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Do you prefer MFM or FMF threesomes?

Do you prefer MFM or FMF threesome?  

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  1. 1. Do you prefer MFM or FMF threesome?

    • Men voting - MFM
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    • Women voting - MFM
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    • Men voting - FMF
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    • Women voting - FMF
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    • Men voting - Other
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    • Women voting - Other
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Hello all,

 

My wife and I (married 6 years) are here to explore and discover if swinging is right for us. At this point, I would say that I feel more comfortable with the idea of swinging, than she does because of the common fears (jealousy, insecurity, self-worth, etc.)

 

The interest mainly started in me early in our relationship. It started as bedroom talk, and I realized how hot it made me to think about her getting pounded from another guy while sucking me, me pounding her while she sucks another guy, DPing her, that kind of thing. The thought of it makes her very hot, but naturally she has fears to actually do it. She wasn't so into the idea at first, but she's warming up to it. :)

 

From talking with friends of mine, I think I am of the minority of husbands who desire MFM, much moreso than FMF. Don't get me wrong, I think FMF would be fun too, but it doesn't get my engine revving quite as high! :)

 

I would like to discuss with couples that feel similar to us, and especially experienced couples that started where we are, and how to overcome these fears she's having, and possibly discover and deal with fears I'm unaware of (perhaps in myself). I would love to hear from all couples, husbands, and wives who have dealt with this.

 

Cheers,

H & J

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Hey Good times!

 

Glad to see someone responded to my post. :) The wife and I are about as new as you can get to the lifestyle. We've yet to try swapping, MFM, FMF... We're working towards it, so we need all the encouragement we can get! ;)

 

Cheers,

H & J

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I would say I perfer the MFM.

 

I am only but a lonely male, I have but one tongue to offer to the fine ladies and it gets tired after a hour or so. Best to have more men to take good care of Laura then me to pretend I am super man and try to handle more then one women. :lol:

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I like FMF the best.

 

I think there's nothing hotter than playing with my hubby and another bi-woman. That combo really gets my juices flowing! facelick

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I would say I perfer the MFM.

 

I am only but a lonely male, I have but one tongue to offer to the fine ladies and it gets tired after a hour or so. Best to have more men to take good care of Laura then me to pretend I am super man and try to handle more then one women. :lol:

 

Hey mate, I feel the same way. :)

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Wow, these votes are really surprising me! I thought I was a freak and most guys wanted FMF. . .very interesting!

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You're not alone, pal. :) We've been married 31 years and I've always been hot to see her get it with another guy (with me right in there too). All the things you describe, well, that's our fave. So you're not alone.

 

My theory has always been that the ladies have way more stamina than men. So, we like there to be more men then ladies. MFM, MMFFMM, MMMF, etc. Maybe if we had started when bi was big we'd feel differently, but when we started bi was pretty darn rare.

 

The other thing is that when you really love someone, their pleasure and happiness is essential to your own. Indeed, the more turned on she is, and the better a cum she has, the more turned on I am, and the better time I have. So my feelings are both altruistic and self-interested. More bang for the buck. :D

 

If you read the "singles in swinging" forums a lot of the discussion is about MFM and how to set them up. Plenty of good advice there. If you're both open and up-front, and you talk this all out, you should be able to turn fantasy into reality without too much trouble, and no risk to your relationship. Just go at the pace of the slowest partner, but keep smiling and keep facing towards where you want to go. :)

 

MFMs have added a tremendous amount to our sex lives, and given us memories we'll treasure forever. Highly Recommended. :)

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If we had to choose our preferences would be MFM (or MMFM) first, MFFM (full swap with couple) second, and FMF third. I will never forget the sights and sounds of the first time I saw her with another man. The dreamy far away look in her eyes as her tongue reached out for him. The sharp intake of breath when he entered her. The gleam in her eyes and devilish grin with a drop of his cum at the corner of her mouth when she finished him. Years later remembering these things makes me horny.

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You're not alone, pal. :) We've been married 31 years and I've always been hot to see her get it with another guy (with me right in there too). All the things you describe, well, that's our fave. So you're not alone.

 

My theory has always been that the ladies have way more stamina than men. So, we like there to be more men then ladies. MFM, MMFFMM, MMMF, etc.

