View Poll Results: How many is too many??

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  • 2 men to 1 lady

    20 5.19%
  • 3 men to 1 lady

    78 20.26%
  • 4 men to 1 lady

    113 29.35%
  • 5+ men to 1 lady

    143 37.14%
  • 2 ladies to 1 man

    15 3.90%
  • 3 ladies to 1 man

    76 19.74%
  • 4 ladies to 1 man

    50 12.99%
  • 5+ ladies to 1 man

    75 19.48%
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  1. #1

    Default How many partners at one time is too many?

    Mrs. Tybee and I went to an on-premise club the other night, one that we had never been to before, and we had a great time. The lay out was good, the people nice, and we hooked up with a couple that we had met before.

    While we were playing we both noticed a lady on one of the other beds having what I first thought was a MFM. When I looked back over a few minutes later there were now three guys. Curiosity peeked I looked over every so often to see what was happening. The action at that bed just didn't seem to stop. There was only ever the one lady there, but there got to be up to five guys at one time. From what I saw there were at least six to eight different guys all total. The acts ranged from hand jobs, fellatio, anal/vaginal penetration at the same time, up to the lady doing five guys at once with no holes barred (so to speak)

    While I admit that our Lifestyle experience is not that vast, this was the first time I had ever seen what amounts to a gang bang. Now don't get me wrong, I am the original live and let live kind of guy when it comes to consenting adults. If that's what the people want then more power to them. I will even admit that I found the situation erotic at certain points.

    I have two questions though. First how often does this type of encounter happen at clubs that you go to. And, on the norm, what do most people consider to be too many men for one woman? Or women for one man? When does it quit being sexy? Personally for me, I think the number is three to one.

    I'd love to hear everyone's thoughts and opinions.


  2. #2

    Default Re: How many is too many?

    First how often does this type of encounter happen at clubs that you go to. And, on the norm, what do most people consider to be too many men for one woman? Or women for one man? When does it quit being sexy?
    At our club I have never seen that many and we have been going there for 5 years. I guess though there have been times it has happened, just not something I've seen. I tend to agree that 3:1 is probably the most I have ever seen and seems to be about all I would want to handle, and even then worry it would be too many. 2:1 is a lot of what we see on a regular basis, 3somes are very popular on both sides. I don't know exactly when I would think it would stop being sexy, I guess that would be something I need to see to determine, with that many men I immagine it would be hard to see a lot of anything really going on, a few would have to at least just be standing around waiting.

    Trish

  3. #3

    Default Re: How many is too many?

    I have yet to see that many happen at one time at our club either, but it doesn't mean it hasn't happened. I have had three (2 men and one woman) at one time and one of my fantasies is to have four men at one time facelick.
    I won't be able to determine how many is too many until I reach that point
    sb
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    Default Re: How many is too many?

    Quote Originally Posted by Mr TybeeSwing
    First how often does this type of encounter happen at clubs that you go to. And, on the norm, what do most people consider to be too many men for one woman? Or women for one man? When does it quit being sexy? Personnaly for me, I think the number is three to one.
    It varies at the three clubs we attend regularly. At the ones that allow single males seeing more than one man with a woman is fairly common, maybe not every night we go to the club but most nights. At the couples only parties it doesn't seem to happen as often but still does occasionally.

    As far as how many is too many, I guess that is up to the participants, I could really care less if I am not involved in it. If I am involved then I prefer one woman at a time, I have played with up to three at one time but that is pretty rare and not really my preference to be totally honest. Don't get me wrong, it can be really hot playing with two or three women at once but realistically, I don't think any of us has as good of a time doing it in a group as we would one on one.

    When it quits being sexy kind of depends on the situation and, for me at least, has more to do with what they are doing and how they went about it than how many are involved. The most common form of this is when a couple shows up and they round up all of the single guys (and some of the married guys for that matter) that showed up that night and take them to the play room where she takes them all on. Not always, but most of the time this isn't sexy at all, as it is obviously all about quantity over quality. I am sure that turns some folks on, but it doesn't do it for me.
    R (He is R, she is P)

  5. #5

    Default Re: How many is too many?

    I've been in a couple of situations where three men were pleasing me at once, and that was good... four would be fine... five, I think, would be too much because then you have the "standing around, dick-in-hand phenomenon" and that's just not sexy.

    On the other hand, I've also been a part of one scenario where there were three women and one man. Even though the man was quite skillful and there was some girl-on-girl action, there just wasn't enough of him to go around... if you know what I mean and one of us got the short end of the stick, so to speak. (He made it up to me later though... facelick ) So for logistics sake, in my opinion, three gals are too many for one guy.
    ~Dynamar

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    Default Re: How many is too many?

