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View Poll Results: Would you engage with your partner or partners with an audience?

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  • He: Sure. Excites me. Bring a camera.

    125 31.65%
  • He: No problems (but forget the camera).

    136 34.43%
  • He: Friends, yes. Strangers, No.

    28 7.09%
  • He: Not as a solo performance, but as part of a group, I'd be OK.

    44 11.14%
  • He: No thanks. Groupsex yes, but in the limelight? No.

    29 7.34%
  • He: I prefer the intmacy that one-on-one affords us.

    10 2.53%
  • He: Hell, no. I would even prefer the lights out, anyway!

    5 1.27%
  • He: Can I "Take the Fifth?"

    5 1.27%
  • She: Sure. Excites me. Bring a camera.

    86 21.77%
  • She: No problems (but forget the camera).

    108 27.34%
  • She: Friends, yes. Strangers, No.

    32 8.10%
  • She: Not as a solo performance, but as part of a group, OK.

    37 9.37%
  • She: No thanks. Groupsex yes, but in the limelight? No.

    26 6.58%
  • She: I prefer the intimacy that one-on-one affords us.

    13 3.29%
  • She: Hell, no. I would even prefer the lights out, anyway!

    3 0.76%
  • She: Can I "Take the Fifth?"

    5 1.27%
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  1. #26

    Default Re: How much of an exhibitionist are you (both)?

    We don't mind being watched and actually one of our local clubs that we go to the main play area is really more of a public play loft than anything else. It has around 10-12 beds upstairs and it is all open. You can only go up there if you are a couple or a single lady and you must be naked if you go up.

    We play up there almost every time we are at the club. Either just MrsVan and I or with another couple. At this club I actually can't think of a time where we have used any of the play rooms. With this setup it is usually ok because everyone else is up there playing also or has been and are finished and just enjoying the show. For the most part everyone has always been quiet and respectful while in the loft.

    Now we have been to a couple of other clubs and this was not the case. I agree with Julie here, if I am in a public play area and you want to watch fine, but be polite about it. One time MrsVan and I where at a club and we where playing with a single guy in the public area. The place we had choose was kind of a tent and it had the "bug netting" up around it. Here we are all having a great time and two couples walk by and stop right in front of our tent. One guy looks at us then says to his buddy in a super loud voice

    'Now see, you don't get to see that at your local pub down the street do ya?!"

    I was like HELLO!!!! What an ass...

  2. #27
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    Default Re: How much of an exhibitionist are you (both)?

    We love it. Watch, don't watch, we don't care. We just like the charge that comes from doing the wild thing with others in attendance.

    We are always sure of the environment though. We wouldn't want children or someone who might not enjoy our hobby to get an eyeful.

  3. #28
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    Default Re: How much of an exhibitionist are you (both)?

    Quote Originally Posted by prettylady View Post
    Dog has mentioned a few times recently that he would like to be watched by a group of people while we did the nasty. Can't say I am putting up too much of a fuss :P:
    We tried doing the nasty in a window room at a club recently. Let's just say sometimes fantasy is better then reality. WHY DO PEOPLE NEED TO NARRATE WHAT THEY ARE SEEING!!
    To love oneself is the beginning of a lifelong romance.

  4. #29

    Default Re: How much of an exhibitionist are you (both)?

    This is definately something that Ed and I love to do at the club, and also watch.

    However, no camera's. Because our most commonly used teasing phrase for each other is...."there is no evidence....no pics/no evidence...other swingers (that wouldn't come forward because they'd have to be seen or outed)/no evidence..thus, I'm still innocent unless caught on film...heehee"

    So no camera's please, but if you want to watch or be watched, we are all in!

  5. #30

    Default Re: How much of an exhibitionist are you (both)?

    It was her masturbating while a truck driver looked on that finally convinced that a man other than myself would want to have sex with her. Before this happened, she was filled with self-doubt and insecurity. It was a very liberating experience. We wouldn't be swinging, had than not happened.

  6. #31
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    Default Re: How much of an exhibitionist are you (both)?

    Being watched is so intense for me that I don't even meet couples much anymore. I go mostly to house and hotel parties just for the excitement of being watched.

  7. #32
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    Default Re: How much of an exhibitionist are you (both)?

    I love to be watched and to watch. It took a little convincing but now the Mrs really enjoys being watched. Of course if the watchers are rude or discourteous it ruins the whole thing.

  8. #33

    Default Re: How much of an exhibitionist are you (both)?

    We both can perform in the open but she really likes when we go to separate bedrooms especially when we are playing with our favorite couple...sometimes we spend the night with the other person to give the opportunity for "wake-up" sex which Shelley really loves especially with "the other Jim".


  9. #34

    Default Re: How much of an exhibitionist are you (both)?

    We regularly play for an audience at the lifestyle resort we frequent. Although play is allowed, and happens, everywhere on the property, they have a public playroom that we also frequent. This room doubles as the dance room in the evenings, so it can sometimes be distracting.

    I (Mr H) really enjoy having people watch, as long as I can maintain my focus. This is always easier when everyone else is playing too, but it is not a requirement. Dr H (Mrs) is fine with an audience, but it doesn't really enhance her experience as it does for me.

    Oddly, I am not much of a voyeur unless we are also playing. I just feel a little creepy

  10. #35

    Default Re: How much of an exhibitionist are you (both)?

    We love being watched! We have opened the curtains in a motel room so someone could see if they wanted to. Had not yet had a watcher knock on the door and offer to help, but we would let him or her in if they did.