 

It's definitely my fave! I feel the same way about ladies having more stamina. My wife knows she can always outlast me. . .it's simply a matter of physics. :)

 

The other thing is that when you really love someone, their pleasure and happiness is essential to your own. Indeed, the more turned on she is, and the better a cum she has, the more turned on I am, and the better time I have. So my feelings are both altruistic and self-interested. More bang for the buck. :D

 

That's what I tell her. To see her pleasured, gives me pleasure. She likes that reassurance.

 

Just go at the pace of the slowest partner, but keep smiling and keep facing towards where you want to go. :)

 

I'm definitely further along in the process than she is, so I will just take it at her pace. I've implored her to ask her own questions to all of you when she's ready. By her reaction, there is definite hope. :)

 

Thank you all for your awesome advice! I'm sure you'll be hearing more from us.

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DBStPete said:

 

The other thing is that when you really love someone, their pleasure and happiness is essential to your own. Indeed, the more turned on she is, and the better a cum she has, the more turned on I am, and the better time I have. So my feelings are both altruistic and self-interested. More bang for the buck. :D

 

Count me as among those men who would prefer sharing their wives in a MFM situation. While of course I enjoy being pleasured, my greatest enjoyment and turn on is when my wife has enjoyed herself almost beyond control.

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Hello,

In our case, she is very bi, not bi curious, and has no interests in including males. I am straight and would probably go for all combinations on occasion. But in most relationship I have seen, this area is usually determined by the female, what she desires and feels comfortable with. So for us it is strictly FFM.

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Hello,

In our case, she is very bi, not bi curious, and has no interests in including males. I am straight and would probably go for all combinations on occasion. But in most relationship I have seen, this area is usually determined by the female, what she desires and feels comfortable with. So for us it is strictly FFM.

 

Just out of pure curiosity, would your wife allow you to play with other women alone since she is bi and basically the other woman plays with her? I'm honestly just curious.

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Jay and I have done both FMF and MFM. We have had fun. However, it was not what we prefer. Both Jay and I are sexual and enjoy having sex with other people, so it would not be fair in any way for me to ever ask my husband to sit and watch while I have sex with another man or woman...for that matter, as I of course agree that Jay's pleasure is essential to my own, I would not have as much pleasure if I thought that things in this were not fair.

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This got me thinking. Amy and I don' really have a set preference. For us, it's a mood thing. Sometimes I like watching her do her thing, and jump in to give her a double-dose of testosterone. Sometimes, I want to be the center of attention. Amy is hard-core bisexual, so obviously her moods lead more heavily to FFM. But that is not to say that we don't still have the occasional MFM just to mix it up. If Amy had her way, we would be having FFFMs all the time. I find it very difficult to have an issue with that. :lol:

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I prefer FMF. A lot of guys have this fantasy of making love to 2 girls at the same time. I can say from my experiences that it's a lot of work on the guy to totally satisfy 2 women at the same time. A good mix of tongue and cock usually suffices. You don't want to find yourself satisfying one and then running out of steam for the second gal. Now that I'm middle aged, I do need the blue diamond to keep me at my prime and still be able to perform for both. I'm an opportunist who believes in living life to the fullest!

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While I have always preferred FMF, don't get me wrong, I'm currently involved in an occasional MFM (my first time) with a very nice couple who have invited me into their sex lives. MFM is fun too. For me, it's actually easier as far as performance goes as the woman is attended to by her husband and me. It's an easygoing relationship, no competition as to who goes in first, etc. The only difference is that while he and I both don't mind sloppy seconds, neither of us will go down on her after one of us cums in her, so we have to make sure SHE cums a few times before we get our rocks off in her. He's not much into oral so I get to feast on her until she cums at least 3x. Only then do us guys get "plug in"... :-)

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This is the wife. First let me start by saying I admire the fact that you are asking before doing. Hubby and I aren't the most experienced people on the boards, but we have had our share of different combinations. Personally, I tend to go to the group thing a whole lot more where there are arms, legs, and asses everywhere. But in a more intimate setting with just 3, I tend to like the fmf. Don't get me wrong, I enjoy mfm, but lets face it, as a bi-woman, an fmf is just more fun for me.

