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Weezie

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About Weezie

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  • Birthday 03/27/1972

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    female half of a couple
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    MS Gulf Coast
  1. I was told that 20/20 will air the segment on swinging this Friday night at 9pm. Our friends, who were interviewed, say it's a very positive piece on the lifestyle.
  2. We recently played with a couple that lit up a joint right in front of us. They asked if we wanted some; we said no we don't do that. It was actually no different than us having a drink to unwind. They don't drink. We don't think any less of them for it.
  3. I orginally didn't want any part in this. I realized somewhere along the way that I got attention from men. This was a very powerful feeling and I felt very sexy....so, here we are!
  4. I voted for everything but the pussy rubbing. I guess I get off more from penetration. My favorite is the strap on, although I have found that alot of women don't care for that. I've always had a case of penis envy...lol! The receiving oral is always good, but I have to admit I don't always return the favor. There have been only a few times when I have just felt so compelled to go down on her too. But when I do it's great!
  5. ok, to each his own....but I've never thought of another human being as a sex toy. I certainly hope some of the people we've played with don't think of us as that. If all we needed we're toys we wouldn't be in this lifestyle. Do you toss them aside when batteries die or they break?LOL
  6. What do you do if you don't kiss? I think that would feel really funny, not kissing someone I'm intimate with. Kissing is fun! It's one of my stonger areas.
  7. We don't find this to be a very good gauge. Everyone's view of HWP is different it seems. We get exact height and weight (if they aren't lying) and ask for pictures and then decide.
  8. We don't really have a method of operation. We do whatever seems to work in that situation with that particular couple. We chat online quite a bit (if they are willing) and we can agree to meet somewhere for dinner if everyone feels they click. We have met couples for dinner and that was that...sometimes things just don't happen,but it's not the end of the world. We tell people we don't play on a first meeting, but it's not out of the question either if everyone is feeling alright about it:fun: . We also go to socials and parties and actually meet people face to face that we have never talked to before online. Neither one of us sees ourselves as very outgoing,but believe it or not, in a social situation like that we have seemed to do well. We have made many friends. Now, as far as "highschoolish"...yea,we've been there. We didn't like it. We stepped out of the lifestyle for a few months,but soon realized we missed all the fun way too much. Coming back into it I said no "friends" in this...just sex. That didn't last long. Before we knew it we had made friends again...and it's not all that bad.
  9. This might relate to another thread, but I had to come here and get this off my chest. We have had several new couples contact us online thru profiles we have posted. We chat with them online to see if there's a connection first. One of the very first questions asked is, "is he hung?". Does this seem a bit crude to y'all? Seems like all they care about is size (even the size of my breast or the tightness of my vagina), not that we are lacking by any means. This just turns us off!
  10. Done it on a boat before. This coming weekend we're going camping with some friends. We've gotten all worked up about doing it in the woods. Hope there's not too many bugs...LOL!
  11. We try to plan around periods, but it can't always be avoided. I would say go any way and just have fun. Don't go with the idea of playing in mind. Go to socailize and have a good time. Most people who are really interested will understand your situation.
  12. What about them testing the guy for STD's and him coming up positive for Hep C? Is this accurate? Now people are going to think all swingers have some sort of disease. I think most people in the lifestyle take care of themselves and take precautions. I guess from a medical standpoint it had to be addressed.
  13. We do not have any children so I have no real advice here. I was just wondering when a child comes across something that he's not supposed to see, would it be better to shield the child and make a huge issue over it (making him scared or ashamed) or laugh it off and make light of it? We do have some friends with 3 young teenagers and yes, they have found mom's toys. Her and her new husband made light of it and told them to stay out of their room. The kids thought it was too funny...the youngest child went and hid the dildo in the oldest one's dresser drawer, only to act like he was looking for socks when he came across it! To get the youngest child back, the oldest blew condoms up and put them all over his bed and then covered his door handle with one! Now, I don't mean to get away from the seriousness of this subject, but this was hilarious when they were telling us about it! LOL! This was classic; even better than the time the middle one found the box to their swing. I'm sure it'll come back to bite me in the butt one day.
  14. We generally like to know a couple first. However, that can vary from a few hours to a few weeks to a few months. We have been known to see that we click with a couple after just having dinner and then gone for it. Sometimes it's fun to be spontanous. We have always kept in close touch with our fast accquaintances afterwards.
  15. It's hard to tell people that there just isn't a connection. I hate to say this but we've not answered emails and fallen off the face of the earth. I just can't be mean or ugly to someone so I guess that's why we take the silent approach. Sorry. People have rejected us. It hurts like hell, I won't lie. My husband takes it better than I do. I am extremely sensitive and get very upset over it. It is a major flaw of mine and I wish I could roll with the punches better. And this ties in with this also...Our good friend just moved away so I understand she is really busy right now, but I have this horrible nagging feeling. I feel like she's always in a hurry and trying to get rid of me. I feel like I'm being a burden to her. Conversations prove otherwise, so why do I still feel this way? Or am I just sad because she's gone? ()()
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