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mickey&minnie

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About mickey&minnie

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    Contributor
  • Birthday 12/03/1972

Personal Info

  • Relationship Status
    married couple
  • Location
    Florida
  • Interests
    fishing, boating, golf, cooking
  • Occupation
    M-constr.F-RN
  • Swinging Experience
    Talking about it and ready to start

Swinger Info

  • SLS Name
    mickey&minnie
  1. My goodness, this was a long thread to read. In answer to the question...I do not find bi males hot. Let me rephrase that, I do not find 2 males doing it to each other hot. I have seen very hot looking bi males and even gay males, but I am not interested in seeing them do each other. It has nothing to do with respect or any other issue other than it just doesn't turn me on. Everyone has their own opinion. I don't think less of anyone who does that or who likes that. If they enjoy it who cares? What I think is weird is that I like watching porn with 2 females and I am bi curious, (of course Mr. Mouse likes this fact). If we see a profile that has a bi/bi curious male, we do not contact or say No Thank You. Its just a personal preference. We have bi and gay friends, but its just not for us Minnie
  2. Well, do I feel stupid. I answered wrong. I am at work just finished lunch and half dozeing off . I answered freshmen before I finished reading all of them. (I thought freshman was "no experience) We are happily awaiting graduation. We have found a couple, met for dinner, just waiting for a time when each of us couples are free for a nite of fun. Minnie
  3. Seattle-I am very impressed with your post. We are newbies also, we have our first "date" tomorrow nite. (just dinner to get to know them) But we are so excited. The idea with us started one nite when we were watching a porno and hubby asked why I always liked the lesbian porn and I told him because the female body is much sexier than a male and I have no desire to see 2 men "doing it" plus most of the males on porn are not that attractive. He asked if I had female fantasies and we got started talking from there. We have been talking for months about the lifestyle and our wants and our fears. One of the best things we have done is go to the situational help forum and read the posts, then we talk about what we would do in the same situation. When we go out, we discuss others and try and see who the other finds attractive. Its lots of fun and sexy too. I am very impressed that you talked to your SO instead of cheating on her!!! Gold star for you. I think you both will be fine. I have learned that communication is the key. Our relationship has improved so much and all we have done so far is talk. Good luck to you. Minnie
  4. We'll keep your secret for only 2 million!!!! Everyone has some issues with this. I don't want to be outed either as I would lose my job. My advise is to travel to where you will not be known. You said you have money, go somewhere. Minnie
  5. Well, I prefer not to have it in my mouth at all. I had a very bad experience with the first BJ I ever gave, the guy held my head down and would not let me up. I felt like I was choking and he did not care, needless to say, when he finally did let me up I spit it in his face. It was mean I know but he forced me to do something I was not ready to do. I have tried with my hubby 3 or 4 times and my gag reflex acts up. I really want to for him, but he understands and never forces the issue. I appreciate that. Its been a while since I have tried (probably 2 years) so maybe I'll surprise him and try again. Minnie
  6. Well, my mom and I have always had a pretty open communication about sex. She told me when I was in my early teens that my grandmother NEVER talked about sex and she did not want me to feel the way she did when she was younger. Mom said since my grandmother never spoke of sex that she(mom) had to learn on her own. Thats how she ended up pregnant at 15.(Along with believing what the boy said about not getting pregnant) So here I am and mom said that she wanted me to be educated and not ashamed to talk about sex. Its been 20 years since that talk and I appreciate it more than she will ever know. We talk about sex all the time (not the intimate details but sex in general) I had to actually explain to her how to masterbate and have a clit orgasm!!!(When I was much older of course). She had no one to tell her what to do and she did not like sex much. After our conversations as I got older, I told her to go get toys and all that. Now I just like to freak her out, I tell her what toys I have and all that. I even told her I went and got those bondage bedsheets, you know the ones where the cuff things velcro to the sheet...the most awesome thing I have ever bought and well worth the money, anyways she laughed so hard that she almost peed in her pants, but I hope she might consider buying them for her and dad. Getting off the point here, We have always talked and thanks to her, I am not ashamed of my sexuality, I was educated...never had a STD, didn't get pregnant til I was ready and I now talk, age appropriatly of course, to my son. I want my son to feel comfortable coming to me with his questions as he gets older. I know my parents have sex, it doesn't really bother me. I wonder if it bothers my DAD that I have sex? He probably thinks I am still a virgin Minnie
