balearsun

Hello Trixie, First off, don't give up on your search; sometimes it's where you look that will yield the results you want. I have been that single guy for a while now and have met a few women (on AFF) and a couple (Swinglifestyle), and they all told me at one time or another that by and far the bulk of mail they get from single guys is garbage, as in the type of guys you are talking about. I have an inkling that you are more apt to fing the right person here. Probably someone who has some experience and understands that you are allowed to play alone. As someone else said above, I don't know what your profile says, but I would think if you word it right and make it clear you have no time to waste on losers, that might help you weed them out. Good luck! There are a few good ones out there

With all due respect, I think a big deal is being made of what seems like an honest answer. Someone posted earlier that guys are quite adept at sticking their foot in their mouth and, being one of those guys, I can say it is true. That, however, doesn't mean the guy in question was being rude or disrespectul, and the second encounter probably proves this point, since he was being so attentive. Also, if someone doesn't want to hear a truthful answer to their question, why ask it in the first place? Listen ladies, some of us males don't have the intelligence make up to play mind games, especially when interacting with you, loveliest women. When you say no, that means no, right? It doesn't mean maybe, it doesn't mean try harder. So, please give us a break. Mind reading belongs on a stage, not in the bedroom.