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I was just thinking that this is something that really hasn't come up on here before. I know it comes up every day in the chat room so I thought I'd see what the deal is here :)

 

So how old are you guys? And how long have you been swinging?

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I am 26 and he is 27 and we have been swinging for a year and a half. Our first trip to a swing club was for my 25h birthday.

 

Another good question.....

 

How long have you and you significant other been together?

 

We have been together for 11 years and married for 2.

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R *her* 33 on and off for 14 years

D *him* 38 a couple years

 

just started to swing together a few months back

 

we have been together and living in sin for 3 years

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Jason is 29 and Sarah is 27. We've been together for 5 years and married six months TODAY!

We started swinging off and on about three years ago.

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I am Ash, 45 years old, Fiona is 40. We've been married for 20 years and swinging for the last 3 years. Mostly we swing with a couple who have been our friends since long before we or they swung. We have also added a third couple three times. Other than that, the only swinging we've done was at a private party where there was a total of 10 couples. Fiona had sex with 4 of the guys there and I with 3 ladies. Before starting swinging Fiona and I had only ever had sex with one another.

 

Ash.

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Happy Anniversary, Jason & Sarah!

 

She's in her mid-forties; he's a few years older. We've been married twenty years, together for twenty-two.

 

We were invited to play with another couple on our second date but only found out we both wanted to say "yes" after the opportunity passed.

 

Three years later we got our second opportunity and knew what to say. ;) Since then we've played with five couples, three of which lasted several years. We took time off to create our children and resumed play with the same couple afterward.

 

We are currently without playmates, but who knows what the future holds? :)

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Dan - 44 years old

Janette - 43 years old

 

We will have been married 24 years this coming July 15.

 

We have been involved in swinging for three years. Currently without partners, but have been given the green light from a couple about three hours away. We shall see what develops.

 

Dan and Janette

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I'm 35, Ted is 37. We've been married for over 20 years, together as a couple for over 22, have been good friends since we were 11 and 13 years old, and have known each other our whole lives (my earliest memory of Ted is playing in a dirt pile with Tonka trucks, before I started Kindergarden, lol). We had our very first experienced after we had been married about a year and a half, with one of his Navy buddies, our second was with a couple we were friends with about five years later, and then nothing up until about 2 1/2 years ago.

 

We actually consider ourselves to have been in the "Lifestyle" for only 2 1/2 years, as the first two experiences were kind of spur of the moment type of things. They caused no problems in our marriage, it was just something we didn't have time to pursue once the kids started coming, lol. Actually, we didn't know there was anything such as a "swinging lifestyle" until we got a computer and got hooked up to the web, lol.

 

Teresa

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Well I am 29 and he is 34. We are inexperienced in the lifestyle but hope to change that soon :D

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I'm 40...and there is no significant other by my choice. :p I began *swinging* back in college. The first few times it began kind of innocently with just hanging out with people, of course there was alcohol, and things just progressed. By the time I was a Senior there were actually parties that were mainly for everyone get together, watch porn and have sex. After graduating, I kind of left it behind...then a few years later began seeking out the local swinger's network. And ever since then have been basically in and out of the life, depending upon what was going on with my life.

When my daughter began high school, I found myself with a bit of time on my hands and while I had been *swinging* a few times a year, decided that now was the time to indulge a bit more. Now with her graduating and going to college, I plan to indulge as much and as frequently as possible. :p

It's been 22 years and while I may not have always been active in the lifestyle due to raising my daughter, taking care of my businesses, etc I have always considered myself a swinger. And yes, I am a swinger (this came up in the chat room the other day) and I am single. If I wanted to get laid, I could go to a bar and pick someone up :D ...but that's not what I want. I want to have sex, yeah, but I also want the friendship that one can get from other swingers. Why this theory isn't grasped by some people is beyond me. The people who believe that I can not live a swinging lifestyle because I choose and do not have a *mate* are wrong. That thinking is rather antiquated, IMHO.

 

Quin

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im 36 hubby is 32 we have been married for 10 yrs swinging for about 1 yr if we could find some interested couples we would do it all the time i think we have really had a ball the few times we have

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Okay I just turned 31 and hubby is 31. We've been swinging for 6 months now (still wet behind the ears and elsewhere lol) Anyway we celebrated our 8th anniversary the day before my birthday. We've been together for 10 years total and friends for 16.

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Although I had a previous 10 years or so experience, Tam and I have been somewht active in the funstlye for bout two years :)

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She is 42 and he is 57...we have been married for 3 yrs, together 8. We started swinging only about 7 months ago but spent several years talking about it and 2 years investigating it...So far we are having a blast, we have met two very nice couples that are friends first, and bedroom partners second. We wouldn't change our lifestyle for the world!

 

L the female half

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I'm 26 and a single male, and have never had an experience with swinging. I'm very curious though and this site is really helping me to understand the lifestyle

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I am 31,he is 39.Been married 13 yrs,..and have been active in the lifestyle.. full swap for a little over 10 yrs..in that time we have had a lot of fun and met really great couples.

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I am 65 and Jo is 62. We have been swinging for over 25 years. Despite our advanced age we keep in good shape and our friends tell us we are both very attractive and look years younger than we actually are.

