TL31

I did not see if you had posted this before but is there going to be drinking there? Because if the is I can tell you right now you get that many guys drinking and mix in sex with only one woman and its just bad. Control is going to go out the window so fast it won't be funny. There is no way anyone can tell you what could happen. All anyone can do is give you maybe's. If you love your wife and you want to keep her safe I would really think long and hard about all the maybe's and rape is a big maybe I can see happening there. Talk to her and if she/you think she should still go through with it then go with her if things spiral out of control then you guys have an out. I just hear a little voice screaming that the whole thing smacks danger.

Everyone has given great advice here. I can only say the same thing you really need to talk to each other not at or around each other. My husband and I got married in our early 20's and had all 3 of our kids within the first 4 years. I stayed at home while he worked long hours. It cause alot of issues with each other because instead of talking to each other we talked around or at. We both started spending more time online then with each other and it hurt our marriage. I know from my point I thought key word there is thought. I thought I was getting more attention from the people I talked to online then from my own husband. We both look back at it now and shake our heads. We know now if we had just took the time to sit down and talk to each other we would have save alot of heart ache in the long run. Its been 9 1/2 years together now and we are still learning everyday new things to keep our marriage on the right road. But if you can sit down and talk be as open as you can with each other hold nothing back. You 2 might find out there is a problem that she is trying to fix by being online with these other guys. And hopefully you can fix it and move on to a better place in your marriage. I hope that helps you I know a bit of what you are going through and it breaks my heart to see others hurting in that way.

Ok I am sorry but you think she will be alright? 20-24 guys and they will be wearing condoms? To me that still sounds like danger danger run. How can anyone control that many guys? To me it sounds to iffy to leave up in the air. But that's just my 2 cents.