    Interestingly, this club admitted no single men. That one woman was on that bed for what seemed like a very long time, with all sorts of men coming and going, and no other women came near that scene. All of the men on the pile were the husbands of women who were apparently elsewhere in the building.

    Quote Originally Posted by Mr TybeeSwing
    what do most people consider to be too many men for one woman?
    Hi, Baby.

    For me, two men at the same time is usually too many, except for when I'm interested in and mentally prepared for a MFM, something we've only done a few times. Picturing any more than that - it doesn't appeal to me at all.

    Quote Originally Posted by Mr TybeeSwing
    When does it quit being sexy?
    It quit being sexy (observing the gangbang) from the beginning, for me. I thought she seemed like a piece of meat on a slab, and that aspect turned me off.

    Quote Originally Posted by Mr TybeeSwing
    Or women for one man?
    I have a fantasy of us with two other women (my harem fantasy). It's not anything like a line-up gangbang kind of thing in my mind. More than 3 women and one man...I don't know, I have a hard time picturing it!

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    Default Re: How many is too many?

    When I posed this question to Mrs. WS she said 3 men to 1 woman. She loves MFM, and would like to try MMMF, but she says anything beyond that would just be distracting because she'd be worrying too much about everyone having a good time and someone being left out.

    Mr. WS
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    Default Re: How many is too many?

    For us it would have to be a 4some pile up as the most. Two men and two women playing together. Three people for her (she likes women sometimes) and two women for him. The main thing for us is: Try to please a couple of people a lot or try to please a lot of people a little. Take the quality over quantity every time.

  9. #9

    Default Re: How many is too many?

    I've seen something like this at one of the clubs we go to. A lady's hubby made it known that it was his wife's birthday and she wanted a gang bang. So, she went into the "single guy" room and whomever wanted to proceeded to give her what she wanted.

    To me, 2 is plenty. I agree with "quality over quantity".

    Mrs. D


  10. #10

    Default Re: How many is too many?

    I have a fantasy of being tied to a bed. Mr. Fun is pleasuring me orally. Then, right before he gets me off, he calls in some young stud. He instructs the young stud to pleasure me. He brings me to orgasm. Mr. Fun the directs him to stand to the side, cock in hand. Mr. Fun then calls in a second young stud ... scenario continues with four of five young studs. When I think I can't take anymore, Mr. Fun starts fucking me as the young studs start jacking off. I start to cum again, so does Mr. Fun then so do all the boy toys.

    Will this ever come to pass? Hmmm ... not sure, and not sure I want it to. But it sure is fun to think about. In my fantasy, I don't have to worry about pleasing others; it's all about me In real life, I get as much enjoyment out of pleasing as I do in getting pleasure.

    So, I don't know the answer to the poll.

  11. #11

    Default Re: How many is too many?

    'sall good as long as everyone's having fun.
    "If you tell the truth, you don't have to remember anything." - Mark Twain :)

  12. #12

    Smile Re: How many is too many?

    If the lady is really a sexually HOT Woman, like my ex girlfriend, there can never be too many.
    I watched her do a 35 man one after the other Gang Bang 7:15p.m. till 3:00a.m. the next morning, only stopping for some air, and a snack and water. She wanted more that night but all the cocks were limp. She regularly did 12 to 16 men at clubs. So the call is if the woman wants and can handle that many.
    Some women are just able to do and want to do that sort of action. Each woman has to do what their bodies dictate.
    Did I love watching her "OH-YEAH"
    kjljpo

  13. #13

    Default Re: How many is too many?

    Too Many??

  14. #14

    Default Re: How many is too many?

    My mind got boggled when I tried to pick...but in general I personally can't handle more than 3 other people (of either sex) at a time. It gets too intense for me. I occassionally have issues with sensory overload. I panic when we have two TVs on different stations and the radio on and J. is playing a video game and I can hear all of it going on. It overwhelms me.

    It's the same with touch. If there's too much going on, I get a little wacked out...it's like I float into "ash world" and can't DO anything. So, we will usually stick to a single with us, or a couple in the same room with some partner swap and maybe all 4 of us get together in a little pile at the very end.

  15. #15

    Default Re: How many is too many?