 

It sounds like you are trying to figure out how to get you wife to get over her nerves more than anything else. Rule #1, DON"T PUSH IT! Talking is cool, but if the only thing you ever talk about is seeing your wife with another man, the more uncomfortable she will be. I'm sure in your mind, you are trying to let her know just how comfortable you are and in your own way trying to reassure her of your feelings. As a woman, what we hear is "I really really really want this, so please just do it already." If the idea does get her hot, then it will happen. My first time with an mfm with hubby was good, but not great because I felt like I was on display and had to almost "perform" to his expectations. That took a lot of the excitement I wanted out of the experience away from me because it then wasn't about us, it was about him.

 

Now, after the experience, I had the chance to really talk to hubby and express my feelings. Since then, he still loves to watch, but not in that creepy way. He still gets to see me with another man, but I can actually enjoy myself, which in turn makes him even hotter.

 

Talk to your wife. Ask her how she would actually feel, (not just does the sex feel good). Actually being watched for the first time by your lover can be quite overwhelming and that may be a large part of her reservations. I'm sure the two of you can come up with the perfect scenario so that each of you is satisfied with the experience, and not just one or the other.

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I'm a single male that feels he's in the minority as well. I too find it hot to have a woman enjoying herself in mfm situation. As for me, I have been on a discreet hunt to find a woman compatible in the "arena". Hopefully you finally get the chance to enjoy it with your wifey!

 

Ciao ;)

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The wife and I have been in the lifestyle for almost 5 years now. In that time we've shared more MFM's than FMF's. Mostly due to the lack of single females but I have to say I prefer the MFM's anyways. While the wife is Bi it surely still very difficult to handle 2 women......lol. Admittedly I love to watch her and another female going at it and I could just sit and watch for hours. I usually do watch for a while then join in for the last 1/3 of the session. When we do MFM that usually lasts about 1-1 1/2 hours and its all playtime for everyone. We're not "swappers". We prefer that everyone more or less plays together in one group. Thats what's fun for us.

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For a young fellow FMF is of course more exciting, but for the mature man MFM is the real thing - you get everything, first the live show and then the action.

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FMF definitely I always love the attention of two women who want to be with me as well as each other. Unfortunately it does not happen very often :(

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I had to vote "other" because we as a couple prefer to play with other couples. We've only had one FMF threesome (since we've been together) and although it was fun, we enjoy watching each other with someone else, so couples work better for us!

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I kinda like MFM, its fun. And it was a first fantasy opened.

 

Mrs.fun prefers FMF. It is fun, and ongoing.

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I believe most guys who have never experienced a FMF will obviously want to try one. It is great for the male ego but I found MFM threesomes are more fun and exciting.

 

The single most fun and exciting group event for me was a dozen guys gangbanging my wife. The best part was her looking at me as my c o c k sliding in and out of her mouth while the group of guys fucked and DP'ed her.

 

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Both are good, though the dynamics are different.

 

In my youth, I fantasized about FMF where I would be the center of attention of the females. Hasn't happened. Instead the adventures I've been in with two women have all been with one of the women as the center of attention, where the other woman and I are there to pleasure her. Yeah, this is probably FFM ...

 

Every MFM, though, has always been with both guys to pleasure the woman. Since I get tremendous pleasure from L's enjoyment of swinging, this always works for us.

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I like to see a women receive pleasure, so MFM makes much move sense. A women can handle a lot more men. (I once saw my wife wear out 5 men)!

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Ditto here too. One more man in the mix is just right for both of us.

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This is wife speaking for hubby because we talk about this a lot and it makes sex better. He wants me to do MFM and at first I didn't get it and was very insecure even talking about it, but now we talk about it a lot and some day we will probably have our fun. I think he likes the idea also because he doesn't have to do all the work and the idea of me being satisfied more than once, and the chase just turns him on.

 

Reading these posts helps me get it and it is a total turn-on now, can't wait until our lives get settled and we can actually experience it.

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MFM

I once did a FMF, but as I have no interest in bi play, and the guy just wanted to lie flat on his back, it wasn't really something special.

