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Well, OK, here I go. I do not believe that polyamorous couples are people who are out there somewhere waiting to be found. A polyamorous relationship, quite simply, develops between or among people with whom you have already become acquainted and with whom you have already developed friendship. I will add that "poly" seems to mean something different to every person who hears or speaks the word. I'm curious. What is your understanding of "poly"?

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Like minded people tend to seek out other like minded people. Hence this forum.

New moms seek out moms groups.

Adoptive parents seek out diversity groups.

Soccer players seek out soccer groups.

Yes all these people exsist in the world but forums and other social groups are a great way to meet and connect with like minded people.

I don’t see it as an odd request.

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Curious how you find couple more open to poly? What sites? Pages? Etc?? Thank you!

 

Try a search on Meetup. There are some there for those interested in the Polyamorous lifestyle.

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I Googled "polyamory groups in Wisconsin" and came-up with a number of groups and events. That should be your first stop in meeting other poly people. Most poly folk don't meet with hookups in mind because they are in it for the relationship as well as the sex, so meet-ups is the best way to meet likeminded folks.

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I have heard (but haven't verified) that Plenty of Fish (a dating site) allows couples and singles looking for other Polys to join.

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WesternSwing said:
I Googled "polyamory groups in Wisconsin" and came-up with a number of groups and events. That should be your first stop in meeting other poly people. Most poly folk don't meet with hookups in mind because they are in it for the relationship as well as the sex, so meet-ups is the best way to meet like-minded folks.

 

Exactly. We aren’t wanting quick hooks ups. So it’s a harder thing to find as a couple so I appreciate the advice on how to seek like minded people.

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