sillynickname

Once in a blue moon .. but for me most of the time no I don't orgasm . Don't get me wrong , oral feels good.. But no orgasm

We recently started getting involved with the swing lifestyle. Well I should say I did, my wife was in the lifestyle before we were married. Some FFM and FF.. Anyway we post our profile on SLS and get a response I start talking to the female half of the couple and thing seem to be going along just fine. Well we exchange pictures and the next thing I know the female is talking and e-mailing my wife, talking up what her and the hubby is going /wanting to do with her. Not with us as a couple and what seem to make matters worse is my wife is acting like there is nothing wrong here. I said she could play with other women on here own. I have no problem with that, but I voice concern that I think they would like a FMF with me out of the picture. So last night she receives another e-mail describing how the Misses is going to get my wife so wet and the hubby is going to do her with his 9 inches. I was asking her don’t you see anything wrong here as I’m not comfortable with this. Seem like I’m out of the picture. She says well the other couples wife mentioned you in the last e mail … something to the effect we could put a show on for the husbands. I reacted inappropriately something like O lucky me. Well my wife proceeds to go into a tirade saying this is not worth it, we should forget the whole thing, I’m over reacting, what do I expect etc. I would like her to have a friend and all, just if there is a male involved I think it should be as a couple. I was taken by surprise by my wife, I don’t see anything wrong here attitude. With the comment of you’re just not ready for this yet. Now the whole subject is taboo and seems that we are both left with hard feeling. I was wondering if I did overreact, maybe we should just give it up. I still want to make friends with benefits just I want to be one of the friends.