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I'm encouraged that others like mfm. My husband loves mfm and we've been there a lot. I love to fuck other men and to suck them while I'm being fuck.

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I didn't vote (yet) because we haven't participated in enough threesomes to be sure of our preferences. But I do find it interesting that this poll indicates both men and women seem to prefer MFM at about the same 2:1 ratio. I would have guessed FMF would be more popular with everyone.

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MFM. I'm too much of a pleaser to enjoy FMFs. And, as much fun as it is to watch two women enjoying each others' bodies, it's inredibly exhausting. I swear, women must possess some sort of orgasm-powerred battery, because two turned on women will wear you out. OTOH, with a good MFM, everything is balanced out. You can fuck, cum and recover as her SO takes his turn. Or you can do a spitroast, changing ends whenever one of you becomes too excited. There's always the good old DP, or (my personal favorite) the mirror game. And when you're too pooped to pound, the afterpaly is sublime.

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I have not yet had the pleasure of a MFM threesome. I've done FMF so far and have really enjoyed it. I do want the MFM experience and am happy to find that many men are open to it.

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The fact of the matter is when we try the fmf, I enjoyed fucking the other woman but my wife had no sexual desire to be with the other woman or any woman. And that what I really wanted, to see her having sex with another woman.

 

But from the time we did our first mfm, her whole sexual altitude was very different. She enjoy being the center of attention with two guys at the same time, and seeing how turned on she can get the other guy, and the sexual thrill of being able to fuck another guy and have me watch her get sexual pleasure from another guy.

 

Since doing our first mfm it has made her a better fuck, she does sexual things she was never willing to do prior to doing the first mfm.

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Not currently attached, I don't see either happening now as much as I'd love to try both (but maybe one day). Like a lot of other guys here, I if I had to chose between the two as much as it would be great to be the center of attention, I'd have to say I'd take a MFM as I love pleasing women and think that it would be more fun to see a woman being the center of attention.

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I like FMF the best.

 

I think there's nothing hotter than playing with my hubby and another bi-woman. That combo really gets my juices flowing! :facelick:

 

I agree! Of course FMF threesomes has been the only experience we've had so far...:blush: I just really enjoy playing with women :D

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little new to the lingo...but I thought fmf was no interaction between girls. we've tried mfm and fmf, both was obviously fun, however, we enjoyed the two guys on the wife better...she has MANY more areas to please.

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little new to the lingo...but I thought fmf was no interaction between girls. we've tried mfm and fmf, both was obviously fun, however, we enjoyed the two guys on the wife better...she has MANY more areas to please.

 

Like many things in alternative lifestyles it really depends on who you ask and how strictly they interpret things. I guess if you wanted to pick nits you could say FFM might would have interaction between the females and FMF wouldn't but I think you'd be setting yourself up for confusion. My own rule is when in doubt ask what someone means, as not everyone uses the terms the same.

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      His nervous, stuttering, "Sure," gave me the assurance I needed to head downstairs. I didn't remember the walk to the locker room being so long, but the anticipation seemed to stretch the halls and stairways. But soon, I was back with an overly optimistic fist full of condoms and a hard-on that made it hard to walk. David and Marilyn were talking innocently, leaning against the wall - but seeing me was all it took for talk to end. Mari took David's hand and led him to a private room; I pushed the door closed as we entered, waving at the five guys who looked disappointed that we weren't going to put on a show.

