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Did you have sex in high school?

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  1. 1. Did you have sexual intercourse in high school?

    • I am a man and I had sexual intercourse in high school.
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    • I am a man and I did not have sexual intercourse in high school.
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    • I am a woman and I had sexual intercourse in high school.
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    • I am a woman and I did not have sexual intercourse in high school.
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So, did you actually have sex in high school? We'll use the legal definition here and say that oral sex and petting don't count. Only say "Yes" if you had vaginal intercourse... Y'know? Cock in pussy.

 

Multiple answers are allowed, so if you're a couple, you can answer for both.

 

Mr. Alura

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Good idea for a poll! I was such a goody-two-shoes my own mother called me "Super Prude".

 

I'm making up for lost time now, though!

 

=)

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I had sex with one guy in HS and it wasn't a good situation. Once I finally got rid of him I didn't have sex again until after I graduated.

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yeah.... and I fear we really looked down at those 3 or 4 who wanted but couldn't find someone willing (at the same time I'm now really shocked that a bunch of 14 year olds got caught making amateur movies with cell phone cameras out of their group sex sessions at ski-camp and shared it with the whole school)

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rpu3 said:
Nope. Didn't have sex until college.

 

I can beat that (sadly). I didn't have sex until after grad school.

 

High school, four years of college, and one and a half years of grad school. The sex thing didn't happen until I got into the working world. Then things went okay. :) (And so far, vanilla- and swing-wise, no questions need be asked.)

 

Now I'm trying to make up for lost time. And frankly, from what I know now, I'd rather be sexin' around the experienced folks rather than have tried all of this stuff during HS and college.

 

Go figure.

 

Yeah, that all sounds loserish, but like anything in SwingWorld, it's all relative ('cepting I don't do the relatives.)

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Oops I thought that what High School was for.....Knew I should have paid more attention in class!

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Not only did I not have sex in High School but the only person I've ever had intercourse with is Mrs. cupl :eek: So far we've only soft swapped. I bet there aren't may on this board who can say that. Some day I will remedy that though. ;)

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I lost my virginity at 15 and Dave lost his when he was 16. Sophomores in high school.

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The summer before my Junior year in high school.

 

This just popped in my head: My daughter starts high school next year. Oh my!

 

John

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I was 15 and a sophomore in high school. It was with my boyfriend that I had been dating around 9 months...and we dated the entire time I was in high school (he was 19 when we first had sex) and into me starting college for a total of 5.5 years.

 

It was fun. :D

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Yes sad to say, started very young (just turned 15), never knew how to say no, always wanted to "please" the guys, probably the reason for my addiction now. Once I started I never looked back, never said no, wish I had just so I could of been a kid a bit longer... cannot believe I never got pregnant of caught anything, talk about being naive.

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Yes we had sex in HS.

 

We are just glad you didn't ask, How many times :hahaha:

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Yep, had sex in highschool...Yep...had sex in middle school...Yep...found out how girls are made in grammar school...no sex in grammar school though...guess I was ahead of my time...

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Well, I didn't have sex in the school itself...

 

But yeah, I was 16 the first time, and haven't stopped since.

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The Mrs. and I both had vaginal intercourse in High School. She in Illinois and I in Missouri.

 

From those innocent beginnings...

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I answered for both Mrs. WS and I. We both started having sex in high school, me at 15 and her at 16. Interestingly enough we both still have some contact with our "firsts" these days. I found mine though Classmates a few years back when our high school reunion was coming-up and Mrs. found hers through her blog when she talked about the first penis she ever saw, and an old friend forwarded it to the subject of the blog since they still stayed in touch.

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Ted and I both had sex in high school and, we're still having sex with the same person we did back then :lol:

 

 

fun4Ds said:
Yes we had sex in HS.

 

We are just glad you didn't ask, How many times :hahaha:

 

Yep :lol: that would have been a hard one to answer.

 

Teresa

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I was a baaaad girl! I was 15 and a freshman the first time. My mother actually caught me in the act, because it was my bedroom at home. Not very smart, but it was fun.

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Lot's a' sluts in this thread! And I'm not just talkin' about the guys! :D

 

I'm a little bit jealous, but for me, I'm actually glad I waited a little longer. In my case the extra wait was good. As a teen, I wasn't ready.

