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The Wife: Well, we have gained lots of knowledge about swinging from this site and followed the basic rule of the first meeting for dinner to see how things will go. They did indeed go very well. Now it is time for the infamous "second" meeting and this is our plan. Any comments would be appreciated. We are meeting in a city about an hour away from home. I have made reservations at a hotel that has rooms set up for extended stays with a separate bedroom, small kitchen, and pull out bed in the living room. The plan is to use this as sort of a home away from home for the 3 of us (planning a MFM) to relax and advance things further physically. I want things to progress but I also need to feel very comfortable. We plan to go to dinner and then return to the room. I wanted this room with a separate living area so that there is an opportunity for individual 'space' if we need it during the evening. I can honestly say that while I am enthusiastic in regards to this, I am very anxious also. Hubby and I have been together almost 20 years and he has been my only sexual partner. My biggest fear is that, no matter how much I may want this, I will just freeze up. We are starting this thread mainly to get comments and also to document our experience for anyone out there who is at the same stage we are.

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I wanted this room with a separate living area so that there is an opportunity for individual 'space' if we need it during the evening.

 

Wow, smart girl!! :claps: Now, THIS is the kind of stuff that I only WISH we had thought through before we first started. Mr. intuition and I made some pretty bad blunders when we were newbies; it sounds like you two are miles ahead of where we were!

 

And don't worry about freezing up. The very hardest part is breaking through the glass wall of "personal space". Once you've gotten into someone's personal space, there's no pretending that you didn't mean to do just that, so it's awkward. You know...you remember your first kiss...it's like that. Awkward as hell, nervewracking, exciting...all that fun stuff. :D

 

I don't have any icebreaker threads I can link to off the top of my head, but I'm sure you could find them easily enough under the parties/entertaining forum(s), or search the board for them (dropdown search bar from the navigation menu at the top). There you'll find ideas for games like strip poker,naked twister, or maybe drinking games (wouldn't recommend those as alcohol and swinging are a bad mix!). Good luck!

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This is interesting because my wife and I are going through the same thing. Although we haven't gotten that far yet.....just in the giving it some serious thought stage. We too have been together almost 20 years and have never been with anybody else in that way. We have played with couples before but never full. My wife is just worried that once you do it there is no turning back. She dosen't want to regret anything. So, we too will be watching this thread.

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The Husband:

 

We have talked a lot about our upcoming first time, and several things we have read here and in the books make a lot of sense. We know there is a difference between fantasizing about something and actually doing it. I can get really excited thinking about a man entering my wife, but actually watching it will bring its own emotions, we are sure. I can imagine that there may be a flurry of thoughts when it actually happens, but we want to step back and think of the whole picture.

 

I try to fast-forward a year or so and imagine how we will look back on this. I think it will be fun and we will still be swinging. That is the first possibility. If this happens, we will look back and laugh at how awkward and anxious we were, just like everyone looks back at how they were when they lost their virginity. If we know we are going to look back and laugh at the situation a year from now, that gives me a tool to handle any fleeting jealousy or other negative emotions this coming weekend. How can you get worked up or upset about something that you know will be looked at fondly and humorously later?

 

The other possibility is that we will not be swinging a year from now because we did not enjoy it. If that happens, I think people have to look back without regret. What have you really done? You have not killed anyone, you have not hurt anyone, you have not stolen property, cheated on your taxes, or anything else immoral. You have explored a part of your sexuality and discovered something that lies outside your comfort range, and therefore something you are not likely to try again. But you cannot regret the fact that you have tested your boundaries and therefore discovered your limits.

 

We are going to discuss later some of our thoughts on the mechanics of how we think things will happen. Some are designed to ease the wife's concerns, others are to address some fantasies that I have regarding MFM's. I will think about how to address those issues here and post more tomorrow.

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Your plan sounds very good to me.

 

Having a mini-apartment will make it a bit more intimate and comfortable than if it was just a hotel room.

 

Some things that might help you relax are: Have a few snacks on hand, cheese/crackers, chips/dip, sliced fruit/grapes..soft drinks and/or a bottle of wine, beer or your favorite type of drink...just remember not to drink too much, just enough to relax. Candles are also good, they scent the room and allow a nice glow when the lights are out. Having dinner out will also help you relax...try not to worry about the up-coming play, just enjoy the conversation at dinner.

 

A few things to go over before any playtime: Just because this is the second meeting and you are planning on playing, make sure that everyone understands that at any time a full stop can be called by anyone. I'm assuming that you have let the single man that is joining you know that this is your first time and he should have no problems understanding that if either of you want to back out that it's okay...regardless of how far things have gone. NEVER, NEVER think that just because the clothes have come off that you have to see things through to the end.

