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  1. I guess we will have to settle for that after all.
  2. Thanks again havefuninsun and chicup. The travel-far-away option is good, ty. "Just having your picture walking into such a club would be enough" ^^^ Very true. Hence clubs are out. It has to be in some hotel, resort, or private property. I feel a bit confident after reading these posts and the advice jp51 gave me over mail, regarding how to locate high profile potential partners. Still as a second card up our sleeve, we would live to learn about any "mask"/haloween kind of party/event/club that members here may know of... you know where no one gets to know exactly who the other people are. Can someone help.
  3. Thanks very much for the message. And I replied too.
  4. That's the problem. I think our options are now limited to 1) working on that last line...what if they DON'T learn who we are ....masks could be the answer. 2) or finding a few like-minded people of similar er..."risk". Thanks again.
  5. I hope so. Does anyone have any experience of inviting or getting invited to a house party. Only invited people allowed to turn up. This scheme seems somewhat more secure, better than going to clubs.
  6. Well, it gets boring, just between the two of us. As for the money, how much do you think would the share prices of a middle level company plummet, if a scandal about its top guy hit the news?
  7. Thanks for the opinion. I just wish some enterprising person would cash in on this niche market and start a swing club exclusively to cater to the needs of "big risk/fear of exposure" types. Only people who themselves have a lot to lose reputation wise as well as financially, can participate lol. Or maybe there already are such clubs and societies like that "split wide open" type, which we don't know of. As a last ditch effort, we were thinking of swinging in lifelike masks or joining some kind of masked sex-party. I guess everything in life, even money and a bit of reputation, comes for a price.
  8. I certainly do not doubt the level of discretion and the desire to remain secret amongst swingers. But please understand that others have a chance to "sell the story" or "leak the pictures" to some newspaper in our case and make a few hundred thousand USD, if not more. We can gladly pay that kind of money - as long as they are legally bound to keep shut. What we cant afford is being "outed".
  9. Thanks very much for the welcome and the well thought of reply. You have made a lot of valid points - I won't reply to your post just yet, maybe after giving them some thought. The house party idea is good though. We dont want to become swingers really who would go to clubs and pick up a different set of people for every session. more like have a group of 6 (IE. 3 couples) trusted people - preferably with similar reputation as us at stake (that way they would have as much at stake as us and would never think of "leaking" to some news paper or something). We are also trying to contact very high profile clubs - I am sure they have received queries from people in similar predicament as ourselves - and maybe could hook us up. But thanks again for the reply.
  10. Thank you for your thoughts. Pls understsnd that I am not trying to pull rank here. Just so happens that in the next 5-10 years I am likely to be inducted into the board of directors of many companies. Maybe be nominated for some government body as well.
  11. I insinuated no such thing. Just pointed out that a lot more is at stake here. For example, if someone else gets found out that couple may lose their job. For me, the stock prices of my company may come down. totally different scales. Please try to empathize - if you were in my position, worth many millions and with a company to your name, you would feel similarly scared at the possibility of exposure. Yet, rich or not, me and my wife are no less or more human in our emotions and physical needs.
  12. How discrete can you be while swinging? We (me and better half) would not mind a bit of no-holds-barred fun once a month or so, but we must be 100% sure of preserving our identities. We are quite high in the corporate/entrepreneur ladder and are likely to become rather rich and powerful in future. So I ask - what options do we have? Are there clubs that are totally secret - even to the extent of allowing members with face masks or similar? Do any of you know of such places? Is it possible to "hire" a "couple" - you know the way people hire hookers - only in this case a male and a female prostitute are both hired for a session, possibly from some reputed agency. That way the guy and the girl will be duty bound by the laws of the agency to keep this a secret and not sell the story to some cheap magazine or something. If all these don't work, our last option is to find willing swingers/players from amongst our high class friends circle. or maybe go for a monetary contract with a couple or two. Does anyone have any other options?
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