the lifestyle while pregnant. But that is hardly a thing we'd expect everyone to agree with. As you said, whatever tickles your pickle... And when it comes to my pickle, the tickle usually rules...

 

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As a couple who is expecting a baby ourselves. We have swapped with other couples while Tazzie has been pregnant. She is getting near to her due date right now of July 4th, and till she is ready to after the baby is born, we have stopped, but we have swapped with other couples up untill about the 8th month. Some people don't mind it, and some do. The most swinging we have done during her pregnancy has usually been done in the 2nd. trimester when she has been so horny and wanting sex all the time. lol Like we said though, currently we have stopped swinging till she is ready to again.

 

It's a matter of people's preferance if they want to do it or not.

 

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Guest Mr&Mrs-naughty

We wouldnt swing with someone we knew was pregnant.......At least I dont think we would. :lol:

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I'm sure if my hubby had the chance he would in a heartbeat.lol He LOVES pregnant women. He would keep me pregnant all the time if he could.lol I think pregnant women are sexy too but I don't know that I myself would risk swinging if I were pregnant.

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Hi Hotcouple, My hubby used to love me pregnant and thought I was sexy, also he thought other women looked sexy too. I was very horny with my first 2 but having my last child I had breakthrough bleeding and although they couldn't find anything wrong they told us to stop having sex just in case.

 

The first trimester is not the safest time they say and if you are swinging with a pregnant woman what if she happens to bleed? Sorry to be so straight about this but it got me thinking seriously. Myself personally think the 2nd trimester is the safest.

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I can't imagine wanting to sleep with a woman pregnant with someone else's child, nor can I imagine being comfortable with another man sleeping with a woman carrying my child. No great rhyme or reason to it: it's just an instinctive reaction.

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I remember my dad remarking to me when I was about ten that he thought women were never more beautiful than when they were pregnant. I think women are beautiful when pregnant, but I like them in "bikini shape," too. :)

 

Mrs. Alura is beautiful to me all the time. That didn't seem to diminish while she was pregnant. I don't think I found myself more turned on during that period, though. I'd say about the same...

 

We did play once during a pregnancy with a man I'd known some twenty years and his wife who was about to ship out for Desert Storm. Sadly, they divorced before she returned so we never played again.

 

The pregnancy didn't seem to make much difference to any of us.

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I think the only problem with being with a pregnant woman is the risk that you take of hurting the baby or her. Yes, I know it's uncommon and I NEVER had a problem, but, if something went wrong with the baby, even if it was unrelated to being with you, it'd be a shame to be blamed for it or to even think you were to blame or to be accused in someone else time of grief. Does that make any sense?

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I suppose the biggest risk of harming the infant would be contracting an STD. We'd known the couple for a long time. They'd always been monogamous in their marriage. He worked in health care (still does). We figured there was no danger. I guess we were right. The baby turned out to be very healthy.

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We had a couple approach us to swing and it came out that she was seven months preggers and they were swinging (or rather she was) because she was extremely horny all the time. While I (the male half) have to admit that I do find women who are pregnant to be sexy, I'm not sure that I would swing with one for fear of doing some damage.

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Man! What a post! LOL. I can think of about a hundred reasons NOT to have sex with other people whilst pregnant...and only ONE to go ahead and do it...

but whatever floats your boat! :kissface:

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Many pregnent women say that they feel very sexy when pregnent. The reason for this is simple, it's because they are very sexy. I cannot say exactly why this is, but I find pregnent women to be incredibly attractive. Alas, no I have never had the chance to have sex with a pregnant woman, but would love the opportunity.

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Guest meckbatty

We have swapped with a pregnant couple, and i loved it! My wife loved watching her, and they had a great time as well. I don't see the issue, she is already pregnant, so that isn't a problem. We are safe, (condoms), that makes the child safe, and we are all consenting adults. As long as there is no risk to the child, we say play, play, play! ::P:

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I find pregnant women INCREDIBLY attractive. When my wife was pregnant, it drove me absolutely nuts. Just something ultimately feminine, I guess, about the full belly and breasts, along with the extra curves. I don't really understand it--it's probably Freudian somehow--but I've always felt that way, even moreso after my wife's first pregnancy.

 

Two of the hottest moms at my kid's school are pregnant right now--both about six months along--and if I found them attractive before (I did), I find them downright delectable now. I can't help but fantasize about them whenever I see them, and it's all I can do to try and be discreet when they walk by.

 

If we were in a swinging situation and one of them was the female half of the other couple, I wouldn't hesitate for a second. Not one.

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We were at a party last week and a pregnant couple was there. She was beautiful, and had great, full breasts. I felt bad for them because they were really trying at the party, but nobody wanted to go there. It seemed too weird.

