crazy4u

So, last week we went out with our friend and had a blast, no sex though, but lots of flirting, touching and kissing. I think it was a good outing just to be sure everyone is on the same page...and we are!!! We are meeting up again in a few weeks and this time no holding back. I'm so excited. Anyways, just an update.

Thanks for the advice, we have invited him out this saturday night coming, he is suppose to get back to us later this week so I guess we will see if he comes along. I think this weekend will be a good indication as to whether he is truly interested, acutally I know he is interested, but can he get over the friends issue...we'll see if he calls later this week...if he does great but if he doesn't then its not meant to be, the friendship is more important. He might just find this too strange, which is cool. I'll keep you posted!!!

Thanks for the advice...we are talking and communicating, as a group. I have really made that clear to him that any questions or feelings he has to let us know, its the best way for this to work or atleast if the sex doesn't work the friendship still will, and he is expressing his feelings to me so that is great. But as you can all imagine...I can't wait!!!!! I will be patient though, the anticipation is great.

My husband and I are looking forward to experience my first MMF encounter, but I am not sure we have gone about it the right way. We went back and forth on whether we wanted a single guy that we met on the internet or a friend. We thought we would be more comfortable with the friend so we approached a friend who has a great attitude towards this stuff. He was really surprised when we talked about it with him and after talking, talking and thinking and some more talking, we all agreed we would take it slow, since our friendship is important to all of us. Anyways two weeks ago, we went for dinner with him and then some dancing and he and I started to kiss, it was great and he said he was really comfortable. We later all came back to our house and with keeping with taking it slow, we keeped it very light, basically just some kissing. He says he wants to get together again maybe next week but again taking it slow, I don't want to feel like I am pushing myself on him, but I really want this to happen, I want to experience this encounter and now that the carrot has been dangled, the excitment is even more intense. I totally understand his feelings, he is been totally respectful, but I how do I make him understand that is all good, to relax and enjoy? Or did we make the mistake of going to a friend and not a stranger? Anyways, any advice or comments would be appreciated?

We have been to a few house parties in the past and a new couple has invited us over next week for an evening of hot tubbing and whatever. My question is this, how do you start the actual act? This might sound funny but I find the hardest part is getting things started in a private house setting (with only 2 couples). We aren't into ice breaker games but does anyone have a few suggestions? You ended up talking for hours waiting for the first move to be made...help.