 

Remember that you are going into this as a couple. Have eye contact as often as you can...touch each other and make sure that each other are okay with anything that is happening. Laugh....yes it's okay to laugh during sex, :lol: ...nothing relaxes you like laughter. Understand that yes there will be a whole set of different emotions that will come up before, during and after your encounter...it's normal and natural...but remember, ALWAYS talk them though, both the negative and positive ones...keep those lines of communication open...with each other and your play partner.

 

Most importantly...HAVE FUN. A lot of people get into swinging and they get so caught up in the way they want things to go, they forget to have fun with the way that things do go.

 

 

Teresa

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The Husband:

 

We are still waiting for a response from our other M who was out of town over the weekend. Once we hear back an affirmative for the weekend, we will go into the "no more orgasms" mode until the meeting. Nothing breaks down inhibitions like being horny!

 

TNT, those are good suggestions. We are going to communicate well with M so we don't have any misunderstandings. We will let him know where we think this will go, but you are right, we will also make sure everyone understands that anyone can stop things if they are not comfortable. We want to be in this for the long run, and I assume it is very hard to do that if you feel pressured on your first few encounters.

 

Interestingly, the wife is not as anxious about the actual sex part as she is the first kiss with the M. She will be self-conscious about that, and I understand why. I think we both feel that sex is just sex; it is a physical act that feels good and is fun to do. But I think she and I both associate kissing more with affection. Now, we are not saying that sex is not affectionate, but we do, I think, think of sex as more of a physical act and kissing as more of an emotional act. Does that strike a chord with anyone?

 

Anyway, the wife feels more anxious about kissing for the first time in front of me than she does about having sex with someone and me. So here is the plan. At dinner we will have the M and the wife sit together and I will sit across from them. That allows them to get used to being close to one another, and a discreet hand on the leg under the table is possible. After dinner we will go up to the room and sit around some and talk with snacks and some wine or soft drinks or something. When the wife is ready to start being more affectionate with the M, she will suggest that I go out and get some more wine, or something. I will leave so that she can start kissing without being so self-conscious about me being there. After I get back in 15-20 minutes or so, they should be comfortable with each other.

 

All this will be made known to the M beforehand. We would not want him to be unresponsive while I am gone, thinking that I would be upset if things progressed before I got back. That is the whole point of me giving some space, so that things can progress.

 

Once I get back things should be warmed up a bit and I suspect that some clothing will be missing. At that point I will join in and we would move fairly quickly into the bedroom. Things will flow as they will flow, but there will probably be some oral sex on the wife from both of us in turn to get her relaxed. Then the M will probably have sex with her first as I watch. I have had a vision for years (well before the subject was brought up) of my wife taking another man inside of her, so I think this will be one of the highlights of the night. Anyway, that is the first fantasy that I mentioned earlier, that of watching another man enter my wife for the first time (like losing her virginity for the second time).

 

I don't know whether the next fantasy is weird or not, but who cares? As swingers, surely we get some say in deciding what is too weird for our own personal taste. I want my wife to have full sex (foreplay to completion) without me in the room. I may stay out in the living area and watch TV while they are in the bedroom, or I may leave the room altogether and go walk around. Having sex with another man and me together sets her free in one way; she has now broken the bonds and is free to have sex with someone other than me. I have been her only lover so far. I cannot put my finger on exactly why, but I also want her to have sex without me being involved on this night. Perhaps it is the thought of even more freedom for her, or perhaps it is wanting her to know how much I trust her. "You can have sex with this guy without me tonight because I know you will be with me tomorrow." I am not really sure what the deep rationale is, but that is the second fantasy, for her to have sex with him and without me that night. Okay, let me know your thoughts, but be gentle; I feeel that I have exposed myself a little bit by putting that one out there.

 

So now, the rules. There are some that we consider unwritten, but we will make them clear to the M anyway. Always practice safe sex. The wife will have a Today sponge or something just in case the condom breaks; I'm sure there is no bigger damper on swinging than an abortion. I have been neutered, so we don't worry when it is just the two of us. I will be wearing my raincoat that night, though; to go bareback seems unfair to the M.

 

Anyone can stop at any time if they feel uncomfortable. Maybe things continue after a pause and maybe they don't, but everyone understands where we think we will end up, but they also agree that no one has to go there if they feel uncomfortable.

 

No MM action. None of the three of us want to see that, so I don't see that one being a problem.

