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In general, who goes down on you better, men or women?  

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  1. 1. In general, who goes down on you better, men or women?

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My first thought was that women lick pussy better than men, but my evaluation was biased by the fact that when I'm with a guy it's always in anticipation of him having his dick in me. So, IN GENERAL, I'd rate men and women equally competent.

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I agree with couplers...its about the same. I have found that guys will stay there longer in anticipation of getting in me longer.

 

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I have had o.k. oral sex from both sexes. Personally it depends not on the gender but the attitude of the person giving.

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My first girl experience started at a couples club. We needed to be home earlyish so hubby and I went up the the play room early. There was one other couple going at it on one end so we started at the other. After a while, she said, he would like to see me go down on you so hubby moved aside and she did. In reality, she was just getting me turned on for her hubby. At some point, I started sucking my hubby while she was doing me, he was still laying next to us. Then they switched, with him going down on me and she sucking my hubby. It turned into a nice swap. That worked out nicely because she did a very nice job on me, I admit, I enjoyed it, and when I got the urge to do something "back"' I could suck my hubby or or hubby and, very simply, I prefer sucking a guy's cock more than a lady's puss. Also, though out, I had the anticipation of being fucked. I've done it without those elements and, while the actual physical feel is as good or better, the psyche is just not the same for me.

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... I prefer sucking a guy's cock more than a lady's puss. Also, though out, I had the anticipation of being fucked. ...

 

Good point. I used to prefer sucking cock more than licking pussy, until I realized that it was "the anticipation of being fucked." For me now one of the best things is licking Lora's or Clair's pussy while getting fucked. Since our poly family is now two guys and three women, when we are having sex as a group someone ends up licking pussy.

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