      David wasted little time pulling Mari's breasts free and sucking on her long nipples. His style was rough, but Mari seemed to love the feel of this stranger's tongue and gently nipping teeth. I knelt behind her, pushing her skirt around her hips, and flicked her ass with my tongue. I slipped two fingers in her dripping pussy and felt her body jerk at the anticipated intrusion. Her hips rocked against my fingers and tongue as David pulled off Mari's top and bra, spilling her breasts into his hands and waiting mouth. Mari rubbed David's cock through his slacks, eager to find out just what she'd gotten herself into. Our collective passions blurred the room as hands un-hooked, unzipped, un-buckled, and soon the only clothes left were Mari's black garter and stockings. David had taken to his knees, taking his rough style of play to Mari's tender box as Mari resumed the head we'd started in the common area - her passion making her suck even harder, with more abandon. I thrust into her mouth gently, knowing that in her current state, she couldn't focus enough to keep me from going too deep. I watched her perfect tits roll as her body rocked on David's aggressive tongue. I switched places with David, letting him enjoy Mari's mouth for the first time. Mari gave a perfect, eager head, and I knew David was in for a treat - but I wanted my time with my wife's perfect pussy. Her long lips and deep folds are the perfect play place for big boys, and my tongue traced her outer lips through the gentle maze that leads to her dripping entrance and tingling clit. I slipped my fingers inside of Mari, curling them gently to find that magical-mythical spot that always seems to make a good orgasm a screaming one, and my tongue flicked gently at her oh-so-ready clit. I looked up to see David fucking Mari's mouth - and Mari thrusting back hungrily. I heard her cock-filtered moans as I brought her to the brink of orgasm. I quickened my tongue and my inner stroking, and Mari's mouth popped off of David's shaft. Her fist pumped him purposefully, but her eyes and attention were now focused on my face, pressed against her pussy. Her hips bucked with the beginnings of her orgasm, and her moans turned to screams as she came against my tongue. Mari fucked my fingers powerfully, her pussy sucking and pulling them deeper inside, and she threw her head back into the pillow and let out a long "YES!" as a wave overcame her.

      David knelt beside her, a stunned look on his face. "That was hot." Mari laughed at his grasp of the obvious as she pulled her knees together and her legs up - but we weren't going to let her off that easily. "Be gentle," I said as David went back down, and I brought my throbbing cock to Mari's mouth. I've always loved the way that Mari says thanks for a job well done - and tonight was no exception. David's tongue brought Mari over the edge two more quick times as she sucked my cock. Her body shivered weakly as the first orgasm had taken so much out of her. She moaned around my width but never let me go until her desperation got the best of her.

      "Fuck me." She said, her voice breathy, "Fuck me, please." I took her first, as David's cock hung in Mari's face, rubbing against her cheek as she thrust her body back against me. I pushed her legs to her chest as I buried my cock deeply into her. Her heat was tremendous, her body on fire as it lived out a fantasy it was so reluctant to even admit. David watched as I took my wife hard, thrusting deeply and angling my body to hit her just right. Mari gritted her teeth as she let out a strained moan, her fourth orgasm coming as a surprise - short but powerful. I pulled out quickly, knowing that there was one other thing that Mari wanted to try before we'd be able to call this a night. I lay against the wall as Mari got to her knees. She sucked hard as David pushed into her for the first time. It was her first 'extra' cock, and she seemed to shake from head to toe. "Is he in?" I asked, wanting her to process the reality of this moment. "Mmmm-Hmmm," she groaned as he pounded her. David fucked my beautiful wife hard from behind, thrusting deeply and quickly, racing towards an orgasm that had such a gorgeous build-up. And he reached that place far too quickly.

      "Where do you want him to cum?" I asked, stroking Mari's hair. "I want to see it," she said, her tongue flicking the head of my cock. "I want him to cum all over me." David responded to her wishes, pulling out and removing his spent condom. Mari rolled over on her back, pushing her breasts together and urging him to cover them. He had no problem doing so. David's excitement was apparent as jet after jet of his hot load landed on Mari's perfect tits.

      "Oh, god, yes," she cooed as he came. David let out one last grunt as his body jerked, and one last long stream of cum dripped onto my wife. I kissed Mari - realizing that I had seen her emerge. My perfect butterfly, covered with another man's seed. David collapsed at the end of the bed as Mari and I wrapped our hearts tightly around each other. We basked in the afterglow of an incredible fantasy, unaware that, for us, the night was young. We dressed, David and Mari kissed one last time, and then we left the room for the next adventuresome group.

      We fully expected to leave soon thereafter. Instead, almost unbelievingly, the stars aligned, and we had another encounter.

      Mari went to the bar, still sexily disheveled, and started talking to a single woman that we had met earlier, helping her fend off a torrent of attention, gladly taking on some for herself. Knowing she was having fun, I left her alone while I went to the restroom.

      I normally don't strike up conversations at the urinal, but all rules have exceptions.

