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Forum: One Sided Swinging or Taking One For the Team

What does taking one for the team mean to swingers? Does swinging always have to be equal?

  1. I think this is one sided. She won't let us play with girls

    by terryanddar, 09-09-2013 08:30 PM
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    unequal play
    • Replies: 30
    • Views: 13,704
    Gordo
    09-25-2013, 12:03 PM Go to last post

  2. [A] Taking One For the Team

    by JellyInjector, 06-08-2013 07:35 AM
    taking one for the team
    • Replies: 24
    • Views: 3,072
    JellyInjector
    08-04-2013, 07:17 AM Go to last post

  3. Feeling Left Out

    by Mr. Wolverton, 01-26-2013 11:57 AM
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    left out, unequal
    • Replies: 26
    • Views: 4,694
    Mr. Wolverton
    05-04-2013, 05:41 PM Go to last post

  4. [A] What's the score anyway?

    by two4youinswva, 01-26-2011 07:10 PM
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    fairness
    • Replies: 26
    • Views: 3,577
    frontosa415
    04-15-2013, 10:31 AM Go to last post

  5. Leftovers

    by sunbuckus, 06-19-2012 10:40 PM
    awkward, left out, rejection, second choice
    • Replies: 19
    • Views: 2,718
    Fundamental Law
    06-23-2012, 09:25 PM Go to last post

  6. Surprise appearance of her male friend leaves me in the dark.

    by Cuda, 05-27-2012 07:15 PM
    communication, deception, one sided
    • Replies: 18
    • Views: 2,749
    tribbles
    06-18-2012, 08:04 PM Go to last post

  7. Question New to all this and looking for some advice

    by MrPorcupine, 06-16-2012 07:39 AM
    communication, rules and boundaries
    • Replies: 5
    • Views: 1,299
    JustAskJulie
    06-18-2012, 06:01 AM Go to last post

  8. Dealing With a Bad Night at the Club

    by Lionheart72, 05-26-2012 01:16 AM
    resentful, taking one for the team
    • Replies: 14
    • Views: 2,896
    twistedpretzels
    06-10-2012, 10:25 AM Go to last post

  9. having a couple issues want to get off my chest.

    by JandC78, 06-01-2012 10:11 AM
    reconnecting
    • Replies: 23
    • Views: 2,234
    JustAskJulie
    06-04-2012, 04:25 PM Go to last post

  10. wife and single men

    by jkc4u, 05-19-2012 07:23 AM
    one sided, red flags
    • Replies: 13
    • Views: 2,658
    LiveLoveHaveFun
    05-29-2012, 06:17 PM Go to last post

  11. Question about soft swing problems

    by latin2012, 05-14-2012 11:42 PM
    blowjob, left out, new swingers, oral sex, soft swinging
    • Replies: 17
    • Views: 12,696
    latin2012
    05-16-2012, 11:12 AM Go to last post

  12. Don't really like other half of couple

    by D&D, 04-09-2012 07:59 AM
    attraction, interest, veto
    • Replies: 15
    • Views: 1,780
    JandC78
    04-13-2012, 07:36 AM Go to last post

  13. Wife sharing ... crossing the line?

    by jandlvaldosta, 05-06-2011 10:21 PM
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    gifts, indecent proposal
    • Replies: 125
    • Views: 23,195
    drinnt
    04-10-2012, 12:40 PM Go to last post

  14. Unhappy Confused...Need advice

    by Blury, 12-12-2011 06:25 AM
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    forced to swing, ticket
    • Replies: 44
    • Views: 3,658
    JustAskJulie
    01-23-2012, 11:16 AM Go to last post

  15. First time in 2.5 years

    by JohnUK1, 11-30-2011 03:22 PM
    playing solo
    • Replies: 24
    • Views: 3,068
    JohnUK1
    01-20-2012, 12:29 PM Go to last post

  16. Was it inevitable?

    by angelkin, 11-18-2011 07:36 PM
    bad feeling, house party
    • Replies: 15
    • Views: 2,310
    JustAskJulie
    11-22-2011, 03:58 PM Go to last post

