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Jack&Jill

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  1. We have had or currently have profiles on AFF, SLS, LL, and SDC. While we have had only two experiences to date, both of those have been with couples met through AFF. Lifestyle Lounge seems pretty good as well, but we haven't been as pleased with SLS as others on the board seem to be. There are fakes and experimenters on AFF to be sure, but I think that's equally true with the other sites. Since our experience has been only with couples, I can't comment on single men, but they seem to be somewhat like cockroaches in their ability to thrive in any environment and shouldn't be tough to find. We have certainly been approached by them on all of the sites mentioned above, and we aren't even looking for them.
  2. JeepGurly, Let me toss in my support. Jill and I were also high school sweethearts as well as each other's firsts. We've had only one experience with a couple we met online (fantastic, btw). We attended a club with that couple, however, and found it to be a somewhat less than erotic experience. Neither of us are squeamish, nor do we feel the need to be wined and dined before hitting the hay with a couple, and we loved the open sensuality of the place, but we too felt uncomfortable with the crassness and stupidity of SOME of the people there. I'm 32, and she's a young 29. We're pretty attractive, in very good shape, and are well educated. A man who was at least 60 with an ample gut groped my wife's ass and winked at her as she was standing at the bar. Did he think he was seducing her? That she'd be turned on by him? My point is that a simple hello would go a long way: I'm Jack. You are beautiful. That's a lovely dress. What do you do? Basic human stuff. That's a much faster way into our pants than a cheesy come-on line (which they would no doubt spell C-U-M for the heightened erotic effect) or an approach that lacks intelligence or grace or charm. I don't mind, "You're a sexy couple. We've had our eye on you all night." But the liberality of the atmosphere (which we love) also opens the door for idiocy, just the way that the anonymity of the websites allows people to abrubtly stop responding to emails and disappear without so much as a goodbye or a courtesy "No longer interested." I think JeepGurly is saying that it's hard to find sensitive and intelligent souls out there, and I agree. I'm sensing that selectiveness and sensitivity are being construed here as prudishness or a misunderstanding of the Lifestyle. I disagree.
  3. Thanks for all your responses. Just curious. I am curcumcized, btw, and have, at least as far as I remember, always been slightly curved downward and to the left (I've read somewhere that it can also be caused by early trauma to the penis shaft itself). My wife and I have never had any real difficulty with it except, on occasion, with doggie style, but we can usually modify the position with no problem, and she seems to think that in other positions the curvature intensifies her experience. My wife is very shallow, something about which her gynecologist often remarks, and this may play a role in the difficulty with doggie. Until we try out another couple, I suppose there's really no way to know, is there?
  4. Another post on the board (I'd link if I had computer skills) brought up the subject of curved penises. Just curious, as a man who is slightly linearly challenged himself, what is the general feeling from the females on this? How curved is too curved? Are some curvatures more or less desireable or aesthetically pleasing than others? Or is it all about practicality? As a related question (one relevant to the post mentioned above), is one obligated to inform potential swing partners of this? Or is one obligated only in cases of dramatic curvatures that would limit possible positions, etc? Mine has never been a hindrance and isn't very severe, though I confess that I'm a little self-concious about it, particularly since getting involved in swinging. Any thoughts on or experience with this sort of thing that you can share?
  5. Just curious, as a man who is slightly linearly challenged, what is the general feeling from the females in this regard? Obviously, there were other factors involved in the situation under discussion, not least of which is dishonesty, but how curved is too curved? We've never had any real difficulties, though I am slightly above average in length, and my wife is very petite and shallow. Doggy style is a bit tricky for us, though, having never been with anyone else (yet), we aren't sure if it's one of us or simply a combination of the two. Anyway, this might be a better topic for another thread, but I am curious about it. Any thoughts?
  6. We're still newbies (just posted about our first experience in fact), and after talking about it in stages for almost three years, we decided that we had arrived at the point where we were willing to allow ourselves a mistake (if that's what it turned out to be) and that we were going into it together and would be equally responsible for the consequences to our relationship. Good thing too because the consequences turned out to be marvelous. But the key moment for us was reaching that point of acceptance and, if necessary, forgiveness. We've been glowing ever since. We had a brilliant marriage before, but we're really proud of ourselves for discovering this new level of intimacy and tolerance, this trust in the integrity of our marriage to weather a potential mistake. I'm not sure that kind of thinking works for everyone, but for us it was magic.
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