      "I'm not gay," I said to the guy spilling beer one stall over, "but that is a really nice shirt."

      I wouldn't have said it if I hadn't meant it. Dark blue flames on white silk. Sharp as a switchblade.

      "Thanks," He said. "My wife bought it. I don't remember where."

      "Well - it's a great-looking shirt."

      The conversation eroded as our bathroom purposes came to an end, and we awkwardly took turns with the soap dispenser. He left before my paws were dry, and as I wiped the last of the evidence on my jeans, I walked out to put what I thought would be the final hit on my wife.I was quite wrong.

      Mr Nice Shirt was in the hallway with a gorgeous blond - tall and thin, with stunning blue eyes and long legs on high heels.

      "Hey, hon." he said, "where did you get this shirt? This guy likes it."

      She told me - but hell if I remember. I was captivated by her. Where she bought the shirt went in one ear and out the other, but her, I was drinking in till I reached the bottom of the glass. It was a nice shirt - but she was significantly nicer. I watched her lips as she talked and wondered what they tasted like; I watched her chest when she paused - also wondering what it tasted like. Soon the shirt was forgotten.

      But - I found out later - they thought I was a single, which wasn't their thing - and they excused themselves. I made my dejected way back to Mari - still with her single friend - still at the center of a crowd. I walked to the center and kissed her hard, because I could, and whispered in her ear, "Are you ready to go?" She nodded and told me she needed to check her hair before she did. I wasn't the only one who watched her walk to the restroom - perfect hips massaging the inside of her brown suede skirt. I sat at the bar, watching what passed for porn on the satellite feed, and waited...And waited...And realized I wasn't enjoying the porn enough to not be worried about my wife...I wandered through the club, weaving my way between connections being made and broken - singles getting lucky or rejected - women being fondled or ignored... The witching hour had arrived, and folks were grouping off with the hopes that productive conversations weren't about to produce wilted results. And in the bathroom door, Mari had become the target of Mr Cool-Shirt and his incredible wife. They stood in a tight but respectful group, chittering like old friends... I watch Mari laugh at some witty thing and then look up to see me walking her way.

      "That's my husband," she said, maybe a bit too proudly, and the blond woman whom I'd already memorized turned and smiled - wickedly surprised if that is a workable combination. A three-way conversation in the door of the women's room became a spirited four-way as we realized that - not only was I, not a single guy, we all had much more than that in common; two pairs of soulmates on different planes of experience. Best friends who do everything together - who were about to drift upstairs...

      They had been to many clubs and had much background in the lifestyle, and as we made our way upstairs, they shared themselves in a way that makes the lifestyle so much more than sex. We drifted from room to room, listening to them talk about their "hobby" and how they survived within it. For a moment, the idea of "playing" with our new friends disappeared as these gorgeous people became so incredibly fascinating. It seemed like every line of conversation revealed more in common, more useful advice, more to like...And then she closed the door...

      "I like you guys," Kim - this gorgeous blond said, her voice going from friendly to lusty. "Let's play."

      Mari and I snapped back to reality quickly. We were in a swing club, and we were not going home anytime soon... I didn't need to look at Mari to know that she was okay with this. I'd watched her as she watched Joe's lips move when he talked. I had seen her smile when he touched her shoulder. And I had absolutely nothing to think about as Kim lay on the bed, smiling and lifting her legs to show a shaved and pantiless play area.

      "What do you say?" She asked, staring at me hypnotically.

      Nothing... There was nothing I could say. I was hers - but better yet, she was about to be mine. Joe sat on a chair in the corner of the room - thinking, I suppose, that he might watch for a while. But Mari was having none of that, straddling his lap and wrapping her tongue around his. Kim lay on her back, and I ran my hands down her legs, lifting her feet and helping her with the boots that she wasn't going to be needing for a while. Her long thin legs were, on their own, plenty to enjoy - but when the boots were shed, my hands wandered higher as I slid onto the bed with her, kissing her gently at first - enjoying her soft but expert tongue. Her hands made short work of my belt as mine found her small, tight breasts. She seemed eager to catch up with Mari, who had quickly moved to a kneel in front of Joe and was blowing him madly - her head bobbing furiously.