 

I think pregnant women are beautiful and very sexy. When Mrs. WS was pregnant a couple of years back she was infuckingcredible. But both Mrs.WS and I feel pregnant women are sacred territory. For us it's just a time in your relationship that should be only you two. And for that reason I personally can't go there with another man's wife during those months. Maybe it's just my little idiosyncrasy.

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I think I might mess around with another woman while pregnant if I knew her very well, but the idea of another man fucking me while I was pregnant with my hubby's baby? Nah, not for me. Vice versa...I wouldn't be comfortable with my husband having sex with another pregnant woman. What's the reason? :confused: Just seems weird to me...

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Speaking as the female half......i don't have kids and have no plans to do so....soo personally I would keep my distance from the lady. Think i would be very uncomfortable in that situation. Perhaps those who have kids would feel more comfortable in this type of situation!

 

anyway...my two cents!

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I dont know, if you arent pregnant and have sex with another man it's one thing, but having sex with another man or men who arent the dad just seems weird..............invasive...............to me

 

I had sex the whole time I as pregnant, but only with the dad

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We actually started in the lifestyle when Ang was pregnant. She was very horny throughout her pregnancy. We started early on and wondered whether we should tell or not, but ultimately decided honesty was best. We were always safe, but the potential ramifications would come to mind once in a while. With such new adventures in fun, ultimately libido held sway over our decision for a few months. We quit going to socials when she was further along. She was a very desirable BBW at the time, and it seems like many couples that were accepting of her size had no issue with her pregnancy. I can, however, understand the moral dilemmas or even aversion to the idea.

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well we swung with a pregnant couple, and it was pretty cool. She was extremely attractive anyway (probably out of my league?) and she had just a very small "pooch" belly which drives me wild anyway. We did not have intercourse but enjoyed a LOT of oral!

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With us, even now since we have had our baby, we feel swinging while pregnant is a mater of what people are comfortable with. If say us while Tazzie's pregnant, we are with another couple, if we wanted to swing, we would as long as everyone is comfortable with the idea of doing it while she's pregnant. We have been with another couple while both Tazzie and the other woman were pregnant at the same time, and we all had a very good time.

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My wife is 7 months preg and has no desire to swing. She thinks of herself as fat and unsexy and I have to agree, she is fat and unsexy. I know its not what a husband is suppose to say, but I've never understood the pregnancy is sexy idea or the fetishlike 'preggers' porn sites.

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Guest meckbatty

Wow that is sad to hear! A pregnant woman is one of the most sexy things there is! Must be all the curves, but pregnant is a damn nice sight!

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I have found that several people are wanting to be in sexual situations with my husband and I now that I am pregnant. Any advice?

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Well I would think that the question should be are you ok with playing while pregnant? If your ok with it then it should be an ok thing to do. My wife wouldn't be willing to play with anyone while pregnant other then myself though. Not sure if this helps, but it's our 2 cents worth.

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There are some other threads on pregnant and swinging... such as this one and this other one

 

But to answer your questions, the only advice I have is to discuss the matter with your husband and do what you are comfortable with. Personally I wouldn't swing with other pregnant women...just not my thing. But it's your decision. It's your pregnancy, so whatever you and your husband decide is right for you

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I've swung with a couple while the wife was 6 or 7 monhts pregnant. I fing pregnant women extremely sexy. Pregnancy does present it's own unique set of complications to swinging, especially during the later months when it shows that you're pregnant, but you can still enjoy it.

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I had sex with a pregnant girl once, but it wasn't in any sort of "swinging" relationship. But, wow, was it pretty intense.

 

Back in the day, when I was in the Army, I had a female friend (who was also a soldier). Her and me were pretty good friends, but we had never gotten physical. She was dating a guy who she had just recently found out was married. And, much to her dismay, she also found out she was pregnant.

 

She left the guy and decided to take care of the child herself. One day, we were in her room together and the topic drifted over to sex. She was complaining to me how horny she was, and now that she was pregnant, she felt even hornier. "I'm telling you, I need cock!" she told me, and laughed. I mentioned that, as I was single, I wasn't doing so good myself.

 

She suggested that we take care of our "mutual needs". Being young, single, and horny, I readily agreed. I got up to go back to my room to grab a condom from my locker, when she stopped me. "I'm already pregnant, so it's not like I can get even more pregnant, right?" (yes, now that I'm older and wiser, I understand that this wasn't exactly wise...) "...Anyway, I like it better without a rubber."

 

It's was one of the most intense orgasms I ever had. I think it was a combination of having sex with a pregnant woman and this was my very first time having intercourse without a condom.

 

 

(and, for what it's worth, she had her child, the father left his wife and they ended up getting married. But that was almost 13 years ago...)

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We are currently swinging with a pregnant couple and we love it, Ok maybe its me I love pregnant women they are so sexy. I would suggest it is up to you and how you feel. If you are swingers and just afraid to swing while your pregnant just talk it out and go with what you feel.

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