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  1. #26
    So this situation is still going on, but everybody, most importantly my wife, is happy. She's no longer uncomfortable with it.
    The girl and I have a playdate every couple weeks, and she leaves shorty after. If we going hiking, it's purely as friends. We haven't kissed in months, other than at playdates.

  2. #27
    So in a strange turn of events...she dumped me after our last playdate! Met a guy at work and thinks it will go somewhere. I wish her the best...strange thing is she still wants to text me daily and go for hikes, even if things work out with the guy.

  3. #28
    Swingers Board Addict alexandsandra's Avatar
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    Rationalizations are more important than sex. Just try going a week without a rationalization.

    That and you cannot fix 'stupid'. Buddy, why are you fucking a girl who your wife thinks is unattractive ? It will evolve into contempt for you, eventually.

    On a related note:

    Back in college I knew this couple, completely monogamous. Then they were going to get serious and he had been her only sexual partner. He suggested she consider at least one other experience. He was being very mature and realistic about life. Well, by accident he met the guy she was considering. He viewed him as a distasteful loser. He explained to her,"If this is the type of guy you want, it's over. I'll line you up if needed, but if you fuck this guy I'll never get out of my mind how you lowered your standards, or that you even have any. Again, another sexual partner is something you should try, but not this loser.

    He lined her up, she had a great time, and they eventually got married and live a lovely , monogamous vanilla life.

  4. #29
    Quote Originally Posted by alexandsandra View Post
    Rationalizations are more important than sex. Just try going a week without a rationalization.

    That and you cannot fix 'stupid'. Buddy, why are you fucking a girl who your wife thinks is unattractive ? It will evolve into contempt for you, eventually.

    On a related note:

    Back in college I knew this couple, completely monogamous. Then they were going to get serious and he had been her only sexual partner. He suggested she consider at least one other experience. He was being very mature and realistic about life. Well, by accident he met the guy she was considering. He viewed him as a distasteful loser. He explained to her,"If this is the type of guy you want, it's over. I'll line you up if needed, but if you fuck this guy I'll never get out of my mind how you lowered your standards, or that you even have any. Again, another sexual partner is something you should try, but not this loser.

    He lined her up, she had a great time, and they eventually got married and live a lovely , monogamous vanilla life.
    Because I find her attractive? She has played with guys I didn't think were that great looking, and I didn't tell her no.

  5. #30
    Swingers Board Addict alexandsandra's Avatar
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    It's going to go somewhere alright. I cannot wait until he here's this: "Hey Honey, there's this married guy I text and go on hikes with, it's okay because we stopped fucking." Yeah, everything is going to be fine.

    Quote Originally Posted by Erik13 View Post
    So in a strange turn of events...she dumped me after our last playdate! Met a guy at work and thinks it will go somewhere. I wish her the best...strange thing is she still wants to text me daily and go for hikes, even if things work out with the guy.

  6. #31
    Quote Originally Posted by alexandsandra View Post
    It's going to go somewhere alright. I cannot wait until he here's this: "Hey Honey, there's this married guy I text and go on hikes with, it's okay because we stopped fucking." Yeah, everything is going to be fine.
    It probably will be fine. He can trust her with him (if monogamy is what he's worried about) because she's already fucked him, got him out of her system, and that's in the past.

  7. #32
    She doesn't plan on telling the new guy we fucked. And I also forgot to mention she was crying in front of my wife at the bar the other night about the whole thing.

  8. #33
    Honestly sounds like a lot of drama to me. Maybe a time out from each other, no communication, is in order.


  9. #34
    Swingers Board Addict alexandsandra's Avatar
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    You really need to have this woman evolve her own independent life.

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