      I didn't object and let her push me over to my back. My eyes caught Joe's, and he smiled widely, dazed but certainly feeling every stroke of Mari's expert tongue. Mari worked his shaft with one tight fist and had pushed the blue flamed shirt up to his strong chest. She was moaning around him - and he encouraged her. The sounds were nearly as hot as the visual of my beautiful wife gobbling our new friend with such abandon. I could have lost myself watching the two of them, just experiencing the pleasure my wife was giving another man, but I was soon pulled expertly out of the moment as bright blue eyes looked up at me past short blond hair, and a wet tongue flicked between a wicked grin and eagerly tasted the tip of my cock...I looked down at Kim as she rolled her tongue around the head of my cock, seeming to savor the taste. Her eyes locked on mine, and her smile never failed......until she took me into her mouth, slowly swallowing half of me and then pulling me out just as deliberately. I groaned, body twitching and cock responding to her attentions.

      "You like that?" she asked, a trail of my excitement still leading to her lips.I just swallowed and grinned - and she correctly took that as a "yes". Her eyes finally left mine as she took me again, this time with abandon. Her tongue danced around my cock as her lips tightly massaged my shaft. Her hands jerked me and my hips rocked slightly, finding her manic rhythm. I closed my eyes and enjoyed her expertise, my fingers twisting in her short hair. I could feel her taking me deeper until it seemed the head of my cock was so deep in her that I could almost feel it with the hand that was on the back of her head. Her warmth was complimented by a perfect wetness. She stroked me with one hand as her other hand massaged my balls - coaxing my cum from them - eager for a taste of her good work. I heard a squeal and looked up just in time to see a naked Mari tossed onto the bed beside us. Joe was naked as well - his tall, thin frame sporting a desperate erection. He dropped to the bed between Mari's legs and began to kiss her breasts, one after another, commenting loudly on her large, long nipples. Kim was looking over, obviously admiring them herself. She looked up at me, her lips still around my excitement, her face flushed. I smiled at her and nodded - unable to ask her if she wanted what Mari was about to be getting... Somehow she read me and nodded back - letting me go with a gentle pop - and climbed up on the bed, shedding what little clothing she still had on. I pulled off my shirt and settled between her legs.

      The wives were now on the bed, lying side by side, with two enthusiastic husbands now heading south hungrily. Kim's pussy was perfectly shaved with small lips and a perfect clit. I licked gently at first, tasting her fully... This was the first pussy I'd tasted since my marriage, and I was going to enjoy it fully. I slipped my hands beneath her ass to lift her slightly, angling her just right... And sunk my tongue deeply into her, tasting her as she tightened around the intrusion. She whimpered slightly and bucked - and I lost myself... My fingers swam in and out of her as my tongue found every unique spot that seemed to make her jerk with electricity. Her eyes were clamped shut as I ate her, and her hands gripped my head harder and more desperately, soon governing my attentions to just her clit as she climbed higher... Closer to the edge of orgasm. I heard Mari scream as she came, thrashing her hips forcefully against Joe's face, forcing him to hang on... Kim heard her, too, and seemed to catch Mari's orgasm just as Mari was coming down... One loud "OHH!" was all she moaned as her body spasmed beneath my feasting tongue. She jerked hard, holding my face tightly to her and riding her orgasm out against my tongue. I held her thighs as she began to land. She slid her hands to my cheeks and pulled herself to me. "My god," was all she said before she kissed me and pulled me back to the bed.

      Joe was on top of Mari, thrusting his fingers into her roughly, and Kim held me as we watched Mari cum again. Mari's vocal aerobics shook the walls again as she came a second time, right on top of her first one. She seemed to cum for minutes before she finally stopped thrusting her hips against Joe's aggressive hand.

      "Wow," Kim said, looking at me. "Is she always this loud?"

      "I'd like to think so," I replied, smiling.

      "I have no doubt, then."