 

I still have some questions now, but not quite as many... ;)

 

But, I'm ready now...:hahaha:

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I was 15 the first time, taught the ways of love by an older woman (well, she was 17 :) )

 

Mrs two4you waited until high school was over, then there was no holding her back.

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We thought you were still a prude :lol:

 

Still? Hmmm . .. what can I do to change your mind about that? :EG:

 

=)

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Trace Ekies said:
The Mrs. and I both had vaginal intercourse in High School. She in Illinois and I in Missouri.

 

I suppose that is technically possible if both of you were standing on the deck of one of those bridges that spans the mighty Mississippi River and your sexual equipment had the appropriate reach.

 

As for myself, I paraphrase Woody Allen. I practiced a lot on my own.

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I actually had sex the first time a week after I was out of high school... so I guess that counts me as a "no".

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Guest MrsVan

I too had sex in HS. I was a freshman and it was towards the end of the year for me and was with my first husband. I think about it now and it scares me as my daughter will be a freshman this fall. I am just so not ready for her to grow up yet.:sad:

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I wish I could say no...but I had sex in high school...and in middle school....It is funny MrsVan and I where just talking about this last night with another couple...I was the youngest to have sex...go figure...I think I was in 7th grade but to be honest I can't remember. :blush:

 

To make it even worse I had both of my kids before I turned 18! :eek: Yea I knew what I liked even back then and I knew then I hated condoms...just wish I hadn't been so stupid after the first "oops". As my mom said to me when I told her about my second child coming..."The first one can be called a mistake..the second one becomes a habit." :lol:

 

My oldest just graduated high school and well we know that she won't be having any children any time soon since she has finally come out of the closet to the family and it is amazing how much happier she seems to be.

 

Now my son on the other hand is sooo much like his father that yea I am scared! :eek:

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I suppose that is technically possible if both of you were standing on the deck of one of those bridges that spans the mighty Mississippi River and your sexual equipment had the appropriate reach.

 

~Michael

 

"Our favorite sexual position is "back-to-back."

 

"How is that possible?"

 

"Simple. Invite another couple."

 

:)

Mr. Alura

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I had my first experience early (not gonna say how early, don't want to sound like a slut). Maybe I should have waited, try telling young hormones not every girl wants to do that with you. :o By the time I had "smoothed out" my approach to the opposite sex. I was well out of high school. It didn't help matters that I was a band geek, they don't date like normal children. :lol:

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Well, the Mrs had sex in high school. She never has been one to shy away from a whatever she really wants. And I, the husband, never did get any during my high school years. But I graduated at 17...does that make any difference? LOL

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I (Mr Toycple) started in my sophomore year and haven't stopped since. I guess you could say I was a big dog. I screwed any girl that would let me get in her pants. What can I say, I got addicted to it at an early age. :blush:

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"Our favorite sexual position is "back-to-back."

 

"How is that possible?"

 

"Simple. Invite another couple."

 

:)

Mr. Alura

 

 

"Our favorite sexual position is "back-to-back."

 

 

Oh My Goodness - I LOOVE it! Grt J! lmbo :lol:

 

 

For certain invite another couple!!!

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I was very interested in sex and had tons of boyfriends throughout jr. high and high school, but I never had sex (even oral sex) with anyone until I was in college.

 

We were engaged and living together before I finally gave in. I was 20. A very late start for someone who was as highly sexualized and acutely aware of sexual behavior as I was. I guess I more or less lived vicariously through my friends, who were always the "wild" girls. My best friend in 7th grade got caught having sex in her bedroom by her Dad (her first time, no less), and my best friend in 8th grade got married to a 24 year-old when she was 14. Yes, with her parents' permission. (Hey it was the South!) My best friend from 9th grade had three kids from different men by the time she was 23. Oh yeah, I almost forgot... my best friend from 6th grade was murdered when she was in her 20's as a result of a lesbian love triangle. (There's actually a book about it). I guess you could say I know how to pick them. But life has always been interesting.

 

I should have realized when I was in my teens and had all the bad girls as best friends that there was something going on there. Maybe a little bit of repression??? Being a preacher's kid will do that to you I guess.

