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MattnCynn

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  1. Thanks for all your replies. We are going to go to a club again this wknd. I think he is feeling more relaxed about it all now. I was thinking about arriving early and maybe playing just the 2 of us to start the night out. Maybe that will help him relax a little. What do you guys think? Any other suggestions??
  2. I was wondering if there were any men willing to share their feelings about their first couple of experiences? Did any of you have any ego issues to deal with?? Did you worry so much about being able to perform that you couldnt get hard?? Did you like seeing your wife with another man or did you worry that she was enjoying him too much?? Hubby and I met a couple at a club last wknd. We fooled around a little by the dance floor. Hubby had a problem getting hard even tho he received attention by 2 different women. which by the way I really enjoyed watching facelick . I knew something was bugging him so I took him to a private corner to talk to him. He had no problem getting hard then and we had a great time with just the two of us. He now is so down on himself about not being able to get an erection when he was with the other women. Even tho he was told this can and probably would happen. Are there any men on this board that had this problem and would be willing to share their experience. I think it would help him to read what some of you guys were feeling or problems you might have had when you first started out. Thanks Cindy
  3. Thanks guys for all the advice. I just knew I joined the right forum!!
  4. I may use the line about the tongue it is very true. Thanks for the suggestion I hadn't even thought of that. He started comparing himself to a few of the men that have posted pics on another site we visit. I don't think he realizes a really close up pic tends to make it look bigger lol. I was really surprised to find out he had this issue. I have always been the one to have issues with my body. He has always been confident and comfortable with his body. Any advice about the not being able to perform??? I have read several posts and realize that it is a good possibility that it will happen the first time. How do I get across to him that most men have had this problem and the women will be understanding because their man probably went thru it also?
  5. We have been talking about this for a long time. This last weekend we went to a local club and enjoyed ourselves. We are taking things slow and pretty much just observed and took in the atmosphere. We loved it and are planning on returning in a couple of weeks. My question is how to get him over thinking about how he measures up to the other men (he is average not small). He also is so worried about getting nervous and not being able to perform. Even after the host of the club told him most men do have that problem their first time he still cant seem to get over it. Also while I am here how do you go about introducing yourself to another couple at the club and letting them know you are interested? We are both on the shy side until we get to know people. Or how do you know they might be interested? Really new at all this and not sure how things go.
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