    She loves to be watched while she gets fingered and licked. We have had sex in several places outside

  11. #36

    Default Re: How much of an exhibitionist are you (both)?

    A few years ago I was with a girl on a road trip and she got naked and She was fingering herself, rubbing herself, rubbing her breasts and I was reaching over to finger her soaked pussy. All this time we were on the interstate and we soon were in DC rush hour traffic and she continued! I haven't idea how many orgasms she had but the seat was soaked! I pulled in the next rest area and ate her then fucked her in the car in the daytime.

  12. #37

    Default Re: How much of an exhibitionist are you (both)?

    My wife and I are very much exhibitionists. We have both done nude modeling for college and other drawing classes. In addition, over the years we have taken video of a lot of our threesomes with our good friend Bill. I have made DVDs of the videos and given him copies. With our permission he has shown them to a number of his friends.

    A few years ago we were getting rid of a lot of VHS tapes after removing the ones of us having sex.

    Bill had a friend who was using the screws that hold the tape cassettes together, so Bill gave him some of our old tapes. His friend put one of the tapes in his new VHS player and it was a sex tape of my wife and me. His friend was quite embarrassed and returned them to Bill. My wife and I had met the guy a couple times previously and found it quite funny. We had Bill put together a sex tape of my wife and me and give it to him.

  13. #38

    Default Re: How much of an exhibitionist are you (both)?

    While I don't think you could call us exhibitionist, (discreet exhibitionists maybe?) we have enjoyed sex in public places from time to time. Favorite time was in a movie theater. Wasn't very full, but one guy a few rows in front of us, kept turning around while my wife was riding me reverse cowgirl.....it was pretty dark but still a definite turn on! Another favorite was on a beach in Hawaii. When we do act on our "urges" we do keep in mind our surroundings and never, ever, do anything where children could possibly see something....

  14. #39

    Default Re: How much of an exhibitionist are you (both)?

    May be playing in a room with several strangers Saturday. Have to say I'm excited, both with the idea of watching the others and being watched. Thirty year a ago when I did a lot of group sessions the live porn show was part of the attraction.

  15. #40

    Default Re: How much of an exhibitionist are you (both)?

    I hope things work out for you. Watching and being watched is something that turns on my wife and me too.

  16. #41

    Default Re: How much of an exhibitionist are you (both)?

    The Mrs. and I like watching and being watched, too. The idea that somebody else is getting excited by watching us is a real turn-on.

    We regret the fact that most of the lifestyle clubs in our area do not have group rooms. One that does is called Tabu. Unfortunately, that club has only one thing going for it in ou minds, and that is the group room. We played in that room very soon after we started swinging, and had a great time! Since then, we have played in group rooms at Desire, Club Jasmine in NOLA, and an informal group room at a house party in NJ, and enjoyed all of them. We also played with another couple in a voyeur room at another local club- that was fun, too!

    I agree with those who complain about spurious conversation in or near a group area. It breaks the sexy mood!


  17. #42

    Default Re: How much of an exhibitionist are you (both)?

    I love being watched. I'm a bit insecure about my body at times which holds me back. If your going to watch I'll put on a show. Hubby on the hand has no barriers. He'll do whom ever where ever. Which typically means me getting fucked at landmark locations.

  18. #43

    Default Re: How much of an exhibitionist are you (both)?

    We are total exhibitionist. we love being watched and watching others. Once in Amsterdam, I fucked 10 men on the stage of a club and it was so intense, I would love to relive that experience. we both love to be in front of a camera also and we love to share.

  19. #44

    Default Re: How much of an exhibitionist are you (both)?

    thank you for liking our post. What did you like about it?
    Deb.

  20. #45

    Default Re: How much of an exhibitionist are you (both)?

    Hi, just nice. We are both nudists. He had sex many times with his former in public, I still haven't tried. but will be ok, I guess.

    Nice, subject to think about

  21. #46

    Default Re: How much of an exhibitionist are you (both)?

    KASSIA: I like to go to a shoes store, choose and buy shoes or sandals, using t-shirt and mini-skirt (with no panties), being attended by a male salesman, of course, who always help me to put on my shoes (or sandals).I ask to try several pairs of shoes His look at my pussy is impressive. Husband watches in the distance

  22. #47

    Default Re: How much of an exhibitionist are you (both)?

    I have a preference for group sex, several of us in the same bed. So yes that more than one person sees me sexually is part of the thrill. While creepy single guys peeking around the corner are a turn off having others watch and enjoy themselves is part of the fun.

  23. #48

    Default Re: How much of an exhibitionist are you (both)?

    We went to dinner with a couple we met at a swingers club and we switched partners and the men fingered us at the booth. Neither of us women wore panties so it was easy access and a big turn on to have another guy finger me in public.

  24. #49

    Default Re: How much of an exhibitionist are you (both)?

    I've always enjoyed both being watched while getting head and watching women give head. Unsure why. First time it ever came up was when I was about 18 - several times in different situations - and it stuck with me.

    Mrs. E has always enjoyed showing off her body but was usually too shy other than topless sunbathing. Only experience being watched during a sex act was her and her best friend giving head side-by-side once in high school, then not again until we started experimenting. Not as much specifically into being watched during a sex act, but definitely into being undressed.


  25. #50
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    Default Re: How much of an exhibitionist are you (both)?

    One couple i visit, hubby sits back ...direccts & enjoys the show !

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