 

Since my primary fantasy is to see a man enter my wife for the first time, the next rule is that no clothing is removed below the wife's waist until I get back from my "outing". Any kind of above the waist play is okay while I am gone, as well as anything over the clothes below the waist. When I get back, all bets are off, of course.

 

The next rule is no pet names for the M. That is something we will reserve for each other. Again, that gets back to the affection vs. sex dynamic.

 

The final rule is no regrets tomorrow. We went out, we played, we aren't going to feel guilty or dirty. Even if we decide this was the first and last time, it's okay, we won't feel bad about it. Of course, I suspect we will probably feel pretty good about it, anyway.

 

A corollary to the last rule is that if any rules (except the first three) get broken in the heat of the moment, we will live with it and move on. No blame, no guilt, no holding a grudge. The point is to have fun, and if we have so much fun that we forget a non-critical rule, we are not going to beat ourselves up about it.

 

Well, we will keep you informed, and let us know your thoughts.

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Well we just had our very first experience this past weekend (MFM) and are almost identical to you, although we did this to fulfil a fantasy and are not really interested in the 'lifestyle'. We had been talking for years about a MFM involving Double Penetration, but it had remained just a fantasy. Finally we decided to make this happen fully expecting our fantasy to outshine reality. I mean, reality rarely compares to what we can come up with in our minds right?

 

We met what we considered a very optimal candidate after searching on a personals site. This guy was experienced, married and pretty much what we were looking for. We scheduled a dinner meeting and were very happy and as comfortable (as possible) with him.

After the dinner we decided to proceed with the fulfillment of our fantasy.

 

My wife, although very excited about the evening was also extremely nervous. I have been the only person to see her naked for almost 20 years. She wasn't sure if she could relax enough to let someone touch her, let alone have sex with her! I had the idea of her being ready and blindfolded before he came into the room, that way she wouldn't know who was touching her, and she didn't have the awkwardness of watching him undress or undressing in front of him. This worked perfectly, when we first touched her she jerked, but soon relaxed when we started kissing her body. She wasn't quite sure which was him and which was me. The blindfold didn't stay on long, she was able to relax and really enjoy herself.

 

We won't go into details, but suffice it to say the evening far exceeded our wildest expectations. This was quite simply the most incredible night of both our lives, not to mention the best sex we could even imagine (and I have quite a imagination.) The night just could not have gone any better, and the DP (although was rough to start) gave her the best orgasms of her life. The experience was so good our sex life has gone to new heights since then, we are acting like love struck teenagers. Great is an understatement.

 

We really appreciate the help this forum gave us for making our fantasy become a reality and truly wish your experience is just as good as ours.

 

Good luck and happy sex!

 

-Tojo-

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Better half, husband:

 

I'd say you're making too much of a sketching here. A long as you understand that things may end up evolving in a lot of ways that aren't in your current sketch, everithing should be fine. Just don't put too much expectations in your sketch.

 

Regarding to your second fantasy, leaving your wyfe alone with the guy, IMHO this could be too bold for a first experience. At least, be in the next room with the door open as to hear what's going on there. Your wyfe may feel unexpected things while being with another guy for the first time, and I think it's important for her to know you're there if she needs you (besides, being you there will ensure this guy will follow the rules and won't take adventage of your wyfe, after all, you doesn't know him so well as to lean on him the responsability for your success as a couple in the lifestyle).

 

For sure you have many, many fantasies... you don't have to bring them all to the reality the very first time. Go one step at a time.

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Well, we threw our very precise "first time plan" out the window during a recent trip to Tampa. You know what they say about the best laid plans. Fate smiled upon us and we offically met a great couple after getting to know each other on this site. I don't want to go into too much detail at this time because I am too rushed to do it justice. Lets just say that the ice was broken and I have now removed the word 'never' from our profile in the section that asks how long you have been it the livestyle. :lol: This has all only emphasized to me the importance of meeting the right people, that you really click with, and approach it as fun. No more cold blooded "excessive" planning for us........

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How awesome for you Better Half! I can only imagine that it was a lucky couple that got the chance to help you loosen up on the reins a bit!

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      After a few minutes, she started to make a soft-pitched whimpering noise. I continued to thrust hard into her. Only slightly withdrawing, then slamming back into her, making her whole body jerk, her breasts jolting about with each impact. Her whining noise was getting a bit higher and louder, and then it hit. She suddenly sucked in a big breath of air, her head picked up off the bed, a long guttural moan that ended on a high note. “Aarrggeeeee!” Then, her back arched as she slammed her head back, followed by rapid breathing and intermittent uncontrolled giggling. I felt her contraction, an intense gripping of my cock as she climaxed.
       