      Kim grinned as she kissed me, pushing me to my knees. She crawled in front of me and took me in her mouth again, egging me on to thrust. I did so - watching as Mari laid Joe on the bed and then knelt between his legs again. I grabbed Kim's perfect ass with both hands and pushed forward gently, barely containing my arousal as Mari began to stroke Joe's thick cock.I heard Kim sucking me wetly, accepting my thrusts as Joe moaned with approval as Mari gave him a masterful hand job, puckering her lips around the head of his cock as she stroked him. My head swam for ten minutes, watching my wife and feeling Joe's. I was near the edge when Joe screamed out his arrival. Kim flipped around quickly, eager to watch her husband's pleasure, and slid a hand down to cup his balls just as he erupted. His first shot a foot into the air. Mari moaned, "YESSS!" as he came - excited at the sight of his orgasm. His hips thrust slightly as the rest of his orgasm ran down his cock and over Mari's still-pumping fist.

      He lay there - satisfied - and Kim turned, grinning, back to me. The only difference is that this time - so did Mari. I had four lustful eyes looking at me hungrily, and I knew that one of my favorite fantasies was going to come true. I was pushed back into the pillow and watched as a blond and brunette devoured my cock - neither of them losing steam. One would suck my balls while the other pistoned on my hot shaft - then they'd switch - dancing their tongues up either side of me as they went... "This is a vision you'll never forget," Joe chattered - coming back to his senses. I quietly agreed with him, watching as they pleasured me - unable to drink it in enough. Just the sight was enough to make me cum... The sensation of two talented tongues, two eager mouths, brought me closer to the edge than I ever thought possible... Joe seemed to agree, now standing at the side of the bed stroking a resurrected erection. But - I was the first to see them kiss...And it was almost too much... Kim and Mari's tongues soon discovered each other and left my cock to pursue each other. I was remarkably okay with that. Kim and Mari's passionate lip lock was more than Joe could handle.

      "Oh my god," he said to Mari. "I had no idea you were into that."

      "I wasn't," Mari said truthfully - and then quickly returned to what she swears was one of the best kissers she'd ever known. I joined Joe in the perverse ritual, not caring if they ever touched me again - as long as they didn't stop touching each other. Their hands fondled each other, their tongues twisted together... And the room seemed to heat up by twenty degrees.

      I'd never thought I'd see my wife so wild for another woman, but there they were, wrapped together, making out like high school kids. The scene proved to be too much, and Joe yelled out Mari's name. Mari moved over beneath him, her tongue out and eager, just as Joe came again. If it is possible, his second orgasm seemed larger than his first, streaming into Mari's open mouth in jet after jet. And that was enough for me... I knelt over Kim and let go of her waiting tongue. She excitedly swallowed what she caught - what she didn't streamed down her cheeks as I jerked out the last of my orgasm and collapsed beside her...I remember Joe leaving and coming back with a glass of pop for all of us to share, but for the life of me, I don't remember much else. We all lay together for a while - talking again like old friends and laughing. The biggest difference this time was being able to watch breasts jiggle with every well-told joke or story.

      We exchanged e-mails, hugs, and kisses... But I wasn't offered the shirt...When we finally left - the club owner was cleaning up, barely beating the sun, which would be showing itself soon. One of the staff smiled at us and said somewhat meekly, "You guys sounded great." I suppose she's right - a perfect encounter inspires some wonderful loudness. The night was a surprise from the start - we'd done more than we'd ever expected and made friends on top of it. And it was one of those friendships that inspired me to surprise Mari with one last step in her now complete emergence.
    • By let's do it again
      I need some input from couples that had different SO, that you have swung with and was the method to your swinging experience different. Me and my ex swung more socially and it was more relationship thing. Now that me and K swing, we do it mostly on vacation in Mexico or Jamaica with couples we meet at the resort and it is more just sex. Tell us if your swinging has changed depending on your SO.
    • By Rwookc
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      I took Anita a fresh glass of wine. She looked so sexy and beautiful with her bodysuit on highlighting her sexy body. I gave her a long kiss.
       
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      It was a chance to take some 35mm shots of her. She kept grinding on his cock and reached over to play with my cock.
       
      We made passionate love to Anita for almost four hours. Mike left and Anita and I went back to bed and made the most amazing love to each other.
       
      This was once of three times that Mike and I got our brains screwed out by my beautiful Anita.
       
      Thank you Anita for the amazing memories, my lover.
       
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