  17. Impossible situation?

    by ftwguy29, 08-15-2011 10:48 AM
    double standard, jealousy
    • Replies: 11
    • Views: 1,659
    ftwguy29
    08-16-2011, 08:21 AM Go to last post

  18. Unhappy Dealing with a partner who doesn't seem into it.

    by BePassionate, 06-22-2011 06:35 PM
    nervous, pressure
    • Replies: 19
    • Views: 3,596
    susanandsteve
    07-02-2011, 06:01 PM Go to last post

  19. First MFM experience went ok until I felt pushed out

    by mcouple40, 06-11-2011 06:03 AM
    assertive, left out
    • Replies: 22
    • Views: 5,101
    Powerglide
    06-18-2011, 11:30 PM Go to last post

  20. Feeling Left Out While She Plays

    by lucky & unlucky, 06-02-2011 01:31 AM
    left out, one sided
    • Replies: 18
    • Views: 3,014
    JustAskJulie
    06-14-2011, 04:36 PM Go to last post

  21. Seasoned swinger

    by TheSwingerSet, 03-12-2011 12:06 AM
    left out, swinging separately
    • Replies: 6
    • Views: 1,868
    socolais
    03-13-2011, 01:42 AM Go to last post

  22. Is she doing this for all the wrong reasons?

    by AsianSwirl, 01-27-2011 05:32 AM
    one sided
    • Replies: 12
    • Views: 2,498
    AsianSwirl
    01-29-2011, 04:45 PM Go to last post

  23. So what does she actually want?

    by alittleconfused, 01-14-2011 10:41 PM
    one sided
    • Replies: 17
    • Views: 3,877
    sweet_tna
    01-20-2011, 12:01 AM Go to last post

  24. My hubby seems very eager to find another couple ?

    by mtneers, 01-04-2011 07:46 PM
    excitement, taking one for the team
    • Replies: 23
    • Views: 4,602
    Alura
    01-16-2011, 02:55 PM Go to last post

  25. Question Should she drop the sex machine?

    by yumyum29a, 12-27-2010 11:05 AM
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    playing solo
    • Replies: 43
    • Views: 6,661
    savcpl912
    01-11-2011, 09:46 PM Go to last post

  26. MFM threesome that became a twosome: advice required

    by Moondance, 11-06-2010 02:11 AM
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    left out
    • Replies: 31
    • Views: 25,744
    Gordo
    12-07-2010, 12:39 AM Go to last post

  27. UGH, what is it with some people

    by bi4me2, 08-12-2010 07:38 PM
    aggressive, left out, one sided
    • Replies: 23
    • Views: 3,103
    bi4me2
    08-15-2010, 04:25 PM Go to last post

  28. Hubby only wants to watch me...anyone else experience this?

    by Unregistered, 06-15-2010 01:03 PM
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    half swap, one sided, preferences, voyeurism
    • Replies: 36
    • Views: 6,837
    Hellsgate
    07-12-2010, 07:42 PM Go to last post

  29. I don't understand how it's OK for her but not for me

    by Stevef8, 06-29-2010 10:32 PM
    double standard
    • Replies: 17
    • Views: 2,772
    it'sso
    07-05-2010, 09:26 AM Go to last post

  30. Feeling like 4th wheel... am I being petty?

    by happycouple5047, 06-01-2010 09:16 PM
    one sided
    • Replies: 15
    • Views: 2,716
    LikeMinds321
    06-08-2010, 03:20 PM Go to last post

  31. She can play without me playing.

    by olderyder, 12-08-2009 11:45 AM
    one sided
    • Replies: 22
    • Views: 2,929
    ArkansasFunOnes
    12-18-2009, 04:38 PM Go to last post

  32. Bothered by what happened during play

    by little firefly, 11-09-2009 10:51 AM
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    left out, one sided
    • Replies: 35
    • Views: 6,772
    mrfunfan
    12-01-2009, 06:56 PM Go to last post

  33. Swinger and Non-Swinger

    by NDN, 10-21-2009 12:14 PM
    one sided
    • Replies: 22
    • Views: 2,364
    JustAskJulie
    10-22-2009, 03:52 PM Go to last post