      I slowed to a slow, deliberate, full-stroke penetration. I knew I was very close. I declared, “I’m going to cum!” and pulled out of Judy and stepped back. Judy slinked off the bed to her knees on the floor. I was pumping my cock by hand. Judy pushed it aside and started to rapidly jerk my cock by hand. “Cum for me, come on, cum” Judy repeated this a few times as the build-up reached its peak. I moaned low and loud. The first volley went across her open mouth and right cheek. The next, she aimed me directly into her mouth. Third and forth, under her chin and neck, the remaining small spurts and drops landed scattered over her breasts. “Wow, oh my god!” Judy squealed excitedly.
       
      Darrell was beside himself with excitement. Other than the pictures and videos they made themselves, this was the first video allowed with someone other than Darrell. He said, “This is crazy sexy, hot as hell”! The clock in the bedroom indicated we had been at this for about 90 minutes. A first for all of us. But to be fair, a hell of a lot of manual and oral play, stop and start, prolonged it all. Judy agreed, reached over, and pulled Darrell to her. She quickly pulled down his sweatpants and promptly took his cock in her mouth. I picked up their video camera and started videoing the two of them.
       
      Judy had Darrell hard in just a few seconds. She made an extra effort to lavish his cock with her mouth, bobbing her head up and down and then swallowing him whole.
       
      She then pulled him down on top of her. He quickly slipped inside her and started hammering away with Judy, encouraging him along, “Take me baby, fill me up!”
       
      From my view, I had a clear shot of him pumping his cock in and out of her. With her telling him to take her hard, cum for her, and watching the two of us for the past hour and a half, he had no hope of lasting very long. He started groaning, Judy telling him to fill her. He let out a bellow and started cumming inside her. I caught the whole thing on video. His pumping and cumming. His cum leaking around his cock out of her. And when he pulled out, the cum leaked out of her. When things calmed down, he viewed the video and couldn’t believe how hard he came and how much he gave her. Judy chimed in, “And you said you didn’t have anymore, holding out on me.”
       
      We didn’t get dressed. We went into the kitchen and talked about what had just happened and past swinging adventures. About an hour later, Judy walked over to me and asked if I could go again. I looked at Darrell, and he quickly shook his head yes. “If you can, that would be awesome”. I agreed.
       
      We walked back to the bedroom and climbed up on the bed. We kissed and fondled each other a little bit. I then positioned myself on my left side and maneuvered Judy on her back with her legs up and over my hip. I easily slipped my semi-soft cock inside her. She was very warm and wet from Darrell. My hands were free to caress and squeeze her breasts. Darrell switched between videoing and kissing Judy. He occasionally played and sucked on her breasts. I slowly pumped a little into Judy. After a few moments, she exclaimed, “I can feel you growing inside me,” and giggled in amazement.
       
      Once I was fully hard I changed position to a supporting missionary. Using my knees to keep Judy’s legs open and my arms keeping me up to watch and nibble on her breasts. I started slow, long thrusts and built up to harder, faster, full-length thrusts. In about fifteen minutes, I was pulling out and dribbling cum on her tummy. Judy sat up and slid down, taking me into her mouth, making an effort to suck and lick me clean.
       
      It was almost noon, and I had to run to get home on time. We promised each other we would get together soon, all four of us. And that we did. They joined our group and played once or twice a month at our parties. We also traveled and shared very often for 4 - 5 years. Then, they moved to New Mexico for Darrell’s work.
    • By C3po
      This all started around forty years ago when my wife Beth and I had dated for a few years then married. It wasn't long after we married that I introduced her to her first big realistic porn star dildo.  When she first saw it she laughed and said, "That'll never fit in my pussy, are you nuts?!" But she agreed to trying and found not only did it fit but she really enjoyed it. She was amazed by how much she enjoyed it.  So much so that she requested I use it on her quite a lot. She also discovered she enjoyed big cock porn, she was fascinated by it. Soon was I combining using a huge dildo on her at the same time she watched big cock porn, this led her to experience huge orgasms. She couldn't get enough. She was finally exploring her sexuality and expanding her outlook on sexual pleasure.
       
      One night after some really hot sex I  questioned her if she ever fantasized about fucking other men, especially well-hung men. She responded that of course she did, stated that most women had this fantasy, and she believed it was quite common. So I pursued it further and asked her if she wanted to try another man's cock and how much did she really desire to do it? She said that it sounded exciting and fun but she would never do anything to endanger our marriage. I said,  "What if I told you that I wanted to watch you have sex with another man, one that had a really big cock. Would you then consider it?" She laughed and said she'd be game if it was something I was serious about and really wanted her to do. She said, "Come on, let's be real. It's exciting and fun to imagine it, but to really do it? Please! That's a major game changer."
       
