CantonCouple

Although we haven't yet had a swinging experience, what started our whole investigation of the lifestyle was my confession to her that I am very much turned on by the image of her doing another guy. In the months since then we have had plenty of discussion about fantasies and scenarios, threesomes and foursomes, and bi-curiosity. But in agreement with some of the posts on this thread, I find the idea of seeing and hearing Mrs. CC giving and getting the pleasure she enjoys to be highly, highly erotic!

I had recently moved to town and didn't know anyone except my coworkers. One Saturday night I decided to go by myself to sit at a local bar-n-grill for food, beer, and the NCAA basketball tournament. She was my waitress, and she was very pleasant and very adorable. Great ass. I came back the next night, but she wasn't working. I ended up closing the bar with the kitchen manager, to whom I mentioned the cool waitress the night before. He put in a good word for me, and the next time I was there she and I had a beer or two after her shift. We've been together going on nine years now.

Here are two questions, the first for the guys, the second for everyone. I wondered how many times do you guys generally get off during a swinging encounter - Once? Twice? Even more? Also, how long do your swinging encounters usually last - A few hours? An evening? An entire weekend? Just curious.

Kissing? Nah, never crossed my mind. Cuddling and rubbing bodies isn't exactly what I had in mind either. Besides, after reading lauragirl's question, my wife said, "Eeewww...I don't want to see that!" I guess I'm a somewhat typical man - it's all about the dick, is there any other part of the male body?

We have talked about it a few times, and my fantasies don't involve me doing and her watching, but always the two of us doing it together with her taking the lead. I look at it this way: 1. I would suck my own if I could 2. I love to watch her suck mine, it sure looks like a lot of fun 3. I am quite comfortable with "the nectar of my manhood":p 4. I am turned on by the idea of sharing in my wife's fun with another man We posed the hypothetical situation to each other - If we were to ever do only one threesome, would you want another man or another woman? I said another man, because if I only had one chance I'd want to know what it felt like to stroke and suck a cock. I already know what pussy's like. (Plus I'd love to watch my wife be the beautiful sexual creature she is, and enjoy it with her.)

Ditto. I tried it when I was younger, but was never able to do it. Ah hell, I tried it last week and still can't do it. And I also have had that dream on a few occasions. And like Harold and Anne, we have discussed the same fantasies. She is not turned off to the idea, but questions whether I would ever do it.

I would like to say Thank You for responses to my question. I am still not sure if this is something I would like to do. However your advice has made me feel a lot more comfortable. I am also exercising and eating better as I do want to be HWP before I would do this. Once again Thank You!

Mrs.CC asks - Although swinging is an erotic fantasy, When fantasy becomes reality does it change your whole reality and who you are or is it just play? I suppose it is just a mind set that you have to keep for yourself. I am just wondering to what degree it changed you, and your relationship with the person you have pledged your faith love and life to. We have just started thinking about this and, I would be very sad if something were to change to the love and respect I have for him.