    Quote Originally Posted by roadkingklp
    If the lady is really a sexually HOT Woman, like my ex. G.F. Carolyn T. (Springfield, VA) a.k.a. "Nymph".
    There can never be too many.
    I watched her do a 35 man one after the other Gang Bang 7:15p.m. till 3:00a.m. the next morning, only stopping for some air, and a snack and water. She wanted more that night but all the cocks were limp. She regularly did 12 to 16 men at clubs. So the call is if the woman wants and can handle that many.
    Some women are just able to do and want to do that sort of action. Each woman has to do what their bodies dick-tate.
    Did I love watching her "OH-YEAH"
    I honest wish I could have her back, if only I could find her and talk to her just once more.
    One of our friends loved gang-banging. She and hubby used one of the frats at the college as a local resource... She's the only one I ever knew personally that wanted more than three guys at once.... my wife loves (doesn't always get) two at the most, but no more.

    I just prefer one woman at a time by myself, or mfm secondly. (The variety is nice.)

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    Default Re: How many is too many?

    I don't know how to answer the poll cause I had too many men at one time until I lost count, but they come in a pack of three, the gangbang started at midnight till morning, I blacked out during the session and we had a couple of breaks...There must have been more than 20 guys that night...

  17. #17

    Default Re: How many is too many?

    Quote Originally Posted by hmr View Post
    Too Many??
    Was wondering the same thing...

    Although I have to admit that I haven't experienced anything beyond one on one .......yet.

    One of my favorite fantasies is very similar to the one Mrs. Fun described. As she said, I wouldn't need to worry that everyone else was having a good time because it would all be about ME.

    I'm still working on gently leading hubby over to the "dark side" at all though so who knows if I'll ever experience anything even remotely close. Hubby does seem to be getting more open and interested in exploring new things though so anything is possible.

    I do think an option should be added to the poll to reflect the "there can be too many?" pov.

    Btw...most of you probably don't know me. I started a thread back in June or so and have posted once or twice on others since then. I may not have been very visible but I have been around lurking on most days...or nights. I really enjoy reading everything you all have to say and pay particular attention to all your great advice. I suppose I should do an "introduce myself" post sometime soon. It's on the list!
    You wanna do what with that?!?! You wanna put that where?!?!


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    Default Re: How many is too many?

    When I am fantasizing about men fucking my wife there couldn't be a number of cocks pounding away on her that would be enough. Having said that, I think in reality any more than 4 would be too many.

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    Default Re: How many is too many?

    Two! Me and two guys thats the best for me. I don't think I could handle more than two without feeling like a piece of meat. I don't mind being the center of attention, as a matter of fact... I really enjoy it. Some of my best "O's" have come from threesomes. Of course not counting... well thats for another thread.

  20. #20

    Default Re: How many partners at one time is too many?

    Just one time I would love to see my wife just lay there and have a long line of guys just using her pussy to jerk themselves off basically. I think once would be enough! It would definately be HOTT! For normal purposes 3 guys is the best ratio for non stop action.

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    Default Re: How many partners at one time is too many?

    i enjoy 3-4 guys at one time . tried and had 7 once but to much to handle . 3-to 4 is just right and cumfortable and good for all of us

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    Default Re: How many partners at one time is too many?

    How many is too many? I'd have to say it's a mood thing. I'm happy just one on one, but have played with as many as three guys at once. I was just fine with that, too.

    =)
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    Default Re: How many partners at one time is too many?

    Mrs. Ekies has expressed an interest in 3 men at once...interestingly, this number coincides exactly with the total number of holes she has to offer.

    She has detailed the scenario as follows: a 6" cock in her ass, a 7 incher in her mouth and an 8" x 6" with another in the room with a camera. The finale would involve all the men coming on her tits.

    From having seen her in action, I think she could easily handle and satisfy 5 in one evening and all at the same time for short periods of time. I know for a fact she'll try it, given the opportunity.

    Trace
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    2. Whenever you're right, shut up.

  24. #24

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    Quote Originally Posted by nwincouple17154 View Post
    At our club I have never seen that many and we have been going there for 5 years. I guess though there have been times it has happened, just not something I've seen. I tend to agree that 3:1 is probably the most I have ever seen and seems to be about all I would want to handle, and even then worry it would be too many. 2:1 is a lot of what we see on a regular basis, 3somes are very popular on both sides. I don't know exactly when I would think it would stop being sexy, I guess that would be something I need to see to determine, with that many men I immagine it would be hard to see a lot of anything really going on, a few would have to at least just be standing around waiting.

    Trish
    We're going to club this coming Sat. - I'll just volunteer now to be one of the 2 or 3 ! My real thought is there's a difference between sexy & erotic and just being malled to say you did 5 of the opposite sex. male point of view.

  25. #25

    Default Re: How many partners at one time is too many?

    I was lucky man to experience FFMFF situation twice in my life so far. (I am 34). It wasn't too many at all. So, there is never too many girls.


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