      So I said, "I'm very serious. I've watched the way you enjoy the dildos especially while watching big cock videos. It turns me on big time seeing how excited you get and how many times you climax from doing these two things at the same time. I want to watch you do it for real. No BS, just watching you getting slammed by a big cock would be a huge turn-on for me. So what do you really think now that you know that I'm serious and am giving you this opportunity?"
       
      I could see her giving it some serious thought, she didn't get mad or upset at me or the idea, no resistance whatsoever to my request.  The more she considered the idea the more it appeared to me that she was very intrigued with the idea and it excited her.
       
      She started asking all kinds of questions, like wouldn't I be jealous, or think the worst of her, or what if she really enjoyed it and wanted more or didn't feel comfortable screwing another man, then what? Were there any rules and what were the consequences? Was I absolutely sure that I really wanted her to do this, because once done there was no going back!
       
      After she finished asking everything she had concerns about I answered all her questions and we talked about the rules/boundaries we would have in place to keep it fun and exciting without any reservations or guilt. This was to make sure she fully understood my concerns and alleviate all of hers as well. It seemed she came to a decision at which point she smiled and enthusiastically said yes, she'd do it! Did I have someone special in mind she wondered? She said she had to agree to my choices for her sexual escapades or it wasn't gonna happen.
       
       I then informed her I was thinking of Bruce. Beth squealed with glee, she admitted she has had fantasies about Bruce for some time now and I couldn't have picked a better choice for her first time. She would absolutely love to fuck Bruce. She said she was getting wet thinking about sex with him.
       
      A few days later I met up with Bruce for an after work drink. As we enjoyed several drinks we talked a lot. Soon I steered the conversation towards my wife Beth. I asked  Bruce to be honest and tell me what he thought about Beth. He admitted he thought Beth was smokin' hot. She had a killer body and was just gorgeous, always was friendly, and liked flirting with him when they were together. I asked him if he' ever had the chance would he consider having sex with her? He looked a bit concerned by my question but answered yes, he wouldn't hesitate to take advantage of such an opportunity. So I told him that Beth really wanted to have sex with him, and that I was okay with them hooking up. I explained that was my kink watching her get fucked by other men, it really turned me on. Bruce considered it for several minutes then said okay sure, he'd love to fuck Beth. Just give him the details when we're ready to make it happen.
       
      When I got home I told Beth about my conversation with Bruce and what he said. She looked startled and said she couldn't believe I did that. So I asked her if what I did was so wrong and did she still want to go through with it? She excitedly said Oh hell yes she did, and no I wasn't wrong! So we made plans and set a date for Beth's first cock. 
       
      The night arrived finding Beth both excited and hot with anticipation. She was dressed to kill showing off her sexy body wearing no underwear. When Bruce knocked on the door I answered it and escorted him into our house. Beth entered the living room and gave Bruce a big hug pressing her chest and pelvis into him and then kissed him on the lips. Bruce kissed her back and he sat down pulling her on to his lap. Nether one of them wasted any time, tongues going everywhere, hands exploring and groping each other, clothes coming off. Soon they were both naked and Beth got a pleasant surprise, Bruce was very well hung. She giggled with delight.
       
      Beth took Bruce's hand and led him to our bed. She pushed him down on the bed and went to work on Bruce's big cock giving him an enthusiastic blow job. After a while Bruce flipped Beth on her back and went to work on her pussy and clit. Beth orgasmed in minutes, fully enjoying Bruce's skilled tongue. I stood in the background watching the show.
       
      Soon Bruce moved into position between Beth's legs. As he rubbed his cock against Beth's open pussy and clit she responded with loud moans and started pressing her pussy against Bruce's cock. As he slid his huge cock into Beth's pussy she had a big climax. As he went deeper he increased his speed and Beth climaxed again. She was enthralled with his big cock pumping her pussy, she was moving her hips and swearing, telling him his cock felt so good. She looked over at me and said she loved how good his big cock felt inside her. She told Bruce to stretch her pussy good, to fuck her hard. She was in sexual ecstasy, a place she'd never been before. Her facial expressions showed pure bliss and the sounds she was making were hot as hell. I never seen her so turned on, she must of had a dozen orgasms, many of which were huge.
       
