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We're headed to St Maartin for vacation tomorrow and we were debating whether or not all naturalists were exhibitionists and if either were necessarily swingers...curious to have input. We'll be eyeballing people on the nude beaches and may wonder if they're swingers or not...

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Most naturalists and nudists tend to think swingers are a low form of life. (From what we have experienced)

 

Many Exhibitionists claim to be in the Swinging Lifestyle because they are Exhibitionists but they don't have sex with other people.

 

Either can be a Swinger yet either are not necessarily Swingers. It always depends on the people, not the title they give their self.

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I would agree, in fact, I would doubt if a very significant percentage of naturalists are swingers.

 

It's kind of like how some swingers that are nudists can't understand why all swingers aren't nudists. I know hundreds of swingers and less than a dozen of them are nudists.

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First, just because someone is a nudist (which is how I think you are using "naturalist") doesn't mean they are an exhibitionist, they may just like to be nude. An exhibitionist likes to expose themselves to other people, so it's not because they like the feeling of being nude, but because they like to show themselves to others for a thrill.

 

So the short answer is:

 

Some nudists are exhibitionists, some exhibitionists are nudists. Some nudists are swingers, some exhibitionists are swingers. Some nudist/exhibitionists are swingers, and some exhibitionist/nudists are swingers. And some aren't. :D

 

Mr. WS

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I have to agree with VegasLee and WesterSwing. We've been nudists for years. We're not exhibitionists but DO enjoy being nekkid with other nudists. It's fun and natural for us. We don't look down at swingers because we swing on occasion but we're not lifestylers per se. We've visited several nude resorts and have met several nudist/swingers mostly by happenstance just through the course of conversation and many are members of SLS and/or AFF.

 

Personally, I have nothing to exhibit. I've been described as being 10 tons of dynamite with a 2 inch fuse---LOL--- just kidding.

 

BTW-- A naturalist hunts bear--A naturist hunts bare.

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We are the oddballs, I guess. We're nudists, exhibitionists, and swingers.

 

We were first nudist-difficult to find the swingers in the group, but there were a few. Usually talking about Desire or Hedo got the ball rolling, and we could determine if they were swingers.

 

You just have to be gutsy and ask, Do you swing? Or order a Lifestyle t-shirt to use as a coverup.

 

Have fun! You're going to one of the most beautiful places in the world.

 

Mrs. D

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We're headed to St Maartin for vacation tomorrow...

 

...We'll be eyeballing people on the nude beaches and may wonder if they're swingers or not...

Comments please....

 

Some nude resorts are just nude or naturist resorts, and many of them are family-oriented. From what I've read, "real" nudists hate being potentially associated with swinging.

 

I think that nudists are often associated with swinging because there are clothing-optional, adult-oriented (i.e. swing) resorts and campgrounds. These are a combo of nudism and swinging, but they're very different from those non-sex oriented, family-oriented nude resorts.

 

As for people just sunbathing on the beaches while on vacation in the Carribean, and whether they're swingers or not, I wouldn't equate the two.

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Our family are nudists when we go to the Carribean or our vacation home, and yet my husband & I sex with other couples.

 

Some are and some are not ... no big deal.

 

Jamie

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I think resorts that offer a nude beach are good place to find swingers and exhibitionists. It's been our favorite way to swing, meet people on the nude beach, pick out potential swap partners and make an offer to them. We have met wonderful people on the nude beach with similar interests and much better luck than classifieds. Makes one hell of a vacation!

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