  7. OMG..swingers camp, that sounds like so much fun. I can't wait to move back to KY so we will have a babysitter and we can go to clubs and camps. We live in FL now and we don't know anyone so its hard to get away from the little one. I am sooo excited for you. Just go and have fun. Let us know how it goes cause once we move....watch out KY!!!! (Then I'll be the one asking all the questions and freaking out ) Minnie
  8. Well, I can't get past our UPS guy's cologne. I really hope that's what the smell is. He smells like the inside of a hamster cage. Is there a cologne that smells like cedar chips? It's awful, instead of calling him the UPS guy, we call him Hamster guy. It's mean, I know, but sometimes I just want to tell him that he smells bad and needs to change it. The whole place smells like that after he leaves.
  9. Please let me know how ours looks on SLS mickeyminnie, and on AFF mickey&minnie. Thanks Minnie
  10. (Post #19 ) We do not get the chance to be selective. I am a bigger girl and because of that we don't get to many responses. Even though I am very smart and fun and pretty, alot of people see BBW and immediatly turn the other way. Thats ok with me because when I do get this extra weight off I will be one of the "beautiful ones" again and boy will they be sorry!! Minnie
  11. Well as a newbie couple, I can say our relationship has improved. We communicate more now than ever. Our sex life is great also. We are still looking for our first encounter, but we read all the forums together and talk about what we would do in the same situation. We talk about our fantasies and what we want for each other. After reading here we have come to the conclusion that swinger couples for the majority are the most committed and loving. They all say that communication with your partner is the key. We have been having so much fun looking at people in stores/restuarants etc and picking out who we think the other would like. I love my hubby more than anything and really want to experience swinging for "us".
  12. I have to say that I have not contacted some of the people I have wanted to because I have been afraid of them being out of my league. I am a big girl and don't contact thinner people because of this. My hubby and I are new at this and we look at profiles all the time and he'll ask me why don't you contact them and I say "Please, like they would ever consider me!!" I guess I need to get out of this mind frame or we will never meet anyone. I just figured Ken and Barbie were searching for Ken and Barbie. I never considered thinner people would like a big girl, even though I am very pretty and smart and can hold a decent conversation, I am funny too LOL Minnie
  13. OMG, this has really cheered me up!!! I have never laughed so hard. I got brave yesterday and e-mailed a cute girl on another site and she turned me down (politely) but I was a little bummed as it was the first time I tried to contact someone first. Oh well, I feel lots better after reading this. LOL. We are brand new to this and even we know that this guy is off his rocker! He sound like he is just looking to get laid and not in this for his SO. The thing that really got me was him saying he would cum on a woman even if it was against the "rules" Some lady is gonna pull a Lorena Bobbit on him!!! "He's half the man he used to be......" Minnie
  14. Well now, I am a BBW. I haven't put pictures up yet cause I am new here and just haven't figured out the pic thing yet. I put BBW because I am big. I will not put my weight in pounds(or kilograms) because I feel I do not look like I weigh as much as I do. I am comfortable with my looks. Don't get me wrong, I am working to lose weight, but I feel I am beautiful none the less. I put BBW so that others are aware that I am heavy. I know that some people are looking for "Barbie" and I accept that knocks me off their list and that is fine by me. Everyone has different views of what they find attractive. I have seen some "skinny" people that I do not find attractive, and others do. Same with heavy people. I am 5'4'' , long curly red hair, blue-gray eyes, big boobs, and a beautiful smile. I have an awesome personality but I am heavy. When I see BBW, I still check out the profile and my hubby does the same. I think that people put that just to let others know that they are heavy and if they are looking for Barbie and Ken not to look there. I feel that putting BBW is aleast being honest. just my 2 cents worth minnie
  15. Well we discussed it last night and we will be in the same room, for safety issues and also for the imagination issue LOL. I think it would be worse if we were separate at this point since we are brand new. Hubby agrees and we will just enjoy eachother enjoying others. Minnie
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