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As a swinger do you like to play with lights slightly dim, in bright light or off?

 

We like slightly dim lights but not too dark. We both are some what of voyeurs and like to watch each other. I love watching her getting sexual pleasure from some guy or girl as she is sucking my cock at the same time.

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I would always prefer to at least have SOME lights on during sex -- not big ol' spotlights or anything like that (although, under the right circumstances that can be fun!).

 

Only a few times have I experienced sex in total darkness (via a well secured blindfold) and it was interesting, to say the least.

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Lots of candles! Makes for a perfect setting and great lighting. You also never know when a bit of candle wax might come in handy :)

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Dim lights, even better with some low music :) Too bright or too dark are equally bad - just doesn't set the mood.

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Well, we prefer some light, as the visual component is important. But not so much that it seems like we're having sex on the surface of the sun. (although that would be hot*).

 

Or, alternatively, we could turn out all the lights and do some Helen Keller role-play.

 

* - See what I did there? Hah!

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Can't be completely dark. Have to have some light because the 1st time I had sex it was dark. I was scared. I was alone.

 

BWAAHAAHAHA!

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Can't be completely dark. Have to have some light because the 1st time I had sex it was dark. I was scared. I was alone.

 

BWAAHAAHAHA!

 

Beware of things that go BUMP in the night. :hahaha:

 

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At first light off was the way but now we have to have some sort of lighting I have to agree with everyone that liked the candle light it makes everything seem to dance nicely around the room.

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I definately prefer at least enough light to see who I'm doing and what part of their body I'm doing it to. I guess I would say dim light. We like candlelight around our house and that's probably the level of light I like in general. I have no issue with full lights on either tho.

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Dim lighting.. Candles work great.. Actually had a surreal experience once.. one of those el cheapo strobe lights from Spencers.. Worked great until someone got sick from motion sickness..

 

BUZZKILL

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I have to wonder how it would be with a disco ball and strobe lights...

 

I did the strobe lights bit when I first met my lady half. Then I found out she has seizures so I had to turn it off. There was one time when we was making love and she had a seizure right in the middle of it. Hell I thought at first that she was having one hell of a orgasm until I saw her eyes rolled back in her head. Then it scared the shit out of me to the point that I refuse to touch her for about 3 months. :sad:

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