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How often do you play?

On average, how often have you played with other swingers.  

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  1. 1. On average, how often have you played with other swingers.

    • More than once a week.
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    • 3-4 times per month
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    • 2 times per month
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    • Once a month
      3
    • 8-11 times per year
      1
    • 5-7 times per year
      8
    • 2-4 times per year
      7
    • Once a year
      0
    • Less than once a year
      4
    • I haven’t played yet
      1


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On average, how often have you played with other swingers. Full swap, soft swap, it doesn’t matter.

 

Not counting the times you only play with your SO, of course.

Or yourself! :lol:

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I think we average one swing episode a month. All bets off on a cruise.

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I went a little crazy when we started and it was 3 or 4 times a month for the first year or two. Now, once a month maybe, if you average in vacations. We do a couple of 3 weeks vacations in FL or MX and I get very active then.

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We only started December but found a local couple we really click with. When they come over we usually play, but have just hung out as friends a fair amount of times as well. For us multiple times a week is pretty standard. Don't know how long we will keep that up, but having a hell of a lot of fun for now, with no complaints.

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The first episode of swinging for us lasted about three years. We had five couples we played with for a total of 8 to 10 sessions. So, the 2-4 times a year was our category.

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For a regular play session where couples get together for fun, three times a month. But two of the couples we play with live conveniently nearby, so threesomes and alone play happens every week.

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The answer is not often enough. My wife really only swap lover, so I always get to play with the same partner - his wife., who is a great lover. We have swapped every few months for the last two years, about 10 times. Separate rooms is the rule.

We had a fantastic swap with some old friends about a year ago but they live so far away that we never hooked up since.

I am anxious to swap with another couple that we know, but my wife is not keen. She tells me to go ahead with the wife, but she still wants her favorite lover, not her husband. If my wife was more adventurous we could swap more frequently.

We only swap with friends that we know and trust. Parties and clubs do not attract us.

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We only swap with friends that we know and trust. Parties and clubs do not attract us.

Same here. We like that it gives us the freedom to play however we want - twosomes, threesomes, couples swaps - whenever we want, and go bareback.

 

.. She tells me to go ahead with the wife, but she still wants her favorite lover, not her husband. If my wife was more adventurous we could swap more frequently. .

My wife has a favorite, but still likes sex with other men, and women. You should just go ahead and be happy you're both having fun, getting what you want.

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We'd like to play once a week with our friends who, as a couple, have proven to be a very good match for us both. However, schedules and work limit our opportunities to generally twice a month. We did do a club weekend recently and those 3 nights upped our average significantly.

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Wow. So glad to see we aren’t the only ones!

 

We go out about once a month. Mostly parties and clubs but the occasional 1:1 (2:2) But actually play once or twice per year.

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