      They fucked each other hard for a good twenty minutes then Bruce erupted into Beth's pussy, filling her with his cum. This gave Beth another climax. Afterwards he laid on Beth for a minute then rolled off her. He'd destroyed her pussy, it gaped open with his cum dripping out of her. They kissed and he got up to dress while Beth laid there spent. She looked at me and smiled big time. She said, "Your turn!", so I took sloppy seconds and enjoyed it beyond belief. Bruce watched us have sex then commented that watching real sex was so much hotter than any porno ever could be. He understood my enjoyment of watching my wife fuck other men. He said he'd like to do it again and Beth was all for it. So they made plans to hook up again. Then Bruce left.
       
      Beth and I talked about how well things went, and how she wasn't prepared for how much she enjoyed his big cock. It was mind boggling! She thanked me profusely for asking her to do this, the opportunity to experience such awesome sex. She says she'll never be the same again and is looking forward to more big cock sex. So our new lifestyle began.
    • By Falcon88
      My wife and I have been together for almost 25 years. Through out the years sex has been fantastic. No complaints on either side. We are very faithful and never cheated on each other.
       
      Then one day two years ago we were having a few drinks and watching porn. We watch all kinds of porn. That night we were watching some really good gangbangs. Curiously, I turn to my wife and asked her if she ever thought about swinging and group sex. If it ever crossed her mind. Surprisingly, she looked at me and said she’s been thinking about it for while. So we ended up talking about swinging and group sex for hours. We got online and read stories on experiences about swinging and group sex. The pros and cons. It turned me on taking about it but at the same time I got a crazy feeling in my stomach. Nerves I guess.
       
      So to make a very long story short we ended up having an open marriage and took up swinging. We both decided to have (safe) sex with other people until we felt comfortable on having our first group sex. All this took very long planning and preparing, especially mentally.
       
      Finally last November we planned out her first group sex. We carefully selected three familiar friends to join in the fun. Of course they decided to do it and agreed on our rules.
       
      So, it finally happened that November night. I really enjoyed watching my wife get screwed by more than one man. She had the time of her life. She had multiple orgasms one after another. The crazy feeling never left my stomach but I really enjoyed watching though. After the guys left we kicked back and talked about our experience. Then we go back about agreeing on what we’re doing and never to do it without the other knowing. We keep an oath of trust. Every time we have a date with someone we let each other know. It’s always planned out days in advance so it will never interfere with our personal lives. We have a great understanding.
       
      Since last November she’s been involved in several group sex averaging 3-4 guys each time. Of course I joined in most of the time. Lots of lube is needed. But now she wants to go a little further. She wants to do a gangbang of 6-8 guys. Seriously.
       
      Lately she’s been playing with large toys to get her vagina ready. She wants to try double-vaginal penetration. I’ve been preparing her by inserting a dildo in her while I’m inside. Very carefully with lots of lube. We practice every time we have sex. She even carefully inserts a large thick toy in her vagina while watching a movie and keeps it in there. Yes, our sexual curiosities has increased tremendously. My wife wants to explore even more and I’m all in.
       
      Well the day we both have been looking forward too occurred this past weekend. We managed to round up 7 guys for an all night gangbang. It involved a lot of planning and phone calls. We’ve noticed that guys will be all in at first then drop out later. But eventually we got things going. That night when everyone arrived she was kinda nervous but excited to have that many cocks at once. Most of all, she finally had double penetration in her vagina from two guys for the first time. The strange thing I seemed more nervous than her. Lol But she absolutely enjoyed it as much as I enjoyed watching her. She came hard many times. She doesn’t like anal so that wasn’t attempted.
       
      So after joining in all the fun and after almost two hours of great sex we had the grand finale. My sexy wife knelt down and we all gave her an awesome bukkake. Her face was drenched with cum. It was one heck of a hot night. After everyone left we took a long shower and stayed up almost all night talking about it. We were both so turned on that we were already making plans for the next one. But we are gonna take a break for about three weeks. It’s just going to be me and her for now.
       
      Yesterday she mentioned about having a messy cum sex in the near future after watching a great creampie movie. I was like, a messy cum sex? She asked me what I would think about her having a messy gooey bukkake and creampie night. Having about 4 guys cum all over her face while 4 guys cum inside her. Then rubbing the cum all over her breasts. Man, just listening to her drove me crazy. My wife was willing to be explosive. But that would take lots of planning because we are very cautious. My wife cannot get pregnant anymore so that’s really something we don’t have to worry about. It’s about the unprotected sex. We do know many cool friends well enough that we can trust but still we must remain careful. Yet, I’m sure it’s gonna happen very soon.
       
