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  • Birthday 09/05/1974

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    Couple
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    Eastern Ohio
  • Swinging Experience
    8 years

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    dynamicduoinohio

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  1. Disco has been bisexual pretty much her whole life. She had had many, many experienced with woman before we met. Guys too, but that's besides the point. We started swinging by happening upon instances where she was with another woman while I (and the other woman's partner, if applicable) watched. Like I said, it just kind of happened, fell into our lap. Hell, we didn't even know it was called swinging until later. The vast, vast, vast, vast, vast majority of our swinging encounters have been finding a woman lover for Disco. However, we've lately grown tired of this baby steps beginners play. We're hoping for a full swap thing, but we have ABSOLUTELY NO IDEA HOW TO MAKE THIS HAPPEN. If there's a recurring thought in all of our swinging life, it's "fall into our laps". We've found that if we put forth effort into it, it doesn't happen, and when we let things go, it happens.
  2. We got outed by my own mother and father. We were having a family dinner and casually my mom said that her boss saw Disco and I on a swing site (SLS). We did the turn the tables bit, asking her what her boss was doing on a swing site. It was dropped and never brought up again.
  3. I've watched Disco several times with other women. I've never seen her do anything with a guy... maybe that's why I want to see her with another guy, it's a new adventure. Guys have given her oral with me watching but she's never done anything to them. I'm happy to watch her in any encounter that unfolds before us. It's a team thing for us... it turns me on just knowing she's getting turned on. However that happens for us is good with me.
  4. I dunno Biloxi. There's more to meeting a couple than having sex with them, at least in our books. There's no rule that says they have to have sex - if it's not the right time/date, there's always another day.
  5. Like Spoo, I have behind me an ordained period where I performed religious rites to a Baptist congregation after a lengthy period of education in Theology. I've left that behind entirely, even depatriated myself from my title; you know, the whole formal reticence of faith. (Interestingly enough, I still hold the legal right to call myself The Reverend Lastname, because in my state ordination is a legal thing and not a church based thing. You can be disordained and retain the title.) I voted that I am Atheist. Disco is an Agnostic.
  6. You guys are familiar with screamers, right? The first time I was with my wife there was all kinds of noise and I'm not sure it was handled right. Apparently she had never been with a screamer before. Daddy makes a little noise in the sack. Nah, I'm just rattling off some Ron White comedy and yes, I know, I butchered it. Neither Disco or I are especially noisey in sexual scenarios. The closest we come to that is when Disco orgasms, she gives a bit of an UHHH!!! or something to that extent.
  7. No glove, no love with us. We don't care how well we know you. We don't care how up to date your STD test results are. We don't care that Disco had a tubal ligation and is more than likely not able to get pregnant. No glove, no love, period.
  8. We have three children, one together and she has two from a previous marriage. There's no way in hell we'd bring our kids along for a date. We barely even consider having the children at home asleep when we're meeting a couple in our home. I would consider this to be breaking an unsaid rule within the swinging lifestyle. The activity is an adult nature; getting to know and being friends with their kids takes this outside the range of swinging.
  9. It is true, and unfortunate, that the majority of swingers are going to automatically assume that you're going to play with both if you list yourself as bi-anything. You could list yourself as bi-trash container and the majority is just going to read the BI part. You could list yourself as straight to give yourself some room, but then you're going to run the risk of missing that couple with a bi female that you may have wanted to play with. You'll get a lot of straight couples trying to contact you in that case, which isn't a problem as far as we can guess from you - you are, after all, wanting to rest from having so many people pressure you into something you're not ready for yet. If you're comfortable with straight play, by all means don't cut yourself out of it just because you bang the idea of women around too. Living in the bi-curious position is a tough place to be. You're either going to get bothered by people wanting you to do something you don't want to do yet, or you're going to run the risk of missing out on that special someone you did want to get with after all. Whatever you decide, good luck to you.
  10. I guess it all boils down to the fact that we'd like to reconcile the past and go from here. Smile smile
  11. After... what's it been now? Two weeks? Something like that. Anyways, after approximately two weeks of talking about the incident, our individual desires, what we'd like from each other... you know, talking over pretty much everything, we've come to some conclusions. First and foremost, we love each other. This means we don't need extras to fulfill anything in the other person. We are willing, capable, and desireing of each other that we don't need more to complete the picture. We have settled in on the fact that Disco is bisexual and desires sexual contact with other women, which has untill now been fulfilled in her through our misadventures in swinging. This doesn't need to stop. We have settled in on the fact that Vyper likes to see her with other women, but wishes things would go further than just the two women playing. This was fulfilled about two weeks ago, and even though it wasn't the greatest episode in swinging history it is now stored as a favored memory