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We are a couple in our mid 40s and have been married for 27 years. We started swinging back in the mid 80s but slacked off because our child getting old enough to start questioning some things. We were also scarred off by Herpes and then Aids. We are extremely comfortable with full swap with most other married swingers. We have done things sexual that makes most of what is discussed on here seem rather mild, and it did not involve any S&M OR B&D. Sex and a good imagination can keep a marriage in good health well into the golden years. I suggest a couple leave their inhibitions at the home they grew up in and go forth and enjoy life.

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We're both 40, been together for about 5 years, and we've been exploring the lifestyle for about 3-3 1/2 years.

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We're both 47. New to the board and topic. Not sure if we'll take the step but find it highly erotic. We've been together since freshman year in high school. Married 29 years. Never had sex with anyone else.

 

A side question: do you think it's easier to move into the lifestyle if you've had other partners? Seems like a big step to us. By the way, this board has way more class than any of the other sites on this topic I've tried.

 

Anne

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Both 44 here and really started swinging 4 years ago, although we had several MFM 3somes in our younger days.....like 22 years ago!

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I just turned 38 and my husband is 37. We have known each other for 18 years and have been married for 13. We have just started swinging, and had our first experiences last month. Hopefully many, many more to come!

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He's 56, I'm 41, we have been married for 2 1/2 months, been together for almost 2 years and playing for a few months :D .

 

Sam (the Wife)

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D0nut is 33 and Bagel is 34. We've been in the lifestyle for 5 years more or less. Sort of a hobby between the birth of our children...

 

:D

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we are me49 him 55; been married 27 years and still going strong.. swinging for 3 years now

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I'm Soft, I'm 37. Gentle, my hubby is 44. We have been in the life style for a little over two yrs. And we have been married for over 7 yrs.

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im 25, 5'11 tall single male have been to this lifestyle for 6 months and just encountered two unforgettable fun. I hope to increase those fun as this goes by. lol

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She(me ) is 44 and he is 47. I haven't started yet and he's been in the lifestyle for at least 15 years. Still doing research.

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I'm 23 and he's 25. We've been open to swinging for 2 years, but been actually active for a little over a year.

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We are him 43 and her 33. We started (will be our 1st time) swinging next week on our 6th anniversary, we have been together 8 years.

 

We are very much in love but 2 careers and 2 children cut heavily into our private time.

 

We have been interested for several and recently decided to try a club. WOW, since the decision, our communication and sex have been fantastic. We are not sure what will actually happen but we are both anxiously awaiting next weekend.

 

We jokingly say we will cure our 7 year itch together !!!!!!!!!!!

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She is 21 and he is 32. Been married a little over a year. Been swinging for 6 months. Got into this because it was something we were both curious about.

 

April & David >

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We've been married for six years and are newbies (had our first swing one month ago). He's 32 and I'm 29.

alyric

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he is 41, i am 42, been married 25 years, next march. he gave me pearl ring on his 16th birthday and we have been together ever sence over 27 years in sept.

Have been searching for 2 months. :)

 

S.

 

All good things come to those who wait.

 

Note: like the one all good turns get the blankets.. :D

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Im 23 and he is 24. we have been together 4 1/2 and married almost 2yrs. We have been trying to play with friends but now have decided that we would like to meet other people our age in our area..(which seems all but imppossible...LOL) We have only meet one person since we signed onto this board about 1 month ago. so we are fairly new :D

hfire269

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I am 29 and he is 28. We have been married for 5 years, together for 7. We have been in the lifestyle a little over 2 years.

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It's cool seeing how old everyone is:

 

We are (me) , 29 and (him) 27. We've been married for almost 5.5 years and together for only six months more than that. We've been in the lifestyle since March 15th of this year.

 

LOVE IT!!

 

Tigress xx

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He: 58 in the life style 25 years

She: 56 in the life style 10 years

Married: 17 yrs

 

Rich

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We're both 26, been together for about 10 years.

 

Our first swing experience was 7 years ago, but we took a loooong break and are trying to get back into it now.

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(Cathy)

 

I am 45, he is 34... We will have been together as a committed couple four years in October. We haven't done any swinging together yet, but are talking about it. I will admit that having access to this Board has helped me out a lot as I am more apprehensive than he is.

 

Mike, you might as well lable him a swinger. He's been in 3somes, 4somes, fmf, mfm, groups and on and on lol.... since he was in his 20's.. though he has not been active in the lifestyle for quite some time, he is interested in pursuing it again since I shared with him my desire to have a fmf relationship.

 

He asked me if I would be willing to do a couple relationship and I will admit that at first I said no... but since coming into this board and spending time reading what everyone has shared I am not so against it any more.

 

Who knows what the future will bring. :)

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I'm 31, he's 39. We've been married 7 years (known each other 8 years) and been swinging for 2 of those wonderful years.

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Gary is 53, Paula is 45. We've been together for 27 years, married for 24 on July 14th. We've been swinging for about a year and a half, talking about it for a year before that.

 

We kick ourselves all the time for waiting so long.

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She 30 and Him 42. Together for 10 years, MFM's for about 4 years (if that counts as swinging?). From Western Canada.

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