      I’ve been asked if we have taken it too far. If there’s actually any sign of regrets. Some close friends wonder about my wife wanting too much now. Our answer is no because we enjoy it and have a deep understanding and trust. We are responsible adults and are having fun. We first talk about what we’re going to do and have to both agree 100%. Any sign of doubt from either side we will not do it. We are friends with our sex partners but no feelings are involved or ever shared. We have proven that to ourselves already.
    • By SwingersBoard
      My story is about my ex-wife and myself and one of the adventures including my best friend. She was a quiet woman, but the quiet ones can be very wild. We had our first threesome shortly after our first child was born.
       
      We had been partying and all of us were feeling pretty good. Christen and I had a few encounters with my friend Jeff. On this particular night, she came up to me and kissed me while I was looking in the fridge. Some of our guests were laughing and joking in the other room. I gave her that glance that she knew I was asking if she wanted to have a smaller, more private party. She shook her head yes, sucked my tongue into her mouth, and went back into the other room. The party started winding down another hour or so later, and as the last of the guest were leaving my wife went upstairs. Just Jeff and I remained downstairs. I asked if he was ready for another party and he was. He always was with her. She isn't overly pretty or have that model body, but she could certainly fuck good. We went upstairs and found her in the bedroom.
       
      We both went over, me stripping off my clothes while Jeff just climbed onto the bed. My wife then rolled towards him and they started kissing. I just sat on the edge of the bed watching them, stroking my dick. I was so hard. I watched her unzip his pants and pull them down with his help. Once free of his pants the shirt came off. He laid on his side and she went down and took his cock into her mouth. She sucked the head nice and slow, running her tongue all over it. I heard him moan and then watched as he reached into her panties he started rubbing her clit. My cock was hard than granite at this point. I was stroking myself pretty good by this point, but was waiting for more action before I joined in. I saw her wrap her hand around his cock and pump it while she sucked him in over and over again. I reached over and pulled her panties down her legs and off. She wasn't wearing a bra so when I helped her out of her shirt, her breasts were free for the taking.
       
      They moved into the center of the bed, with him on his back. She again sucked his cock a few more times and then started to position herself above him. Straddling his body she reached down and grabbed his hard cock and aimed it at her pussy. I moved around the bed and watched as she lowered herself onto his pole. Slowly the head disappeared and inch by inch she took him until he was in balls deep. She ground on him for a few minutes, slowly gaining speed. My cock was ready to burst. I almost lose my mind when I see her fucking him on top. She really loves to be in control too. He was sucking her breasts and she was moaning really loud. She knows that I love to do her doggy style, but I thought that she had too much on her mind to stop in the middle of this and let me take her.
       
      To my surprise, she pulled herself off and started sucking him again between his spread legs. She rarely will suck any dick after she has ridden it for a while since she doesn't like the taste of her pussy, but she was sucking again with a passion. Her ass was sticking high in the air, with her back arched. I saw this as my invitation, and crawled on my knees up behind her, he with one stroke I was in the wettest, loosest pussy I have been in. I love the feel of her pussy after someone else has been in it for a while. I usually cum within a few minutes, but I guess my cock was extra hard from watching for so long. Also, I hadn't expected her to ride him so quickly which added to me being turned on so much. I was fucking her with long, hard, deep strokes. Fucking with a power that only sharing her with another man can give me. After a mind blowing 15 minutes, she slammed back at me real hard and I started cumming inside of her. I have to keep pumping until my orgasm is finished.
       
      I rolled over and she rolled off of him and in between us on the bed. We all fell asleep, but I was awaken to the bed moving. She was again riding his cock, but she was lying down flat on him. I started to jerk off at the sight of what I was witnessing. I heard her start to moan and soon she was cumming. She rode him a few more minutes until he too had finished letting loose another load of sperm in my wife. I came shortly afterwards all over my stomach. When we awoke in the morning, everyone had those morning after thoughts of what we had done. I left to take a shower and when I came back I noticed she was again blowing him through the crack in the door. I just watched as she sucked him for 20 minutes or so. Eventually, he groaned and filled her mouth with cum. She got off the bed heading to the bathroom I guess to spit the load in the sink. But as she went by she said I darling, kissed me and continued on her way. I couldn't believe she actually swallowed his load. Something she never had done with me.
       
      The next night I had to work and the three of us got it on just an hour before I was leaving. When I left I had cum and showered quickly. Leaving Jeff and my wife to fuck the rest of the night away. The next morning when he came to work we passed each other smiling in the hallway. I went home that morning to a very tired wife. She told me she loved getting fucked by other men.
       