  34. Boyfriend likes fmf but isn't sure about mfm, and I want both

    by stacey, 08-20-2009 10:38 AM
    one sided
    • Replies: 15
    • Views: 3,147
    ItTakes3
    09-01-2009, 04:15 PM Go to last post

  35. Wife full swaps, I'd like full swap, but wife doesn't want me to...

    by memcme75, 08-15-2009 07:12 PM
    one sided
    • Replies: 18
    • Views: 4,172
    allnightfuncpl
    08-23-2009, 05:38 AM Go to last post

  36. Fair or selfish?

    by swvacouplelookn, 05-26-2009 09:53 PM
    objections, one sided, swinging separately, veto
    • Replies: 22
    • Views: 3,079
    GoNatural
    08-08-2009, 09:50 PM Go to last post

  37. I feel left out, she's so in the moment and unaware of my presence...

    by maxmax98087, 09-29-2008 11:58 AM
    left out, one sided
    • Replies: 16
    • Views: 2,804
    HotMoCpl
    06-21-2009, 03:31 PM Go to last post

  38. For couples, who has more fun in your adventures?

    by exploringRM, 05-17-2009 10:00 PM
    experience
    • Replies: 15
    • Views: 2,459
    swvacouplelookn
    05-28-2009, 01:30 PM Go to last post

  39. Different limits for husband and wife

    by blinkey, 03-18-2006 10:14 AM
    rules and boundaries
    • Replies: 22
    • Views: 4,992
    Greg & Sheryl
    11-05-2008, 09:23 AM Go to last post

  40. If he can fuck other women, why can't I fuck other men?

    by Unregistered, 11-26-2007 08:11 PM
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    one sided
    • Replies: 46
    • Views: 9,615
    sexkitten1203
    09-20-2008, 05:16 PM Go to last post

  41. Trying not to alienate the husband of this couple

    by simeon black, 08-28-2008 05:17 PM
    left out, playing solo
    • Replies: 10
    • Views: 2,289
    jdavisauto
    09-10-2008, 06:06 PM Go to last post

  42. Taking one for the team: How long can this go on?

    by jid2008, 09-05-2008 05:35 PM
    attraction, taking one for the team
    • Replies: 20
    • Views: 3,940
    Suncouple
    09-08-2008, 10:38 PM Go to last post

  43. Love to watch him but feel cheated afterwards.

    by alabamabanging, 03-31-2008 06:30 AM
    relationship issues
    • Replies: 15
    • Views: 3,530
    bendmeovernow
    08-15-2008, 12:17 PM Go to last post

  44. Fairness in swinging and in sex....

    by JustAskJulie, 06-29-2008 12:29 PM
    fairness
    • Replies: 16
    • Views: 2,518
    two42lovers
    07-16-2008, 02:30 PM Go to last post

  45. We want to start, but she says no women for me - bad idea?

    by redandbrown, 06-21-2008 02:04 AM
    getting started, one sided
    • Replies: 13
    • Views: 2,472
    JustAskJulie
    06-21-2008, 04:54 PM Go to last post

  46. Charity Sex

    by cracker60479, 08-24-2006 11:05 PM
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    taking one for the team
    • Replies: 30
    • Views: 3,529
    deanncat
    06-08-2008, 05:53 PM Go to last post

  47. Full Swap that made for an awkward situation...

    by SwingingForFun, 04-09-2008 10:22 AM
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    awkward situation, bad experiences, full swap, not interested
    • Replies: 30
    • Views: 9,467
    sexychoclit
    05-05-2008, 08:44 PM Go to last post

  48. Red face Only attracted to 1/2 of a couple ??

    by EnchantedBiLove, 03-08-2008 03:11 PM
    attraction
    • Replies: 24
    • Views: 3,637
    des1re06
    03-15-2008, 08:13 AM Go to last post

  49. Couple interested in wife but not me

    by big_ems, 01-22-2008 09:42 AM
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    red flags
    • Replies: 40
    • Views: 6,433
    JustAskJulie
    03-12-2008, 05:23 PM Go to last post

  50. Question about "Taking One For The Team"

    by Liutas, 11-20-2007 11:06 PM
    not interested, taking one for the team
    • Replies: 16
    • Views: 3,288
    xxoticangel
    12-05-2007, 10:56 AM Go to last post
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