 

I just THOUGHT I was the good girl.

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I tainted the results....I didn't mean to - I swear. I voted for both "I am a man and had sex in HS", (for the hubby) and "I am a woman and had sex in HS" (for me). Somehow the "woman" one didn't take....sorry.

 

I didn't see the choice of "I am a woman and had sex in junior high." I would have checked that one as well. I won't say how old I was, but I can say I was barely a teenager.

 

Hubby and I met up in HS. So, of course we both had sex in HS.....and A LOT of it!;)

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hmmmm....I was in kindergarten when I started playing the whole "I'll show you mine if you show me yours!" however....didn't have sex until I was 14 and a freshman in high school. And there were a couple of instances....when we were really IN the high school....back stage...during a musical production....and I had one boyfriend who helped me proved that the front seat of a vw bug is better than the back seat of ANY car! The fact that we were in the church parking lot....with the parsonage about 100 feet away didn't stop us at all!

 

~deb

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I had sex IN high school. School dance, bottle of Baby Duck, hot girlfriend, football field, principal doing rounds..... not good. Nothing says that sex is disgusting and immoral like getting suspended for gittin' it on!

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Yep, we both had sex in high school. And yes, still having sex with the same ones we sexed it up with at 15, each other!!!!

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It was kind of funny how I had sex for the first time. I had two girl friends and we hung out with a boy in our class and we were at his house on a weekend and played strip poker and I lost. He took me to a bedroom and we had intercourse. After that I became promiscuous.

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Jeeez I feel so inadequate. I first had sex at the tender age of 22, out and working. I read a lot as a teen, still do, and I had the theory down pat was just a bit short on the practical application.

 

Mrs Harry had sex in high school.

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The mrs. lost hers at 15 I think, my first sexual encounter was at 8, and my losing it story was rather interesting, and not sure how to vote on this subject. I was 15 or 16 and had been dating this girl for a while, we had taken a true love waits class, and decided to wait. Now in the meantime we did everything else. So one night when we where in my room, my mom in the living room, we are playing, and she says fuck me in the ass, so I did, I shot my load in her ass. Now the mrs. and I have debated it much, did I lose my virginity then, or was it at 19 when I was in college?

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Sure did. I was 17 and was engaged to a 24 year old. My first threesome was MFM about a year later. And to think I didn't become a swinger until my 40's! lol

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I (Mr Toycple) started in my sophmore year and haven't stopped since. I guess you could say I was a big dog. I screwed any girl that would let me get in her pants. What can I say, I got addicted to it at an early age.:blush:

 

That must be why you giggle when i (mrs.flamekaster) say i am easy.....lmao;);););)

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Swingercast said:
The summer before my Junior year in high school.

 

This just popped in my head: My daughter starts high school next year. Oh my!

 

John

 

Yeah, my daughter is about to start her junior year. :confused:

 

We're very open though and I have no doubt she'll continue make good choices. I'm pretty sure she's done some petting type stuff with a particular ex-boyfriend (one who was a couple years older and they were together several months), but I'd prefer she'd wait to have sex with someone who's going to both care about her and give her a good experience. Ultimately, it's her choice and she has the information she needs on both birth control and safer sex, plus a mom she can talk to.

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Both of us did. I had sex with one person in high school. We were both 15 and used protection, but a missed period scare (not pregnant, but bit my nails about it for almost a month) kept me from having sex again after that until I was 18. I did have oral sex with a couple of other boyfriends in high school too. Mr. P lost it at 17 I think to his high school girlfriend of two years.

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theflamekasters said:
the mrs. lost hers at 15 I think, my first sexual encounter was at 8, and my losing it story was rather interesting, and not sure how to vote on this subject. I was 15 or 16 and had been dating this girl for a while, we had taken a true love waits class, and decided to wait, now in the mean time we did everything else, so one night when we where in my room, my mom in the living room we are playing, and she say fuck me in the ass, so i did, i shot my load in her ass. Now the mrs. and i have debated it much, did I love my virginity then, or was it at 19 when I was in college?

 

As promised above here is the link - I thought your comment would make a great topic for discussion and also a poll. Please go add your two cents... :D

 

Poll: When are you no longer considered a virgin?

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