      We divorced about six years later, but I have many fond memories of her sucking and fucking other men. I used to let her go out to get fucked by someone she had met in a bar. But, that is another story. I wish my current fiance would let another man fuck her, but she so far, isn't into it and I'm not pushing. These stories fill my need to have MFM threesomes. There is nothing like watching your woman with another man.
    • By AdamGunn2
      It was a fairly typical night at D.J.s Island, an early autumn evening. Mary and I hadn’t set anything up in advance, we’d decided to go almost at the last moment. From the second we entered the door our radar was beaming across the club, searching for a couple that might be searching for what we were also interested in - an enjoyable tryst.
       
      Mary took a few minutes to change into what she called a ‘trolling outfit.’ As I remember, that night it was a black babydoll with a loose bodice, thong, low heels. Many men admired her legs as I checked the forty or so women, many as scantily clad as my wife. None of our regular playmates seemed to be in attendance that evening, but we had our customs, we weren’t concerned. Perhaps an hour and a half later, I sat at a table next to the dance floor, Mary was on her feet, on the parquet, moving her body, seeing if anyone would move in. A slow sequence of men approached her, danced with her. Some would take liberties such as moving their hands under her garment, feeling the small of her back, perhaps place their palm on the roundness of her ass.
       
      I’d seen this many times before, I waited for one of two reactions.
       
      The first was that she’d spin away from the man; it signified she wasn’t interested in what he had to offer.
       
      The second was that she’d get closer, I’d watch her whisper in his ear. I knew the question, “Where’s your wife?” Some of them would shake their heads, they were attending as one of the few single men the club allowed, and when they received Mary’s response, they’d move away - that’s not what we were looking for at the moment.
       
      But the man might indicate where his wife was dancing a few feet away. When this kind of thing happened, Mary would glance to me and give our special signal - she’d put one hand on the back of her head, one on her stomach. When I got the cue, I’d come out, we’d dance as a foursome.
       
      As I approached, a man grasped the elbow of a tall attractive lady who was more modestly dressed, at least for the club. There was no conversation on the dance floor, the heavy volume of music and the thumping of the bass wouldn’t allow for speech. But I could tell the woman was interested in me, the four of us paired off and I often found myself facing this vixen. It was obvious they were as interested in us as I was in them, I could tell by the way Mary was rubbing against the man that she felt the same.
       
      After a couple of songs, Mary led the way off the floor, holding his hand, leading us off into a corner away from the speakers. As we sat, the man said, “I’m Ed, this is my wife, Marilyn.”
       
      Marilyn and I softly shook hands, I believe she raised the hem of her skirt to give me a view of her upper thighs. Ed had no problem seeing Mary’s legs, or where they met - she was sitting so that the babydoll was gathered to her side, leaning forward so her globes were exposed to his view.
       
      “Do you come here often?” Ed asked.
       
      “Every few weeks,” I responded, “you?”
       
      “This is our first time here.” Mary gave him a look that asked for further info. “We’re just starting this,” he admitted.
       
      Marilyn picked it up. “We’ve only had one time with a couple of friends. We liked it, heard about this place, decided to see if we could get into more trouble.”
       
      “Trouble’s our middle name,” I joked.
       
      Our conversation continued, where do you live, what movies have you seen lately, etc. It was a screen, of course, we were all calculating if the four of us would be pleasurable bedmates. I paid my attention to Marilyn, my wife had told me numerous times not to worry about her, she can take care of herself. My hand found Marilyn’s knee, she smiled at me, encouraged me to reach a tad higher. We bent towards each other, our mouths met.
       
      Marilyn opened her lips to me, the kiss was ardent, her mouth moist. She licked at my upper lip, her hand fondled the back of my neck. Our tongues clashed, promising cupidity, mimicking what I presumed our bodies might be doing in a few scant moments.
       
      We broke for a moment, Marilyn invited, “Would you guys want to go to one of the rooms?”
       
      I, of course, was all for it, but then I heard Mary. “Uh, not right now. But thanks.”
       
      We’ve always had the guideline that if one person doesn’t want to do something, she speaks for both of us. Regretfully, I pecked at Marilyn’s lips a last time, we stood, went separate ways.
       
      “You’re not upset, are you?” Mary asked me.
       
      “Of course not, not at all. You’re not in the mood?”
       
      “Oh, I’m in the mood all right, just not with Ed.”
       
      “Something wrong with him?” I asked.
       
      “I tried to get him interested,” Mary revealed, “but his kiss was a little cold, indifferent. I put my hand on his leg, he was too busy watching you and Marilyn, he never responded. My guess is that if we went into a room, he’d be watching you two, I’m not even sure he’d get hard for me.” It was a reasonable thought, it had happened to us a couple times before. “Hope you don’t mind, bet she’d have been a firecracker.”
       
      “Maybe. But you’re a firecracker too.”
       
      We headed back to the dance floor, in search of another couple.
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