on at least Vyper's part. Vyper believes he could keep this memory burning well enough to satisfy his desire to see Disco with other men for some time. Not forever, but enough that she doesn't need to rush right out and do it again. Disco has little desire for other men for reasons she's not quite expained to satisfaction, but since she does not want to explain it more that's the best we can do for now. However, since she knows now that Vyper's desire to see her with other men is a truth and not a fiction like she was used to with her ex, her love of Vyper will translate on her interacting with men more often just to make him happy. It's not something she's abhorring, she just didn't feel the want enough to make her take action on her own. She will now do this just because she wants to make me happy. In turn, Disco has a fantasy of seeing Vyper with other women. Don't get me wrong, getting a little strange is fun. I just had no real push to do it. Much like how Disco wasn't abhorring it, just didn't feel the need, Vyper doesn't turn the idea down. It's more a giving to her thing than a getting for him. It'll be performed knowing that she's enjoying it very much. We are both young, relative to the average swinger, and we're going to make our mistakes. We believe that we can work through the mistakes, correcting them, and turn out better in our relationship. Neither of us want to give up swinging, so our best bet is to read boards like this one carefully and ask as many questions if we can. So, if you find us asking an annoying amount of questions please understand that we're still pretty new to this even though we've been "in the business" for several years. And that's what we've come up with. She does it to please him, he does it to please her.
  12. /me takes his hamster dick and goes home then.
  13. I didn't tell you, did I Concupiscence? It was ok, though I didn't get much into it. We were still in the oral sex stages when Disco and he "broke the ice". I enjoyed seeing Disco being taken by another man so much that I ... "ended prematurely". The other lady didn't take offense, thank god. Though, to be honest, I didn't really care to be with her. She's pretty and she knows what she's doing sexually, but my fantasy has always really been to see Disco with another man. Sure, getting some strange was nice enough, but I could have foregone it all just to see Disco do her thing. This isn't to say that I'll never break the ice myself and have intercourse with another woman. I know Disco wants to see me do that - she's expressed the interest longer than I've expressed interest in seeing her with another man. I'll do it as soon as I can to give Disco what she wanted, but on a personal note I feel no pressure to perform since it's not in my wish list. I guess Disco's one score up on me now. Time for Vyper to even the score! And I have my own personal wish list handy of who I would want to even the score with.
  14. I think it's time I replied... Yes, I didn't go for men for a long time... my only real answers I can give are that I didn't know if Vyper would go ballistic if I did anything with them... I don't like men as well as I like women... I have Vyper and he's enough for me... and most men are terrible in bed... You'd be hard pressed to find a woman who isnt good at giving oral sex... I didn't really have any idea that Vyper wanted to see me with other men... he's talked about it but I didnt think he was serious... I always take sexual talk with a grain of salt... call me strange but my ex would come up with all kinds of strange things during sex talk... I didn't think Vyper was different than my ex... my fault... I agreed to meet the couple because Vyper told me he really wanted to see what could happen with this couple again... I expected it to go how it always went before... when he touched me, Vyper's face lit up and I knew he was indeed serious about his request... So... I guess... I have some thinking to do to see if I ever want to do that again... I realise he could have been overexcited so he didn't last long... but that may also be the role I'm expected to play for the rest of our time... I don't really know what to say to all of this...
  15. Shelly, you reiterate what I asked my wife to do a year ago. We've had some shaky times with each other and we've always made it through them together, but I'd rather never have the shaky time to begin with. I am of the impression that one can be in the lifestyle and be in marriage counseling at the same time. After all, there's more to a marriage than sexual relations with each other or even other people. While our sex life is something of an issue as it relates to playing with other people, our sex life together and our non-sex life together is pretty good. What I'm saying is that the only real problem we have together is A, the trusting what she says part, and B, the sex with others part. I think the two are related, but don't have to negate each other out. I may be wrong. Anyways, for the news you all have been waiting on: We had our little fling this past weekend. Nothing major, no KEN AND BARBIE ROXXORED OUR BOXXORES. Instead, a couple came over we've played with before in as much as we were playing to begin with. The kids were gone, the people were pretty familiar. Everything was prime for what we were planning on. We partied it up together for several hours, played cards, and if you know anything about me I steered it in my usual direction, towards sex! Everyone got naked, Disco began toying with the male of the other couple, and what would you know, she had sex with him. THE GUY LASTED TWO MINUTES!! Still, I thought it was amazing. She thought it was ok while it lasted. I can't blame the guy, after all Disco is the hottest woman on the friggin planet and she is rather ... "small" in the woman categories. Who can blame the guy for lasting two whole minutes? I believe Disco when she says it'll be more routine, we'll just not be with that guy untill he can learn a little restraint. Or, she can teach him. In the end, we broke new ground. Thanks for all your advice.
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